Of course I won’t send it to him, but I just wanted to see what you thought of it and if you think telling him this stuff will help get him back (??)

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Dear ex,

I hope all is well. I am writing this letter as part of my healing process, to be able to feel the feeling.

I am mostly angry with myself for having let you run away from me. I am angry that I was so distant and that I did not let you get close, I am angry that I was not myself fully, I am angry that I expected so much from you without giving you anything in return. I am angry that you could not see through me and understand that I was scared to feel and scared to let go, and I am angry you did not try harder. I am angry that you did not like me (though it is my fault). I am angry that I have yet another reason to hate myself. I am angry that I could not give you what you deserved and love you to the fullest. I am sad, baby, because I lost you and there is no way back.

I fear this break up means going back to my old depressive me, the me that hated herself and that did not believe anyone could love her. I fear that really, there will be no one else and that it will just leave one big whole that will mess up the rest of my life, namely my professional life. I fear that I will live out my life being single, never having been kissed. I fear that I will continue my boring old life.

I am always going to love your kindness and honesty, purity, good heart, and above all the fact that you tried liking me for me. I am scared I won’t find a person like you out there. I love the fact that you are so confident while being so humble. I will miss you like hell.

I love you, I just wish you were not my first experience, I wish I knew better. However, unfortunately, there is no time machine, this is why I will just let go and move on. But you know, even if I do move on, I know I will never ever find anyone like you and somewhere in my heart, I will always have a little remorse.
well, i wrote this letter as suggested on this website, if anyone is interested to read more about the healing process (I am just trying it out, don’t know if it will even work ):

http://www.therelationshipgym.com/how_to_get_over_a_break_up.htm

Tags: Fake Letter, first experience, good heart, healing process, Heart Break, hell, honesty, kindness, professional life, purity, remorse, rest of my life, time machine, writing this letter

this guy i dated for only 2 weeks…..but…fell for him very hard..convinced me it’ll all be alright, he loved me,…and…i let my self be so vulnerable!!!!!!!! now for the 5 time hes hurt me, ive never had my heart f***ed with so much. how do i move on, how do i get over this?

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I’m experiencing my first heart break and, I was wondering what I should do when I have thoughts of my ex. Is it best to just think about him and allow myself to get sad, or should I try to distract my thoughts away from him? Thanks for any help!

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I cant stop thinking of my ex. I’m devastated, i truly love him and can’t control my feelings. I eat and puke every time, i lost 3 kg in just 1 week.
How can i stop my mind pondering and thinking of him?
p.s. I’m 22 and this is a second heart break ,i can’t take it anymore and i think that i will never find someone else ever.

Tags: broken heart, feelings, Heart Break, kg, puke

Not to sound cliched or anything, but how does one mend a broken heart?

What things can one do to alleviate the situation? (and no jumping from guy to guy or girl to girl!)

How long does one feel heartbreak for?

What does one do when they see or are in a situation where there must be contact with the one that caused the heart break?

A general question, so I can try and figure this out..

Tags: broken heart, Heart Break, heartbreak