my heart is broken, and i dont know what to do !

how can i get over someone , and mend a broken heart ?

help please .

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Let’s see… So there’s a teen aged girl who fell in love with a guy that loved her back. One day, the two of them have a little chat about what the boy would do if the girl got scared and chose to break up. He came to the conclusion that if that would really happen, he would walk away and stay out of her life, being her choice after all. Time passes and the girl gets scared. She tells him she can’t be with him anymore. The boy keeps his word and stays out. After a short period of time, she realises she has done the stupidest thing ever, and tries to fix everything. The boy still keeps his word.
Until she gets a good answer from him, the girl is heart broken.
What should she do?
Sounds easier when someone says it…
Thank you!

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I was in a 13-month interracial relationship. It was not easy for both of us:

- he cannot be committed to me without his family rejection over a interracial marriage
- he cannot express his feeling because english is not his first language
- he cannot be himself becuase he cannot speak hindi with me
- his mom kept pushing him for marriage, but he can’t tell his mom about me
- I feel seperated/lonely whenever i hang out with his friends.
- I feel insecure about the whole situation from the beginning to the end – worried when he is going to get arranged with another girl in his culture
- I feel i cannot connect with him and there is a gap between us.
- I feel desperate…i want light in the relationship, but it is always dark
- We like each other, we enjoy each other’s companies, we talk to each other in numerous hours of phone calls everyday

Despite all these, we managed to be together for 1 year. We were, in general, very happy together, but wenever we both talk about/think of the future. We ended up talking about breaking up. So, this time is finally 99.99%.

He decided to break up with me because his friend has a similar issue like ours. She chose to marry the man despite of the family’s disappoval. The family is now no longer calling her their daughter!

This is like a series of scences in a drama:

1. He was very strong-willed. He told me strongly, "I don’t like you, that’s it. I cannot do this anymore. Even now i feel intensed to be in a relationship with you, it will be 100x more intensed after i told my parents about you."

2. He still called me for the next two days and told me how much he missed calling me sweety..So i asked what does he want, he responded the same way as before.

3. I msged him and snapped ties with him. He regret for saying no to me cus I "may be the best thing he will ever have".

4. The next day, I called him and decided to ask him what’s his intention for saying that. He said "he doesn’t know what he is doing." but he still insisted of snapping ties, so i agreed.

He is going back to his native land to visit his parents in 2 weeks. I don’t know whether i should hope for anything at this point. I am so worried he is going to find another girl during his visit. I have so much stress in myself and i feel very sad. I feel hopeless and have thought of hurting myself to ease my pain from my heart.

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It’s funny, I can handle failing a test, getting rejected from an interview, getting fired from job, slipping and falling on my face in the middle of a crowd of people… I just smile and forget about it…. but I have an emotional crisis whenever I get my heart broken.

What do you do to heal a broken heart? (personally I mean, what works for you?)

Me, I take a couple of days off and cry alone in my bed, watching episodes of Ally McBeal (she is just like me – always picking the wrong guys) and drinking lots of diet coke, then I throw myself into work and spend countless hours at the gym doing weight lifting and kickboxing (I like to imagine him as the punching bag)… then I usually swear off love and men for a long time…. then one day this man always comes along restores my faith in love only to hurt me again…. this time I think I am swearing off love for good. I am getting too old for this emotional tossing and turning! From this point on, I vow to be alone!!! Alone is much better than this torture.

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i just had my heart broken my bf of 2 months texted me in 4th hour that its over…. I started crying from 4th hour to 7th hour and now im still crying…. i was in love with him… Ive been crying and crying and crying….. ive been listening to sad emo music….and thinking of suicide this is the start of a deep depression PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I am writing my own little story, more like a manga. which is basically a picture book. It’s is about a boy that lost his best friend, a girl, and he’s trying to figure out what happened to her, along with trying to overcome his sadness and sorrow. Along the way he meets someone new, someone that helps him. But the question is, which sounds better? To Mend a Broken Heart, or To Save A Broken Heart?

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What can you say to a friend that has just got her heart broken? Something inspirational, that will let her know I care very much

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Few things are more painful than having your heart broken. In this article we’ll discuss how to get over a broken heart.

Both men and women experience the pain of breaking up. Sometimes you are the one who called it off and other times your ex did, but in either case, there is pain on both sides. And, sometimes the break up happened for good reasons while other times it seemed to go up in a puff of smoke for no reason at all. These can be the most painful of all.

If you don’t go about getting over the break up though, there can be some serious consequences. Don’t fall into the trap of lingering over a lost love. The worst trap of all is to start to write a “victim story” that makes you the protagonist in a tale of love gone bad.

First of all, you should realize that if you don’t get over your ex, it will be toxic to any future relationship you might have.

Second, realize that you can’t run away from it, medicate it, or suppress it. You have to face the pain head on and deal with it.

There’s no way out of a broken heart. There’s only a way through. Accept that there is going to be pain. Use the time during this period to understand the hurt. Some ways to do this are to write in a journal, get counseling, or pour your heart out in song. Realize there are no quick solutions to getting over break up.

Next, you need to examine whether there is anything in your past that would have lead to this break up. For instance, did the abuse in your childhood cause you to be an abuser in this relationship? Take note of those things because they will help you foster healthier relationships in the future.

Don’t paint yourself as the victim of the relationship either. Take responsibility for your actions. While your ex may have been the one whose “fault” was the immediate cause of the break up, the truth is that the underlying circumstances were caused by both of you.

By getting rid of your “victim story” you become a healthier, more attractive partner for a future boyfriend or girlfriend. You’ll begin to see that your “victim story” was composed of beliefs, attitudes and thoughts that color your perceptions about everything. It becomes a self fulfilling prophesy.

When you handle your broken heart badly, you perpetuate your pain. You’ll never go about getting over break up.

But, when you can handle your emotions with the ultimate goal of letting them go, you enable healing.

Getting over a broken heart takes work. It also takes time. Don’t underestimate the factors which go into curing your heartbreak.

You’ve just lost a person who was extremely important to your life. But, use this time for growth and you will become a stronger person and have better relationships in the future. That is how you really go about getting over break up.

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my heart is really feel hard rite now..
i cant even sleep n eat much like before as im always thinking of a guy who already left me..he cheated on me n i know he such a bad guy.. but deep inside my heart im still love him n i want him to b happy..but i cant forget every moments tht we built together n i frustrated n teribbly sad..

plz help me..
how i can forget this man..???

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When you are in the process of mending a broken heart, broken dreams with that someone special – you cannot find good things in it. Im just wondering, were there persons in this world who became thankful that they undergone a broken heart and feel lucky that they didnt end up with a man they thought is the "best guy" for her..
Thanks for your answers

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Am really heart broken i just feel like loosing my life how do i deal with it i feel so used stupid and betrayed.

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I met & fell in love with a man younger than me. We had a solid relationship till my now ex-bestfriend went & told lies to him about me. She was jealous because all my attention was with him. She just didnt like the fact that she wasnt getting my total attention anymore. She had no one to use or scam so she went after my baby. She’s a really bad person &I tried to protect him from her evil ways but he wont listen to me. She has him believing Im a liar & more. When in fact she’s the one that uses men for money & does what it takes to get them to trust & fall for her & when she’s tired of them, treats them like dirt. My heart is broken cos I gave this man all my heart, love & soul. I just dont give that to just anyone. He’s a really good loving man. If anyone can help me heal this torn, broken heart, I really need some solid good advice. I dont want bad comments or mean things. I just need to get back my happy life that I use to have. Im just very torn up about this. Ty. TC & be safe.

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Tried glue, tape, and pins too but nothing will mend this broken heart. Not a broken heart form the love of my life but the love a parent has for a child. What do you use when all these will not do?

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She broke up with me cuz she says i deserve better? I feel very very heart broken she’s my 1st make out and she’s the 1st girlfriend ive hung out with in real life outside school. I feel scarred cuz i wanted my 1st kiss to be someone very special but i guess she wasn’t and what breaks my heart even more is that those times she didn’t text me back for HOURS was because she was off getting high! and that’s another reason she broke my heart cuz she knows im not into girls who smoke and drink. I feel stupid for dating her urgh i juss hate her and it hurts cuz i fell in love with her and i still am its not so easy to recover! SOMEBODY HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
Or can i have someones Yahoo so we can chat that can help alot

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Can a broken heart love again?

If someone loves someone badly and gets their heart broken, it will take so much time to heal the pain, but the person with the broken heart loves again. Tell me, can we love again like we loved the first person in our loves? I think a broken heart does not love again very easily. What do you think?

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