My boyfriend and I of 2.5 years just broke up, and we’ve been through hell together, divorces, deaths, hospital visits, everything. He started liking another girl, and my brain is ready to move on, but my heart cant seem to let go. I did the breaking, since he had started rumors around school that he was breaking up with me the day after; when i asked him about it, he said it was happening and that i should enjoy my last day with him, so i broke up with him sooner rather than later. The truth is, though, i never wanted to break up with him and i still like him a lot, but i dont trust him. He appeared to have cheated on me, but didnt so i dont fully trust him, and now, hes going after a really easy girl and flaunting it at me!! I’m annoyed at it and wish it would stop! What does this mean? What’s he trying to say? Should I do anything in return to stop the annoying behavior or now? And if so, what should I do?

Tags: annoying behavior, brain, deaths, easy girl, Getting Over An Ex, heart, hell, hes, Move On 98, truth

i was with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he put me through hell, i did everything for him i ditched my family and friends without realising it, he has knocked my confidence and know iv found out he has been cheating on me and know i want to get him back and hurt him . . . how do i do this?

Tags: 3 years, Cheating, confidence, Ex Boyfriend, family and friends, hell, Realising

Anyone have any advice for me? On how to get your exback i haven’t spoken to him all week i have ignored him and i stoped trying to contact him for a week now. Because like two weeks ago he brokeup with me on a tuesday and i tryed talking to him and he just seemed like he didnt want to but he did and he seems like he still cares and he said that he loved me and all im just so confused. I honestly think and his parents think its because of his band ever since he has been in it he just ended up making it his life and his number one and two of his friends are bad influences and his parents are really upset because they miss me and my daughter and they love us and they still want to see us and want us to visit them. And his mom was crying and gave me a huge saying she wishes some day i become her daughter in law. Well anyways iam not sure when he will talk to me idk what to do because i thought i blew it on halloween because his band had a show at the same place as my friends band and he didnt really think it was a good idea for me to go because he was afraid i was going to cause a scene and well after he played i tryed talking to him and he just freaked out yelling at me and so on monday his mom came over to talk to me because i was so upset about what happened and i was upset because he wrote to me saying he was on the fence of things until that happen so idk what the hell to do i love him we were together for almost 2years our 2 year is suppose to be this 11th coming up =/ and i have been talking to his mom and she said that she and his father talked to him and they said that he will contact you and they told him to comly talk to me bc. he does have a temper problem. And i just want him back even if he does have issues who doesnt? idk i really miss him and i feel like he was my soul mate and i feel like i mest up because he felt like things werent going to move forward b.c. i didnt have a job yet and i have been trying to find one but its just to dam hard now days to find one and we were suppose to move out together he gave me a promise ring for our one year and he said he has never done that before and iam his longest relationship so i need advice QUICK! on How to get him back because i really feel like and his parents feel like he is going backwards down a bad path again and i want him to see that iam here and iam going to be here and help him no matter what but idk i really want him back. Sorry i hope yous got some kind of sense of this. Right now i might be working at a hair salon soon and i just want to try to better my life and i want him to see some how iam positive and independent now i just want him back before i guess its to late….=/

Tags: cares, Ex Boyfriend, exback, fence, friends band, halloween, hell, job, love, mom, parents, soul mate, Stoped, temper, Tryed

I want to make my ex-boyfriend reallyy jealous. Girls, what are some things that you have done that made your ex-boyfriend come right back to you?

Guys, what are some things that would make you jealous of your ex-girlfriend??
Please include other things instead of just "getting a new guy."

Tags: ex girlfriend, hell, jealous girls, quot

Of course I won’t send it to him, but I just wanted to see what you thought of it and if you think telling him this stuff will help get him back (??)

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Dear ex,

I hope all is well. I am writing this letter as part of my healing process, to be able to feel the feeling.

I am mostly angry with myself for having let you run away from me. I am angry that I was so distant and that I did not let you get close, I am angry that I was not myself fully, I am angry that I expected so much from you without giving you anything in return. I am angry that you could not see through me and understand that I was scared to feel and scared to let go, and I am angry you did not try harder. I am angry that you did not like me (though it is my fault). I am angry that I have yet another reason to hate myself. I am angry that I could not give you what you deserved and love you to the fullest. I am sad, baby, because I lost you and there is no way back.

I fear this break up means going back to my old depressive me, the me that hated herself and that did not believe anyone could love her. I fear that really, there will be no one else and that it will just leave one big whole that will mess up the rest of my life, namely my professional life. I fear that I will live out my life being single, never having been kissed. I fear that I will continue my boring old life.

I am always going to love your kindness and honesty, purity, good heart, and above all the fact that you tried liking me for me. I am scared I won’t find a person like you out there. I love the fact that you are so confident while being so humble. I will miss you like hell.

I love you, I just wish you were not my first experience, I wish I knew better. However, unfortunately, there is no time machine, this is why I will just let go and move on. But you know, even if I do move on, I know I will never ever find anyone like you and somewhere in my heart, I will always have a little remorse.
well, i wrote this letter as suggested on this website, if anyone is interested to read more about the healing process (I am just trying it out, don’t know if it will even work ):

http://www.therelationshipgym.com/how_to_get_over_a_break_up.htm

Tags: Fake Letter, first experience, good heart, healing process, Heart Break, hell, honesty, kindness, professional life, purity, remorse, rest of my life, time machine, writing this letter