GF of 15 years has struggled with her feelings over the last year. She constantly has feelings of not being in control of her own life. She wants desperately to be able to stand on her own 2 feet and feel like she’s worth something. She wants to better herself before she feels like she can commit to any relationship with anyone. The only way she feels she can accomplish this is to separate from me for a time so that she can get herself together. She says that given time to get herself together and feel in control, she’d be ready to love again like I need her to. Right now, I’m on a emotional yo-yo with her. I feel the love from her for a time, then it disappears and the cycle repeats like that. She feels guilty for accepting the love I give her and I believe that it might be because she doesn’t feel like she’s worth the trouble or effort. It hurts like hell to hear that because she’s everything to me. I’m certain that there’s no one else.
She wants to go back to school, wants to start to re-organize her life and find her self worth again. She used to go to church pretty religiously but that has fallen off completely. I can see that she’s lost and it breaks my heart as much as breaking our family apart is doing. I’m very selfish when it comes to her. I feel like the woman I love IS in there somewhere, but every time she starts to come out, she gets overwhelmed again. She does have some mental roadblocks, and is in therapy for a possible bi-polar disorder. She doesn’t want a time frame for this to work out. I’m hoping that the time away will reaffirm our love in each other and the help that she needs. Is it truly over or is there hope for us?

Tags: bi polar disorder, Control, feelings, gf, heart, hell, love, M 111, relationship, roadblocks, self worth, time frame, worth the trouble, yo yo

ok so we broke up in march but pretty much february considering she cheated on me, but anyways we were together for about 8 months or so, and now juss to tell u, she was my first love, first person to have sex with, first with alotta things…now to my knowledge we broke up to go out and be free and not be tied down cuz were still young, I’m 19 and she’s 18…but wen I found out she cheated on me, she lied to me on y she wanted to break up..she pretty much broke up with me to make her and tha dude she cheated me on with public and official…and then after we broke up, I have no idea y but she deletes me off myspace..and I was like okay but my friend has her on myspace and he showed me her page and it says that her and her new bf(tha dude she cheated me on with) were together since february….funny thing is, is that I met this kid before..them two r friends..well more then friends now..but i even asked her many times after we broke up that if there was anything goin on between him and her and she kept saying no…and she lied to my face on that cuz she didn’t know I saw her page…soo lonnnng story short, the whole relationship was a lie, she cheated on me, and lied about cheating on me…idk how much more this girl can tear my heart apart but she’s doing hell of a good job!!!…now anyways I’m still hurt by all this of course, but I do what everyone says to do, cut off all contact, I don’t text, call nothing wit her!!!! and I have been for the longest time but the problem is that we work together so I see her whenever she works..and that’s the only time!!! now idk I’m doing somewhat good with this broken heart,but I have my moments where I get all emotional and shit and there r times where I’m perfectly fine…now I juss have alotta anger towards her cuz of all this..and I know it’s normal for this but I don’t think I fully let it out, like in a constructive way, cuz I juss don’t talk about our break up really to anyone cuz I thought not talking about it might help but idk, I have my sad moments….I’m not an angry person or nothing but I juss don’t think I let it out all the way..anyone have some ideas of what I can do…OMG NOW IF U READ THIS, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!! I’m sorry I wrote soo much

Tags: anger, broken heart, ex girlfriend, first love, first person, funny thing, good job, heart, hell, Knowledge, longest time, love, myspace, relationship, t text, wit

I really don’t get why women who reject men or women who dump men then turn around and say "but we can still be friends" or in the case of the horrible friend zone "i don’t see you that way; but we can still be friends" why don’t women understand that to many men, who ask women out a friendship is nothing more than a consolation prize…i mean why the hell would you be friends with a woman if theres no chance of getting sex? They don’t share the same interests as men, they nag, they whine, etc…so whats in it for the guy? The girl uses him for emotional support and to whine about the bad boy thug she is screwing….is it no surprise men don’t want to settle for just friends…and whats with the break ups? You dump a guy romantically and have the NERVE to think he should still want to be your friend? You don’t often see men telling a girl "i don’t want to have sex with you; but lets be friends" or "i don’t see you that way; but id like to use you as an emotional tampon" it only seems to be a WOMAN thing…So why is it women cant understand that if a guy is interested in you he DOESN’T want the consolation prize??

PS NO IM NOT BITTER—I just dont understand this clearly illogical aspect of women.

Tags: attitude, bad boy, break ups, consolation prize, emotional support, friend zone, Friends, friendship, hell, horrible friend, just friends, Many Men, Men Women, nerve, quot, surprise, tampon, thug, ups, Whine, woman thing

so, i recently got back together with my ex. and now because of it all my friends think im gonna be the one in high school always having sex. HOW THE HELL DO THEY RELATE? please tell me if you know.

Tags: gonna be the one, having sex, hell, School Sex, Sex School

he still calls me once a day but he does not care about me in th esame way i care about him. he says he loves and has never loved anyone else. also evrytime i tslk to hm it hurts because we were together so long and its hard for me to get through a day without crying. im 16 hell be 19 next month

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, hell