My ex and I broke up around 4 months ago. A few weeks after we broke up we decided me would go out on a date and see how it went, but then I went away for a couple of weeks during the holidays so it never happened. When we tried to organize something else I accidentally stood him up by sleeping in 
We are still close friends but he is now going out with one of my very close friends. I had a new boyfriend but recently broke up with him because I wasn’t over my ex. I still love him and I want him back. I dont think his relationship with my friend will last and some of my friends have told me that he is always talking to me and never her. How can I get his attention? How can I make him want me? Bear in mind that I cannot dress up as I mostly see him at school and we have to wear a uniform. Should I make him jealous?
Please help!
Tags: 4 months, close friends, Ex Boyfriend, holidays, love, new boyfriend, Organize, relationship
How do the marriages of cops and firefighters NOT end in divorce?
My fiance has decided he wants to (try to) be a police officer or a firefighter. I have done my research and all I find about either career is that they are rewarding for the person but the marriages of these men(or women) often end in divorce. I just don’t understand how my marriage will NOT fall apart with him missing on nights, holidays, weekends, etc. How can a marriage survive through all this?
Tags: cops, divorce, fiance, firefighter, firefighters, holidays, marriage, police officer
I brokeup with my boyfriend of six months last Sunday. It was a mutual, and amicable breakup but was done very hastily and impulsively on my part because I was hurting so much. I knew eventually we would breakup because we had too many issues and ultimately realized we weren’t meant for each other (We had planned to get engaged over the holidays). I never wanted to cut things off between us completely, though. I keep having thoughts of calling him just to get some closure, but I’ve been advised by friends and family not to do that. I’ve been hurting so much all week and I keep seeing and thinking about things that remind me of him. Any advice on how to heal my heart?
Tags: closure, friends and family, heart, holidays, last sunday, six months, thinking about things, Weren
We broke up kind of quickly. We were together for one year and she broke up with me while on a bad vacation for the holidays. She said she was thinking about us and felt the need to be on her own but did not want me out of her life, as if she did not know what she wanted. We have not really talked about the break up in person, but when i went to her house to drop off some of her things i could see she was crying.
Anyway, how long should i wait to try to reconcile? I am afraid to wait too long.
Tags: Contact, holidays
I brokeup with my boyfriend of six months last Sunday. It was a mutual, and amicable breakup but was done very hastily and impulsively on my part because I was hurting so much. I knew eventually we would breakup because we had too many issues and ultimately realized we weren’t meant for each other (We had planned to get engaged over the holidays). I never wanted to cut things off between us completely, though. I keep having thoughts of calling him just to get some closure, but I’ve been advised by friends and family not to do that. I’ve been hurting so much all week and I keep seeing and thinking about things that remind me of him. Any advice on how to heal my heart?
Tags: closure, friends and family, heart, holidays, last sunday, six months, thinking about things, Weren
