hey, i’m 19. me and my ex-lover who is also 19, had an honest, solid relationship. we were really close. i became unhappy in our relationship because i realized how much more mature i was than he is. i love this guy but he is so immature. i wanted to find someone who was more like me, who wanted to travel, was more mature and spiritual, looked different, etc. i started getting close to another guy, and i wanted to try having a relationship with him because i wanted to explore. my ex was my first love and i wanted to try things with this new guy. i explained everything to my boyfriend. he did NOT like this, and it hurt him. i hurt him a lot. we were so close. i wanted too much, tried to perfect my love life but it backfired and now i miss my ex so much and it made me realize how important he seriously was to me. he made me happy and i got bored and distracted by this new potential love-interest dude who turned out to be so much less than i had imagined and i lost touch with the fact that my relationship with my ex was soo great and vital to my life.
we broke up about a week and a half ago. after we broke up, me and "the new boy" hooked up. during the "hook-up", all i could think about was my ex and how much of a mistake i was making for us. it wasn’t until then that i realized all this. all i was trying to do was get an ego-boost from another dude. all i really wanted was to express myself and have other people to recognize me for being beautiful and smart and whatever else i wanted. i wanted someone to be into me and make me feel important and amazing. but it was stupid and dillusional, what i did. all i was doing was not appreciating my boyfriend and thinking all about me.
so anyway. what should i do????? or not do??? to make him want me back. because i know he still loves me, this guy was totally in love with me. and i hurt him a lot. i know he HATES cheaters. but i know that i was honest with him about this and didn’t cheat. and he admires that but i know what i did hurt. but what can i do to make him want me back regardless of that mistake i made and how do i approach him about it without seeming like i have no pride
please help thankyou for readinggg

Tags: cheaters, ego, Ex Boyfriend, first love, Hey, Hook, love interest, love life, mistake, relationship

Okay, so there’s this guy that I’ve known since..forever, it feels like. It seems like he’s always been a part of my life,and I couldn’t imagine him not being in it. We liked eachother a lot like three years ago,but then we both moved from the city we lived in, and didn’t talk much. When we found eachother on MySpace, though, communication got a lot easier between us. Over the summer, when he came to visit, we hung out for two or three days, and kissed quite a few times. Well, he’s visiting again this summer, and I know we’re going to hook up again. We have that kind of "I’ll always have feelings for you" relationship, and I never had any regrets about hooking up last year. We’ve talked on the phone, texted way past what should be considered healthy, and just in general kept in touch really well. We talk every day, and if that’s not possible, as much as we can. We’ve been talking lately about his upcoming visit in about three months. He was planning a date for us to go on, and said that while he’s down, he’d be my boyfriend. I thought it was so sweet that he said that.(: We were talking, a different time, about us actually hooking up, and what might happen. I said that I definitely didn’t have any regrets about last time, and that I would love for something like that to happen again.
Now, what I’m wondering is how far I should let our relationship go. Of course, I’m not going to be stupid and have sex or do anything risky or extreme, I’m only a teenager. I know that he wouldn’t try to get me to do anything along THOSE lines anyway. I don’t mind going a little farther than last time, but I’m secretly a little scared that we might do something and then him go back to his city and like someone else or something. I know that I’m being silly, though, because if you knew him you’d know that he’s very honest and wouldn’t do that to me. When I was texting him one day, I asked "If we did something, would it just be because you want to hook up with someone, or because it’s me?" to which he said "Really it’s because of you." I totally believe him, but I’m just kind of wanting to get an idea of how far I should let our short-term relationship go.
Please help,and give advice if you can.<3

but,please,don’t say things like "don’t even talk to him, he’s just a creep who wants to get in your pants",or things like that. I know what i’m talking about when I say that’s not him.

Tags: feelings, Hook, Imagine, myspace, Regrets, relationship, Summer 97

I’m 19 and want to hook up and have sex once with my exboyfriend.
I’m not looking to rekindle our relationship, I just want sex.

What should I say to him over Facebook to ask him for sex without looking desperate?

Tags: amp, Ex Boyfriend, exboyfriend, facebook, Hook, relationship, Sex