I love her more than anything and i want her back! She says she wants to be friends but its really difficult for me. We broke up because she says she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore because of all her troubled relationships in the past. She wants to be independent and not rely on anyone (shes a single mum). After we broke up she said to give it some time and she’ll think about it but i kinda stuffed it up because i kept on bugging her about it. I don’t know what to do! I forgot to add that we work together and seeing each other almost everyday probably wasn’t helping. She says I’m too clingy and i would like to change that not just for her but for myself also. I start a new job in a weeks time and I was hoping maybe it would change things but she doesn’t seem interested.

Tags: Friends, Independent, love, new job, relationship, troubled relationships

I lost my wife after 15 years of marriage do to divorce and it has been devastating. I’ve gone out with different women, but the bar has been set so high in regards to what I’m attracted to. My wife has amazing integrity, honesty and a sense of humor and has a gentleness about her, yet was strong and independent. Sigh..

I’ve battled with depression after losing her and still not sure if Ill be able to carry on without her.

Question: Where can I find someone that meets even half of those attributes?

Tags: attributes, depression, Find Love, gentleness, honesty, Independent, integrity, Love Lost, marriage, sense of humor

My ex broke up with me three months ago. He was my first bf I’m still upset over it. He’s moved on to a new girl and he broke up with me cause i liked him more than he liked me. I’m also going off to college in the fall. How to i start over? Become independent again?

Tags: bf, How To Mend A Broken Heart, Independent, new girl, three months