
I need help again me and my wife are legally seperated but something in my heart still makes me want to believe that we can work this out.Any way she has a restraining order against me but we have been talking on the phone and she said she loved the way i was acting.So last night i went to a club i knew she would be at just to see her and tell her i still loved her and i would continue working on myself so i could be the person she could love again.Anyway i saw her walking with another guy she said they are just friends yet she runs into bar and i meet and the door by 4 bouncers and 15 minutes later 3 cop cars show up and ask me to leave.The thing is i am not that angry person she knew i have quit drinking and have found God plus i work out 2 times a day so i can start to like my self.I have past questions on her if anyone wants some background info.What i also want to know if she was not up to anything why run into the bar and send the bouncers out to stop me.Please women only .
Tags: 15 minutes, Acting, angry person, background info, bouncers, Cars Show, cop cars, fear, god, just friends, Love Help, Night Club, restraining order, something in my heart

Me and my ex girlfriend have both had partners since and are now both single again and i still love her alot and really want her back. We hang out again, with a group of friends and i dont know how and when i should tell her how i feel (though i think she already suspects that i like her alot again).
But yeh: we are just friends at the minute and dont know how she feels and how and when to aproach her about the topic?
Tags: alot, ex girlfriend, just friends, love


I really don’t get why women who reject men or women who dump men then turn around and say "but we can still be friends" or in the case of the horrible friend zone "i don’t see you that way; but we can still be friends" why don’t women understand that to many men, who ask women out a friendship is nothing more than a consolation prize…i mean why the hell would you be friends with a woman if theres no chance of getting sex? They don’t share the same interests as men, they nag, they whine, etc…so whats in it for the guy? The girl uses him for emotional support and to whine about the bad boy thug she is screwing….is it no surprise men don’t want to settle for just friends…and whats with the break ups? You dump a guy romantically and have the NERVE to think he should still want to be your friend? You don’t often see men telling a girl "i don’t want to have sex with you; but lets be friends" or "i don’t see you that way; but id like to use you as an emotional tampon" it only seems to be a WOMAN thing…So why is it women cant understand that if a guy is interested in you he DOESN’T want the consolation prize??
PS NO IM NOT BITTER—I just dont understand this clearly illogical aspect of women.
Tags: attitude, bad boy, break ups, consolation prize, emotional support, friend zone, Friends, friendship, hell, horrible friend, just friends, Many Men, Men Women, nerve, quot, surprise, tampon, thug, ups, Whine, woman thing

ok, here it goes:
I have a girl best friend and I really like her since the first day of freshman year (we’re in the midle of sophomore year now). before freshman year ended, I told her I loved her and I asked if she also did (we were really close). She said she didn’t feel anything for me and it turned into a two week long *filled with lots n’ lots of bad words* fight. Now were just friends, eventhough were super close again, I am kinda happy and my friends keep teasing us when we are alone, together which makes me feel very happy. I want to love her again but I don’t want to get my heart ripped to tiny little bite-size pieces even though I know I love her deep within me. What am I going to do? help me!
Tags: best friend, bite size pieces, freshman year, heart, just friends, Love Help, sophomore year

I’m 14 years old and a few days ago my girlfriend and I broke up for two reasons.
She said that she just wanted to be "really" good friends.
She also said that we acted more like friends than boyfriend/girlfriend.
I’m not sad or angry about it. In fact, we hung out for a few hours today and even walked to school together like we normally do.
Well what I need help with is getting back together with her. I asked her if we could wait and try again in awhile and she said maybe. I still really like her. We were going out almost two months.
I want her to know that if we start going out again, I will change and that I will not make her feel like we’re just friends.
I guess my question is, What should I do or say to get her back?
Also, Do I have a chance at getting her back or no?
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.
Tags: ex girlfriend, few days, girlfriend, good friends, just friends, quot, taking the time