I mean …I had a veryy good friend and well we end up kissing we stop talking like for a month and we are ok but just friends How can i can make him fall in love again i really lovee Him! But i had porblems that he couldnt understand but i love him with heart and soul! i mean I cant stop A SECOOND without thinking in him! Help

Tags: Fall In Love, Friends, good friend, Guy Fall, heart, heart and soul, just friends, love, second time

Im 29 and engaged to my fiance who i have been with for 8yrs, engaged for 2, she is 26 and had our first baby in december. I am crazy about her and cant imagine my life without her or my son. She comes from a very dysfunctional family who are alcoholic’s & many of their marriages have ended from cheating etc, they basically had to raise themselves, she never wanted to be like them but growing up she told me she was very rebellious. She dated this certain guy when she was 14 and they are still friends now, they broke up when she was 17 and i was told from some of my fiances friends that he was crazy in love with her and he was her first sexual partner, was always hands on her etc. I only started to get to know her when they dated and when they had broken up. I told her 2yrs ago that i couldn’t stand him & his cockiness’s she agreed to remove him from her life but from the stories her friends told me i questioned her which led to arguments and she eventually became friends with him again, I got really pissed off with her and she told me that i have to trust her with him that they are just friends. I can see how he looks at her and i overheard him tell some guys that he never stopped loving her, never fully got over her when she dumped him & that she was the best he had,. He is very arrogant & a player but seems to still be protective of her which he always has been, I want to punch him when he gets too close to her or touches her arm in passing, checks out her ass or when she is sitting down and he leans over the table talking to her like he did when they dated has a smirk on his face when he looks in my direction, i even hate when he holds my kid. I work shift hours as im a firefighter & I love her so much but deep down from her families past having bad reputation’s and the history they have together & i hate myself for saying it, i don’t know if i fully trust her & if she knew that she would definitely leave to make me make up my mind. I cant help feeling this way and its driving me crazy. Any advice?

Tags: Alcoholic, amp, bad reputation, Checks, cockiness, crazy in love, dysfunctional family, fiance, fiancee, Fiances, just friends, love, Mature, relationship, sexual partner, smirk

I am currently living with a nother friend because my husband wanted to have some space! We have been together for 7 years and married for 3 out of those 7 in June. We have a 5 year old child and I am currently pregnant with his 2nd child(due in 4 weeks!). When his friends all got deployed again and he didn’t he became a different person and like a real women I stood by him. He began to drink a lot and he wouldn’t come home until the morning. My friends began to act shy around me and not talk as much so Iasked them what was the problem. They told me that my husband had brought one of his co-workers to a friends house and he did not tell me. I confronted him and her and told them that it was inappropriate and that I would like it if they would not talk until I met her and saw her as a friend. One day he got injured at PT and they brought him home to me for TLC. I was taking care of him when he recieved a message from a young female soldier (baby r u okay? I will buy you breakfast). I txt her back and asked her who is she calling baby! She tried to tell me that she calls all her friends baby. I asked my husband and he stuck to we r just friends. A few weeks later while he was sleep he recieved another message it was a picture of her in langerie! I forward the picture to my email account and printed it off. I asked my husband why would she send a pic to him like this and he said it’s just a bikini! I reported them both to the SGT because I felt that I was being disrespected and I can’t beat this girl up because she is a soldier and I don’t want to hurt my husband’s career. They put out a no contact order on them and I guess that was suppose to keep it down. They did not talk for a while and then my husband had CQ. It was an incident that just so happen to deal with him needing to get a report from her. Once that happened they went to the Field together and everything has went down hill. Long story short he began talking to her and ignoring me, drinking heavily, and not coming home. I found more text messages from her where she was buying him stuff and bringing it to him and then my last straw was when she txted him at 8 at night calling him baby again. As I went back into the history I found that she had invited him to her room to spend the night and he never responded to her so she was looking for an answer. I am currently trying to get a court order to get the message printed, and I have no idea wether he wants to stay married. He wanted me to give him some space because I went back to his job with the call records and the messages to show that they where still having contact. He has PTSD and maybe a few other problems and I feel that she is taking advantage of that. She is also a married soldier but her husband lives somewhere else. Does anyone have any good advice as to how I should go about this. I don’t want a divorce, and he said that he loves me still. I see it but how could someone just put there family out? I have to think fast and on my feet because I don’t want to go back to that lonely cursed house! I want to get a small apt. for me and my kids and get him in the barracks!
This is the right section. I am asking under military because a civil could care less about a soldier who has PTSD and wants to be redeployed. They also don’t know much about the military law. So please if you want to be ignorant and childish don’t respond. I am leaving him I just need more military law information to hlp me in my process.

Tags: bikini, calling baby, co workers, coming home, email account, female soldier, just friends, Met, Pregnant, real women, sgt, sleep, soldier baby, Wow

I will never understand how many women (not all of course) seem to think that it is possible to be friends with your ex, after YOU dump THEM? I know of very few men who when they dump a girl get surprised if the girl doesn’t want to be "just friends", yet when a woman dumps a man, and sometimes even in divorce, they get surprised when they spew out this BS, and the man tells them to take a hike, or go **** themselves? Does it not register that when you dump some one you are A) probably hurting them emotionally, if the break up isn’t mutual, B) destroying their ego, C) rejecting that person’s being, and D) when you break up with some one, the idea is that you don’t want to be with them? How can women be so illogical? How come women then, are so surprised when men don’t want to be friendly to their exes?

Tags: bs, divorce, ego, exes, just friends, quot, Women Men

I am in a happy, stable (semi open) marriage with my man. He allows me to date women. We have been together 10 years. He and I recently met/got to slightly know a woman who is SPECTACULAR! Since the minute we both met her (and each separately the first time) we conected with her on many levels, and she was very flirty with us sep and then together when we met up together. We both got an immediate bi or lesbian vibe from her. But then we found out she was married but yet she continues to exude a flirtatiousness with mostly me the woman. (less with him now) Soon we will be meeting HER husband as well and will be hanging out as a couple. I don’t think they are swingers but I can almost bet SHE is at least bi (or closeted). I am SOOOO attracted to her that I burst out of my skin when I think of her!!! And when she was in my presence those few times, I got the same kind of energy from her that she also loves being in my presence! I am almost certain I am not mistaken with these vibes, I am also pretty sure she knows I am bi bc its openly on my myspace profile as such and we are friends on there. We are going to start hanging out as 2 couples soon, and though I am happy to be ‘just friends’ with the couple, my crush will always shine thru I fear. How, if, or when should I tell or show her I am attracted to her? At some point I don’t mind risking rejection if I do make a move and she declines. Because I know we and I could still be friends even with the humiliation of being rejected lol, but she is SO worth the chance to find out! Last time we hung out with her, she was excited about drinking wine together. If we have wine again, and she continues to be flirty, and I continue to be attracted, should I use the wine to my advantage lol…! And how do I make a move? Ask first or try to be a little affectionate and see what happens? In the meantime, I can’t stop thinking about her. My husband thinks its so cute… I am lucky to have the relationship I have with him and I will never leave my man. But this woman is literally ONE in a million and I would love to nurture whatever special relationship/friendship I can with her. And, where does her hubby fit in all this? Also, I am in my 30s the woman in her late 40s thanks!
Not everyone views marriage as YOU people do. 65% of people cheat on their spouses. I really hoped that someone with an OPEN mind could have answered my question properly instead of judge me. And for the first 2 responders, for your info, we have brought other people in before with nothing but bliss and fun for all… you should try it sometime!

Tags: 10 years, Bet, Bisexual, couples, Crush, drinking wine, humiliation, just friends, last time, lol, marriage, Met, open marriage, presence, rejection, relationship, vibe, vibes, Woman