My wife says she doesn’t love me the way a wife should love me but rather as a best friend. She says she doesn’t feel a spark anymore when I kiss her even when we have sex! I would do anything to get her to fall in love with me all over again! She is speaking about getting a divorce because she feels she never got to live the single life and just do whatever she wants whenever she wants. We got married right after she finished school and we have two kids and I am 6 years older than her. We have been together for 6 years and married for 4 years. I can’t loose her she is my everything and I show it to her on a daily basis and I complement her on a daily basis, I look after the kids at home while she relaxes and watches her favored shows on tv, i bath the kids wake them and dress them and take them to school in the mornings and don’t ask her for help at all. I have started letting her go out alone without me but the problem is she said she doesn’t want to have to worry about if a guy chats her up that she has to hold back, she wants to not care if something happens then it happens if not then it doesn’t. And although I trust her when I let her go out that statement makes my stomach turn so bad that I actually get sick and can’t eat for a day or two! What do I do how do I save this? I really love her and i can’t bare the thought of loosing her. Please help!

Tags: 6 years, Bath Kids, best friend, Chats, daily basis, Fall In Love, getting a divorce, Kids Dress, kiss, single life, Stomach, watches

Well me and my ex were going out for a really long time. Untill he started to talk to these other girls. We ended up breaking up and he still told me how much he loved me, well I didnt beleave it. I always thought he was such a big lie. I love that boy so much thats not even a lie. But he called this girl his sister and they ended up going out. And that was my best friend. We spilt apart now. I mean yeah I miss her so much but ill never be as close. I still talk to my ex but we get in so much fights. We still do stuff like kiss make out and krap like that but I want him to be my boyfriend what should I do?

Tags: best friend, big lie, girls, kiss, long time, time untill

My wife and I are divorcing, the divorce is my decision,not hers. I am seeing another woman, just to do fun things with her and not for a long-term relationship. I can’t even feel right to kiss this new woman yet although she is looking for intimacy. My wife told me that she loved me and don’t understand why I deny her love, while I have been feeling ignored. Last year I told her I loved her more than before, and 3 months ago I told her that my heart was not in it for a long time. I am confused about my feeling, and not sure if I still love her. I feel that I have been closed up myself because I have been ignored. Recently, my wife asked me to if I could give her a chance to show her love for me the right way. She asked for my forgiveness if she had done things in the past that made me feel ignored because her focus was somewhere else (and NO, she never cheated on me, and she is a good and loving person). She told me that people made mistakes and why should she be punished when she has learned from her mistakes. She asked for my generosity to give us a chance to save our marriage. She told me that her heart is filled of love for me and impossible to accept love from another man to rebuild her life. We have a beautiful 14 year old daughter, and the divorcing process has hit her hard. My wife told me that she will give it all to make it work and asked for my part. She told me it is not too late and better late than never, and it doesn’t hurt to try. She said that we can’t reclaim our past but we could pick up pieces or start from a clean slate. If it’s doesn’t work than we can walk away for good without regretting that we didn’t try hard for our marriage and especially for our daughter, since she is in the age where she need both of us the most in her life. She told me she doesn’t even want my money, as long as the 3 of us are together. Should I give my marriage another chance , since I already feel happy going out with this new woman for about a month. Should I walk away from this new woman or walk away from our marriage of 18 years? How do we restart for the marriage saving process? Is it possible? Please help.

Tags: clean slate, divorce, forgiveness, fun things, generosity, heart, Heart Love, intimacy, kiss, long term relationship, long time, love, loving person, marriage, money, new woman

I have fallen in love with an Aquarius woman. I’ve been with girls.. but something about her is different. I feel it. I don’t believe in astrology but I need advice. I don’t know why, but she does not want to kiss me? I love kissing and cuddling. We talk on the phone, hangout. I make time to see her, whenever she sees me she gets very cute and shy. Whenever I look at her, i think "i want her to be my wife someday’ But i dont tell her this. She is absolutely beautiful. I love holding her in my arms. I’ve noticed she seems to distance herself from me. She explained to me about her not being able to open up to people quickly. I understand and said it was okay. I really like her. I tried asking her out, admitted my feelings for her and she did not respond. We kissed.. and touched it was so incredible. I want her, and I want to be with her.. but after that I knew something was wrong, I asked her and she seemed down. Later she called me in the morning and told me that things went too fast and that they needed to slow down. I was a little hurt, I didn’t mean to be so physical with her but I can’t help it when Im around her. Since then I have been trying to call her, and she doesn’t answer he phone. She always calls me – which I like. But she hasn’t been and I am getting worried. She’s mentioned that she doesn’t trust easily, and that she likes me. This was a couple of weeks ago.

Is this what aquarius girls do? or does she not like me? I am a Gemini. Maybe I scared her off?

Tags: aquarius woman, astrology, feelings, gemini, girls, kiss, love, Love Talk, People

-i had a boyfriend for 2 years
-we were very happy, like perfect for eachother. our moms were best friends, our familes hung out together and everything…it was perfect
-i met this guy, he was diffrent. i really started liking him. my bf had a lot of trust in me and wasnt the jealous guy to begin with
-i go to the movies with this new guy…he kissed me.
-i started making up excuses for why me and my bf "were not good for eachother anymore"
-i DID tell my bf about the kiss. he said that he still loved me and wanted for me to be happy, so he let me make up my mind
-i ended up breaking up with my boyfriend and 2 days later getting with this new guy.
_things were great for a while. then we went back to school..my new bf changed schools, to my school so that we could be together. the first day was horrible. i kept seeing my ex and i just wanted him so much! i didnt want to hug my new bf :/

i love my ex…and i want to be with hiim..but i have no idea how to end it…HELP!!!! PLEASEEEE
also, my ex just told me he still loves me. today he told me.

Tags: Back To School, best friends, bf, jealous guy, kiss, Met, moms, New Love, quot