I want to collect my deceased husbands social security benefits. I am uncovering information that shows that possibly first divorce was ever finalized. Must I remove the impedement with a nunc pro tunc even though my husband has passed?
I will contact lawyer
married 14 years

Tags: divorce, lawyer, nunc pro tunc, Putative Spouse, social security, social security benefits

My husband says that he is not attracted to me anymore, because I became fat and flobby, and I don’t have that firm and fit body that I had four years ago when whe got married. I became fat, and I didn’t take care of my looks because I had to work, go to school, cook, clean, wash, manage bills and monetary issues, and on top of all these I got sick. I got diagnosed with Grave’s disease, then I had my thyroid gland destroyed, so I started gaining weight like a nothing you’ve ever seen. Then, my husband told me that he was not attracted to me anymore, and the spark was not there anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I thought when you get married, it’s supposed to be a standing by through thick and thin, bad and good. O.K. I think I got all these four years hard work of mine was not worth anything. Well, I don’t blame him at all. He couldn’t work, because he didn’t have a permission to work, He is a Belgian citizen (European), and had come here with a student visa. I had to work hard, and go to school, therefore I couldn’t afford to get a lawyer to take care fo his paperwork. Anyways, I don’t know what to think, what to say. I am just stunned. I have lost ten pounds in a month now, and I am going to start exercising like I used to, and I hope he falls in love with me again. I still LOVE MY HUSBAND DEARLY, and I WANT HIM BACK. I want him to love me like he used to, so romantically, so delicately. I am crazy about him. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM. How can I get him back?

Tags: citizen, fit body, gaining weight, lawyer, love, monetary issues, paperwork, student visa, thyroid, thyroid gland

first and foremost, i know i am wrong. i know you want to say mean things to me. if you can get past that and please help me. i have had an affair for five years. i am married. he is married. he finally told his parents and his brother about me. he talked to a lawyer. for the last 3 weeks, it’s been that we are going to be together. last monday night, he was working out of town, i went to, and he was ok with us getting caught. we both have kids. in the last week, he is freaking out. scared to leave his kids. tells me he loves me. i know he does. i am so mad. i am so hurt. so hurt. part of me feels like… it’s not fair for him to live in a happy home while i am miserable and sad in my home. why should i not tell his wife? and, how HOW HOW do i get over him? how do I heal? what do i do? we work together. i see him everyday. and leaving my job is not an option financially. No, my husband doesn’t know…and YES I know I am a piece of crap. I know. I can’t believe I am "that person".helpme

Tags: broken heart, brother, happy home, job, last monday, lawyer, Live 105, monday night, parents, Piece Of Crap

She’s severly mentally unstable… she suffers from anxiety, depression, and slight schizophrenia. She’s lost her job due to her issues.

I knew that she was like this when I married her, and I never, not for one second, have regretted my choice. She is the love of my life. We haven’t had sex in over 2 years, and I still fall in love with her all over again, everyday.

I’m up with her at 3am when she’s convinced demons are out to get her, I’m cleaning up her throw-up when I get home from work around midnight when she’s tried to drink away her problems. I’ve always been faithful and supportive.

She refuses counseling and medication and I respect her wishes.

But she wants a divorce. She even managed to get a lawyer. She’s insistent that she’s ruining my life and she’s NOT. How can I get her to see clearly on this?

Tags: anxiety, counseling, demons, depression, divorce, job, lawyer, love, Love Of My Life, marriage, medication, schizophrenia