theres these two guys at my school, and i really like both of them. not to be mean, but i want to make one jealous of the other because he would be going out with me. however, the first guy, (lets call him joe) really liked me last year. i liked him too, and we couldnt stay away from each other. but now, we sorta drifted apart. he still thinks that i like him, and embarrasses everybody by telling them so. that’s hardly even true.But, the other guy (lets call him mike), i think really likes me, but is too shy to do anything about it. he’s social, a little bit too much, but i can tell that he likes me by the fact that his knees start shaking and his hands start to sweat when ever i talk to him. so, my conclusion is, how to i get mike to ask me out to prove that what joe’s been telling everyone is wrong?
p.s. dont tell me there isnt a way to do it. or by i cant make it happen.
Tags: conclusion, Fall In Love, How To Make Him Fall In Love, knees, little bit, Sorta, sweat, two guys
Ok, so i need to write a tanka poem. A tanka poem is a poem where you have to write about love and it HAS to be 31 syllables or a little bit less. here is an example of a tanka poem.
How sad that I hope
to see you even now,
after my life has emptied itself
like this stalk of grain
into the autumn wind.
Definition of tanka poem : The tanka, a Japanese poetic form, dates back to the seventh century and is written according to the strictest rules. In Japanese, tankas always have five unrhymed lines and a total of exactly thirty-one syllables. Lines 1 and 3 have five syllables each. Lines 2, 4, and 5 have seven each. (The English translations don’t always follow this strict syllable count.) A tanka evokes a strong feeling with a single image.
I was wondering if you guys can write you own tanka poem and post it below THANKS!
Tags: autumn wind, english translations, Image, japanese tankas, little bit, love, love poem, poetic form, Sad, Stalk, strong feeling, syllable count, syllables, tanka poem
My friend is trying to move on from a 6 year relationship and it is very difficult for her. Can someone please provide a POSITIVE motivational poem so that I can send to her. Maybe that might help her gain a little bit of strength.
Tags: broken heart, little bit, Motivational Poems, poem, relationship
My ex and I broke up a little over 3 months ago in September. We were together for 1 yr and 3 months. We have been through a lot in that time though. We technically traveled the world together as she studied in France while I studied in Spain. Our split was mainly because there was a lot of pressure from our relationship because it progressed faster than we had planned and felt like we were very involved in each others lives. I guess you can say to a point where the appreciation and excitement of one another was losing its spark. Also the distance wasn’t helping when we were away from each other during our school semesters. Anyways when we broke up she studied one more semester abroad in Italy and I was here in the U.S. I stopped contact with her during the three months because I didn’t want to push her away by possibly making her feel any guilt from the separation and which I also thought was the best move for me regardless. During the 3 months I have not thought about her that much really and have been going out and enjoying the single life as you may say. Been able to move on from this instead of moping and feeling depressed from it, which I know I should of been doing anyways. So I have been fine and I know she had been fine especially being away from home.
Now she had come back home a couple weeks ago and I have seen her for the first time. I was very very happy to just see her and I had missed her very much. We got together a couple times just to catch up a little bit. One of the last times we had spoke, we kind of just spoke about how our relationship was before and how things may have been the cause of our separation. However I had asked the question of her possibly dating me again sometime in the future and she said maybe but that she wasn’t sure and that she has been happy being single. But our conversation got cut off after that cause we both had places to be at. A few days later I was invited by one of her best friends to her best friends Birthday Party. I had attended with a couple of my friends that they knew and we hung out with them and had a good time for the most part. For me it was the first time I had really felt the feeling again of really missing being her Man/ boyfriend and it was starting to kill me. I didn’t really interact with her too much that night but my friends had more than me. At the end of the night when I said goodbye I told her that she looked great and that it was nice seeing her. And she then informed me that she was wearing the dress that I had bought her before. Then we had a big hug and then an unexpected almost near kiss goodbye. Really wanted too but didn’t think it was right to. But my friends were all saying that they saw something that night. Maybe little indications of interests still there.
The next day I tried seeing if she wanted to hang out later that night. First she wasn’t able to do anything cause she had things to finish up and wasn’t sure if she felt like going out. Then I had mentioned that she should let me take her out once. After that she had said that our conversation that we had before the other day had gotten cutoff and that maybe we should get together and talk about it. So I said sure and then she asked to meet her at like a starbucks. Then before I was on my way she had mentioned that she didn’t want to leave the house and if I wanted to just go over her house instead. So I did. We spoke about what was going on between us and I guess you can say that she has been happy being single and isn’t quite looking to be in a relationship, however we had agreed to "Date" each other though. She admitted that being back home, that it is weird not hanging out with me when she is home or getting back from work and what not. Now she said she was afraid to go through with just dating because she thought that I wouldn’t be able to just date. However I felt like there was more to it than just being worried about me. But I’m unsure. So I guess you can say that we are technically dating now. We have hung out only a couple times now but when we do it feels just like how it used to be before when we were together. And I feel she tries to hold herself back at times but then she can’t at times as well and just goes with it. However we still now kiss each other at times and it seems cool for the most part. But for me I’m starting to feel the feelings that I once had for this girl. I loved her very much and I still do love her. Now I feel stuck in my head and what to think. I want to be back with her but at the same time I have no clue on how she feels because its like mixed signs.
My friends have told me that I am in a good spot and that I shouldn’t be worrying because they feel that she might be having similar feelings as well but she may be afraid from it as well. I just don’t know what to do and how I might be able to go about to possibly getting her back. I need some help, advice, something. If some of y’all can help me that would be great. It’s just tha
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than a year and a half. We have lived together for the last 10 months. We are both 23.
Lately it seems that my boyfriend doesn’t enjoy spending time with me. He works all day and then comes home and just wants to play games on his computer. On the weekends he wants to spend the majority of his time on the computer as well, but will take me to see a movie and out to dinner. But even this seems like he is just punching a time clock so he can get back to "doing his own thing." If we do spend time together during the week it is usually while watching TV and he gets so zoned out that I might as well not even be there. When I talk he pays attention for awhile but seems to quickly get bored. For example, I was talking to him in a parking lot and the next thing I know he is starring at a van pulling out of a space and totally ignoring me.
My boyfriend used to be really attentive and act like I was the most important thing in his life, but now he seems to do the minimum and gets more excited about video games and even hanging out with his sister than being with me. He used to talk about our future but now he doesn’t at all and when I bring it up he seems to have no interest. He says he only misses me "sometimes" or "a little bit."
He says he still loves me but it doesn’t ring true in his actions. I think he loves me but it seems like he isn’t IN love with me. The only time he seems to show any real excitement about our relationship these days is when sexual intimacy is involved. I’m trying to give him space and even suggested we take a break but he said he doesn’t want to lose me. I’m so confused.
What should I do?
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