I have been dating this guy for 6 years now. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I decided that I wanted to leave the relationship when I was about 7 months pregnant because I was really unhappy. At that time he was finishing grad school 2 hours away from the home that we shared, so even though we "weren’t together" I continued to live in the home that we had together. When he finished school. I was in my Junior year of Undergrad and decided that it was not financially possible to leave while finishing school with my little girl. So in order to stay on track with school we now lived in the same house but in separate rooms. We called ourselves dating other people and like most girls while he was actually out dating other women I simply lied about seeing other men for about a year so I didn’t seem like I could’ t move on. I was so hurt that the mother of his child could be less than 20 feet away from him and he could actually carry on a romantic conversation in the next room. He had been completely unthoughtful of my feeling and what he had at home. So one day I started to see this really great guy. He treated me like a princess and understood my position on things in my life. He never pushed me to do anything that I wasn’t ready to do including meet my daughter! This guy took a job 5 hours away because I wasn’t ready to fully commit to him though. After my little girls dad realized that I had really moved on and might really like someone, he decided that I was the one that he wanted in his life. I can most definitely see his efforts in trying to turn things around. He still doesn’t cater to the romance that I need from him, but he does make an extra effort to give me all the simple things that I used to ask of him. We have been trying to make it work for about 3 months now and I am really having a hard time trusting him. I am constantly having to tell myself that it is okay to let my guard down but the simple thought of going through what I have been through with him again makes me want to cry. A simple hug from him almost makes me cringe. I am so emotionally disconnected from him. However a small part of me says if he is sincerely trying I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Could I ever fall in love with him again?

Tags: 6 years, 7 months, dad, Fall In Love, Finished School, finishing school, girls, grad school, hard time, job, little girl, little girls, Live 105, princess, relationship, romance, separate rooms, simple thought, undergrad

My boyfriend and I was together for three years and he broke up with me because he said I didn’t make him feel the way he use to feel when we first started dating. But he also said that he’s not giving up on me and he need time, but he broke up with me on the 1st of march and the first two weeks i blew his phone up and called him everyday, now this past sunday i decided to give him real time, so until april the 2nd im not callin/txtin, or even go to his house (he live right right next door, lmao) but the reason why im giving until april 2nd is because we are goin on a date. when we first started dating we went to go to "why did I get married" that was our first movie together and on april the 2nd he agreed to go on a date to go see the 2nd movie "why did i get married too" so how much time is enough time for a man after 3yrs? and i really really really honestly truely love him sooooooooooooo much, so how do i make him fall in love with me again? we have been through so much and we have soooooooo much love but i hate that i dont make him have that feelin when we first started datin

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I’ve been with my ex for a year and 4 days..2 months ago we broke up, my theory is he took everything out on me cuz i ended it with him becuz he never talked me as much as before and we didn’t exactly live close but we went to the same school though. Well anywho he went to jail for the past 2 months becuz he got drug poisoning from drinking and silly him his friend talked him into it. so he came back last week and has a new g/f now and i’ve heard he has been saying things about me, but good things, i love him no no matter what and i want him back, the girl he is with is awful. we hated eachother before they dated but they live in the same town which is bad. I just want my ex back because i would do ne thing to get him back. He looks at me all the time and i look away but i can’t stand people talking about him to me, it’s like we r still together but yet we’re not! So please tell me how do i get him back? I miss him and his family too, me and his little brother always talk! help me!

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Heyy guys (:
im really a confused point right now about this guy.
im a 16 year old girl and this guy,chris is 19. We aren’t in a relationship, but we are "dedicated" to eachother. It’s been like this for a few months,almost a year.I could say that I love him.Or at least, I’ve fallen extremely hard for him. We met over the summer in my mom’s home country, his family and my family are close. I live in new york and he lives in vegas.I’m in high school and he’s in the air force, working.He’s the sweetest guy anyone could ever ask for.He calls me almost everyday, he texts me every morning, and etc.he tells me everything,he tells me if he’s going out with friends to a party, i do actually trust him.my family also approves and so does his.About a month ago, he started to ignore me…turned out he got in trouble with his chief AND his ex was trying to get back with him…he was distancing himself from me until the problem with his ex would be solved.I actually understand why he would distance himself from me while going through that. I did tell him though that he needed to trust me and that he could tell me anything, cuz this is the time to prove to eachother that something can maybe develop in the future, if we trust eachother. So, after that everything was okay. Then starting last week…he stopped calling again…he texted every now and then. I do understand that he’s busy, but it made me think alot.especially about the future.He also was suppose to come visit me during this spring break, but his boss didnt approve, which of course made me sad.I do understand though.Its just…i think…we’re at different point in our lives.If he doesnt call me, even is he is busy, how can I contact him and count on him if i need him during a crisis.He also opened up to me about his past….about everything…he’s only had 2 girlfriends…he told me he did cheat on his first gf when they were going thru problems…he admitted it was wrong…so i mean, people make mistakes…but how can i trust him. I feel like i have to let him go, but I can’t. I never wanna lose him. He said he would "wait for me" until i finish high school….but thats a few years ahead…i dont think we could both wait that long..but if we get together now, he’s 3,000 miles away,im in high school with the temptation of other guys,and just everything. I do care and love him, though. Dont know what to do :/

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first and foremost, i know i am wrong. i know you want to say mean things to me. if you can get past that and please help me. i have had an affair for five years. i am married. he is married. he finally told his parents and his brother about me. he talked to a lawyer. for the last 3 weeks, it’s been that we are going to be together. last monday night, he was working out of town, i went to, and he was ok with us getting caught. we both have kids. in the last week, he is freaking out. scared to leave his kids. tells me he loves me. i know he does. i am so mad. i am so hurt. so hurt. part of me feels like… it’s not fair for him to live in a happy home while i am miserable and sad in my home. why should i not tell his wife? and, how HOW HOW do i get over him? how do I heal? what do i do? we work together. i see him everyday. and leaving my job is not an option financially. No, my husband doesn’t know…and YES I know I am a piece of crap. I know. I can’t believe I am "that person".helpme

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