my husband is unfaithful due his fear of loneliness after our long-term marriage. how can i save our marriage and stop him from straying again?

Tags: fear, loneliness, marriage, term marriage

I always screwed up in relationships but feeling in love makes me so happy and when i have nobody to love i feel lonely. Recently I got over my ex boyfriend i loved for 2 years but i start latching myself to guys, pretty much being desperate to find love again. I lie to myself saying i love them but it gets me no where. I also have been crying once in awhile because of my feeling of loneliness. Is this normal? Does anybody else feel like this sometimes, and do i have a severe problem?

Tags: Find Love, loneliness, love, relationships, Relationships Love

I’m trying and trying to get over how my ex treated so bad at the end. It’s just killing me and feels like my heart is repeatedly stubbed. I have no clue what I have done to deserve all this. I had never betrayed him or been mean. I loved him so much. I tried to go out with friends, started new things and meeting a counselor…. positive stuff I could think of. But open up the wound from the recent past at counseling later brought me flashbacks and I’m spending so much time crying on bed. I just want to live my life again, but all the fear, anxiety, and loneliness are just squeezing my chest. Do you think someday this will end and I can trust guys again?

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Lots of people have like love poems and sayings Not like short quotes. But ones about love. If you have any please share

Examples

im just a girl whos in love
with the most ..
amazing,
cutest,
funnniest,
nicest,
& completely perfect
guy in the world

or like
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest??
It isn’t love, it’s like.
You can’t keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right??
It isn’t love, it’s lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off??
It isn’t love, it’s luck.
Do you want them because you know they’re there??
It isn’t love, it’s loneliness.
Are you there because it’s what everyone wants??
It isn’t love, it’s loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand??
It isn’t love, it’s low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don’t want to hurt them??
It isn’t love, it’s pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??
It isn’t love, its infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them??
It isn’t love, it’s friendship.
Do you tell them everyday they are the only one you think of??
It isn’t love, it’s a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake??
It isn’t love, it’s charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they’re sad??
Then it’s love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they’re strong??
Then it’s love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts??
Then it’s love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there??
Then it’s love.
Do you accept their faults because they’re a part of who they are??
Then it’s love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death??
Then it’s love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple because it’s LOVE. It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others.

Random stuff bout love like that.

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Are you sure that you want to get your guy back after a breakup? It can be hard to know exactly how you feel in the days following the breakdown of your relationship. Feelings of loneliness and wounded pride can be confused with real love. It is always a good idea to try and analyse your relationship and why it failed. If the reason is that long term you are not compatible then do yourself a favor and move onto the next guy. You and your ex deserve to be happy but this does not necessarily mean that will be as a couple.

But if you are genuinely pining for him try these tips:

1) Never stalk a guy to get back with him. He won’t find it flattering but will think you have lost your mental capacity. You need to project a confident image even if your insides resemble melting ice-cream.

2) Always look your best whenever you go out. As Helena Rubenstein once said, there is no such thing as an ugly woman, only lazy ones. Now is not the time to let yourself go. Get your hair done, always wear make up and wear the clothes that show off your body in the best light. Don’t change your image. He fell for you the way you are so now is not the time to change.

3) Try to determine why you were dumped. Did you behave badly? If you did, then you need to apologise and do this properly. Men have feelings too although they usually manage to hide them better than women.

4) Did you play too many games? I don’t know what it is about us women but for some reason we sometimes treat relationships as if they were a game of Chess. If I do this, he will do that approach doesn’t work in most cases and men, like all human beings, do not like being played. Honesty is always the best policy. If you have been playing games as you were trying to see if your feelings were returned, then just ask him out straight. Most men like the direct approach – they are not very good at reading signs and subtle hints.

If you do get back together, make sure that you have sorted out the problems that caused the break up in the first place. Failure to do so just means that you are postponing your heartache. If you are looking to spend your life with this guy you need to be sure that you are compatible in all areas. While sexual attraction is fantastic and in my view a necessary part of every good relationship it isn’t the only thing that matters. Mutual respect, appreciation and shared values go a long way to avoiding having to deal once again with the question of how to get a guy back after a break up.

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