I am always having dreams that me and my boyfriend are breaking up for numerous reasons. He and I have been dating two years, and wer’e about to become a long distance relationship. I keep having dreams that we break up, and then along the line, no matter what, we always get back together. What could this symbolize? And don’t give me crap about dreams meaning nothing, because then I’ll just spam you. I’m looking for a theoretical answer.
Tags: Break, crap, Dating, having dreams, long distance relationship
well, i was with her for like one year, then she just cheated on me and she said it was only a game, that she loved me. my question is how can i get over her and love again.
Tags: Cuz, Game, long distance relationship, love
Both guys are my ex’s, and I’m not over either of them. Guy #1 is not around right now (rehab & school), but he says he still loves me. I have no contact with him at the moment, but his mother tells me everything he says about me. I trust him with everything I have. We broke up about 5 months ago, but only because he couldn’t handle a long distance relationship at the time. He will be back home by the end of this year, and I can’t wait to see him and get to know him again. Guy #2 is living in my town. I talk to him often. He tells me he loves me and that he would love to be with me again. He was also my first, so that is another reason this is tough for me. We broke up almost a year ago, and for the past few months, he’s been trying to get me back. I know I have the option to choose neither of them, but I feel like ill be losing more if I do. I tried listening to my heart, and it told me guy #1, but now I’m not sure. Both guys are incredibly amazing and sweet to me. I just want another person’s opinion about my situation. I know a lot of people go through this problem. Thanks in advance!
Tags: 5 months, amp, Distance Relationship, heart, long distance relationship, love, problem thanks, thanks in advance, two guys
So about a year ago I went to Africa to visit my family for the summer. And there I met the most incredible guy, and I reeeally liked him but never thought to seriously of it at first because long distance relationship wasn’t even an option in mind. But after he took me on a string of dates I really started to fall in love. He was so sweet and always looked after me….but eventually the time came for me to head back to the u.s. We kept talkin but it was hard. He asked me to marry him but i told him no because i felt it was too early, and that I was too young to make such a serious commitment (i’m 21 now, 20 at the time). Also i was getting alot of pressure from family and friends to move on because of the distance and the fact that i shudnt just up and marry the first guy i dated. So we kept breaking up and getting back together. I went to visit him again for christmas and things were just as if i had never left…But as soon as I came back home the communication had slowed. I was really upset and decided to just break things off for good (cuz i felt like i was young and wasting my life after one guy)….Fast forward two months, I really started to miss him. He seemed like wat every body had to say didn’t matter anymore cuz all i thought about was him, I didn’t care about the other guys taht liked me. At first he was really hesistant to talk to me ( i thought b/c i had hurt him) but he said it was becuz during our break he had slept with his ex and got her pregnant…
This Devastated ME!!! I cried for nights asking God why. Blaming myself more than anything. He treated me like a queen, with unconditional love that no other man has ever shown me, and was my first love. Now it seems like no other man can compare. I still cry myself to sleep thinking about him sumtimes and wishing somehow things could be the way they were…I’ve never been so close to another human being in my life. And it sucks cuz he’s even met my family which is a big deal. And even tho we kept taking breaks I always thought we wud end up together somehow…
Now I’m heartbroken and wonder if I’ll ever find such Love like that again??? Help
Tags: africa, alot, christmas, Cuz, Distance Relationship, family and friends, first love, god, long distance relationship, love, Met, Pregnant, queen, sleep, tho, unconditional love, wasting my life
We’ve been together for about nine months, and have already had a lot of problems. I don’t see us working out, but my boyfriend wants my constant support and a "woman he can come home to". I think it’s unfair of him to expect so much from me. He even proposed to me because he thought getting married would make things better.
As selfish as I might sound, I just can’t (and don’t want to) handle a long-distance relationship. I’ve already had two (with my dad while he was in the Navy and for three years with an ex-boyfriend), and they’ve drained me. My boyfriend doesn’t understand how much I’m going to worry about and miss him; he just thinks I want to replace him with a more "convenient" boyfriend.
I’m not going to search for a new boyfriend anytime soon (if at all), but I believe that things happen for a reason. If my boyfriend and I are meant to be, we’ll get back together someday. But I honestly don’t believe we have that strong of a connection. How can I convince my boyfriend that breaking up is a good idea (without having him worry that I’m going to be married with children the next time he sees me)?
Tags: Break, dad, Leaves, long distance relationship, married with children, navy, new boyfriend, nine months, things happen for a reason, worry
