So a little over a month ago me and my now ex-boyfriend were fighting and he broke up with me. He was being really mean to me and I was doing the same. I realized after that our fighting was dumb and I really love him, but he did not want to get back. Basically when he broke up with me he said he didn’t have feelings for me, and that you can’t just recreate the feelings he once had. Tomorrow me, my ex, and a bunch of friends are going to an amusement park for the day, is there any way I can make him "fall in love" with me again, were both seniors in high school and this is our last hoorah before the summer, i might not see him for a long time if we dont get back together due to different groups of friends. but how should i act toward him, i really really want him back

Tags: amusement park, Ex Boyfriend, Fall In Love, feelings, hoorah, long time, love quot, seniors

my boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago for a another girl we had been going out for a month and I had liked him for really long time and I found out he lied to me about his cousin being shot and killed in the marines. we do not speak or have any contact I deleted him as friend on facebook. but this weekend I saw him at a parade I new he would be at and he was whereing the
hat I gave to him for valentines day then him and his friend start following me around a bit.then on Monday he was continuassly looking at me and smiling and in dodgeball he was making delibrate attempts to hit me I don’t think I want to go out with him but I want him to want to go out with me again!

Tags: attempts, Contact, cousin, dodgeball, Ex Boyfriend, facebook, long time, marines

This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

Tags: amp, broken heart, butterflies, Chase, feelings, fiancee, hasn, heart, kind of game, long time, love, smile, strong woman

Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?

Tags: anullment, anything in this world, couple hours, cust, dad, enough money, fulltime job, intention, job, job search, long time, looking for a job, love, marriage, minimum wage, money, new job, pockets, searching for a job, Somthing, Stripping, three months

Which songs do you think suit the situation where you’ve dumped somebody who loves you a lot but you don’t find him/her interesting? and if you hadn’t even been going out for a long time anyway.

Tags: Dumper, good breakup songs, long time

It’s funny, I can handle failing a test, getting rejected from an interview, getting fired from job, slipping and falling on my face in the middle of a crowd of people… I just smile and forget about it…. but I have an emotional crisis whenever I get my heart broken.

What do you do to heal a broken heart? (personally I mean, what works for you?)

Me, I take a couple of days off and cry alone in my bed, watching episodes of Ally McBeal (she is just like me – always picking the wrong guys) and drinking lots of diet coke, then I throw myself into work and spend countless hours at the gym doing weight lifting and kickboxing (I like to imagine him as the punching bag)… then I usually swear off love and men for a long time…. then one day this man always comes along restores my faith in love only to hurt me again…. this time I think I am swearing off love for good. I am getting too old for this emotional tossing and turning! From this point on, I vow to be alone!!! Alone is much better than this torture.

Tags: ally mcbeal, broken heart, countless hours, couple of days, crowd, crowd of people, diet coke, emotional crisis, Faith, Funny, Heart Broken, job, long time, love, punching bag, smile, torture, vow, weight lifting, wrong guys

After facing the fact that my long time crush, has no interest in me. I decided to get back into the real world. I decided to start dating. I found a very understanding guy, who enjoys life. Just as much as I do. We talked and eventually got to know each other. As days passed we seemed to be inseperable. But, I also told him about the crush. He understood my situation and decided to help me get over it. By talking, at first. Then later dancing and then sex. I felt awful. Cause he has a girlfriend. And I told myself not to get into things like that. When I left to go home. He followed me home. Shockingly, he knew were I lived. He knew my sister and they went to high school together. I lied to him about hooking up with my crush. He didn’t seem phased by it. But, he said "I’ll holla at you later." Could this been something that would have flourished. or welt within time (weeks) Honestly, I know not to see him again. But, he has already been asking about me. And been sending me messages.

Tags: girlfriend, inseperable, long time, Mending A Broken Heart, real world, time crush, time weeks, welt

How to heal a broken heart?please someone tell me!! Because i just don’t know what else to do. I tried every thing from reading to exercising. Sometimes it did work but sometimes its like a tattoo that can’t stop hurting.I love this men with all my heart but it wasn’t that good love that one we hope for i was use by him and worst i let him do it for a long time because i was so blind. Although he wasn’t my boyfriend but yet he was always there when no one was he was like my "Superman" he show me things no else never did not even when i was little like caring and being nice but sadly it was a just lies all then all goes away you are not so important any more why? well someone else is in the picture then get merry after 7 months together.So i had to let it go but its been my night mare that i can’t wake up.You might ask why did you put your self in that position? well to be honest i didn’t listen we as girls once someone tells us things that no one did you feel its worst fighting for.

Tags: 7 months, broken heart, girls, How To Heal A Broken Heart, long time, night mare, quot, superman, tattoo

I’m a man who respect the others especially women
I fall in love with a lady, she has 20 years old and she study in the university in my city
she was sending to me a lot of warm love poems by e-mail, and time by time i use to tell her i love you and when i talk to her also when we meet each other.
She like that, and she feel delight!! She told me how she felt
we know each other from 245 days, I send her some e-mail, to tell her how much i think about her and that I love her and i want to married her. I mean that in future after she complete the studies
She was happy to hear like that, but today she is change – she answer me in mail and she said : « I think that in your mind I’m so perfect girl – it’s not me, you fall in love with perfectl imagination of me »
I know that you are so great person and wonderful man
but I realised that I treat you like great friend, and I’m not in love with you

then I choked, and after a while I think that she is only want to make sure if i really love her or not, I ask her to forgive me and that I’m her friend and i treat her more than friend
she said : « Don’t be angry with me, but I think that you think too much about me, I really not deserve for this, and I would rather be happy to hear that you met another girl, so great, nice and beautiful- not waste your time for me »

I told her that I should not wrote that letter, just think that it’s not exist, I want to be your friend and more for ever
she said : « thank you, you are my real treasure »
I know that I let you down, and now you will a bit sad because of me
I told her that i know what you think about and how you feel
And i don’t want some one to take you from me,
She said : « don’t worry, it’s difficoult for me to fall in love with somebody- i don’ know why »

I don’t know how I will could wait for long time when she will complete the study and then maybe i will have the right to talk about married ?

She send me e-mail last week, but I don’t know what to tell her about this mistake that I did
I only talk about married
Hello dear « xy »
Your mail give me real pleasure and relief.
First of course the song – I love this song!!
And I’m so happy that you are not angry with me, and I don’t feel like I has disappointed you, because you understand all my feelings and intentions.
You are so amazing person – I can tell you everything I feel, and don’t afraid of your reaction.
Thank you!!
Take care !!
I have 25 years old, we have sign of lion, both of us
and sorry for my English it’s my 3rd language,

Tags: e mail, imagination, long time, love poems, perfect girl, wonderful man

I’m a man who respect the others especially women
I fall in love with a lady, she has 20 years old and she study in the university in my city
she was sending to me a lot of warm love poems by e-mail, and time by time i use to tell her i love you and when i talk to her also when we meet each other.
She like that, and she feel delight!! She told me how she felt
we know each other from 245 days, I send her some e-mail, to tell her how much i think about her and that I love her and i want to married her. I mean that in future after she complete the studies
She was happy to hear like that, but today she is change – she answer me in mail and she said : « I think that in your mind I’m so perfect girl – it’s not me, you fall in love with perfectl imagination of me »
I know that you are so great person and wonderful man
but I realised that I treat you like great friend, and I’m not in love with you

then I choked, and after a while I think that she is only want to make sure if i really love her or not, I ask her to forgive me and that I’m her friend and i treat her more than friend
she said : « Don’t be angry with me, but I think that you think too much about me, I really not deserve for this, and I would rather be happy to hear that you met another girl, so great, nice and beautiful- not waste your time for me »

I told her that I should not wrote that letter, just think that it’s not exist, I want to be your friend and more for ever
she said : « thank you, you are my real treasure »
I know that I let you down, and now you will a bit sad because of me
I told her that i know what you think about and how you feel
And i don’t want some one to take you from me,
She said : « don’t worry, it’s difficoult for me to fall in love with somebody- i don’ know why »

I don’t know how I will could wait for long time when she will complete the study and then maybe i will have the right to talk about married ?

She send me e-mail last week, but I don’t know what to tell her about this mistake that I did
I only talk about married
Hello dear « xy »
Your mail give me real pleasure and relief.
First of course the song – I love this song!!
And I’m so happy that you are not angry with me, and I don’t feel like I has disappointed you, because you understand all my feelings and intentions.
You are so amazing person – I can tell you everything I feel, and don’t afraid of your reaction.
Thank you!!
Take care !!
I have 25 years old, we have sign of lion, both of us

Tags: e mail, imagination, long time, love poems, perfect girl, wonderful man

Any good ideas how to deal with a 10 year relationship breakup ??.. I caught a lady at his apartment even thought he said they were just talking .. He told me we were going to work on us and try to get back together and that he wasn’t seeing or talking to anyone.. Well he is I know for sure now he knows I know …but he still wants to think about coming back here says he loves me I love him I am a mess I miss him and he was here helping me raise my 4 year old grand daughter and she misses him… He says he misses us… I am not sure what to do… if he comes back he will see this person at work everyday… what would you do ??? we are not kids we are in our 40s.. not married I was a widow when I got with him… this is only my second relationship he has been married twice and many relationships.. He says he is afraid I will not trust him again… He has been talking to this lady for a long time 7 months or more told he he talks to NO one at work even when he moved out told me that…And said we would see no one while trying to work on us… This lady was at his apartment the very night he moved in… And he gets mad when I say it is more then just friends..

Tags: 40s, 7 months, apartment, grand daughter, How To Deal With Breakup, just friends, long time, Relationship Breakup, relationships

I broke up with my boyfriend like A LONG time ago and I’m still in love. What should I do ?

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, long time, love

she says that she was in love with her ex-bf but he cheated on her, so she is afraid of loving again. how long time should i give her. she is 24 and im 25.

Tags: bf, long time, love, Met

Yes he cheated on me. Yes he dumped me. Yes he made me lost all of my confident. He treated me like a piece of shit while he had an affair.

17th of may 09 I caught him via email. He was in love with his colleague in another state.

I forgive him straight away and want him to work out for our married.
Took him for long time to stop the game.

Now we are back together. and he said sorry . he made a mistake and he tried to be a good dad and husband.
In fact I don;t love him any more but I stay with him because of kids. ( 4 and 6)
Everyday I live by day. I don;t know when my heart is expired.
I can not trust any men in this world except my father and my son.
And I think I keep him, better give him to someone else. He is still my father of my kids and still pay the bill.
However I believe. " Love never say sorry"

pls give me some advice how can I move on . forget all the past…….
How can I trust him again? How can I love him again??

Tags: colleague, dad, email, Fall In Love, Game, heart, long time, love, mistake, piece of shit

So me and my boy-friend was together for really long time (9-10 months) and now we recently broke up. He say he still likes me and I do too. But he gots a new girlfriend but their relationship isn’t working out so well. What should I do? Btw, I’m helping his girlfriend to find out if they will keep going out. So..How should I wait for him or Let him go?

Tags: 10 months, boy friend, Ex Boyfriend, girlfriend, long time, new girlfriend, relationship

And how long before I quit wanting to pick up the phone and call him? This relationship has been over for him for a long time, but it’s easy and convenient for him so he’d just assume stay even though he’s already decided he doesn’t want anything long term with me. Get this – he’ll leave when the next best thing comes along, but until then, he doesn’t see any reason for us to break up because something better may never come along and I’ll get to keep him by default, at least day by day. Huh? I decided to pick up my pride and move on, but my pride is seeming less important by the minute! lol He’s so sweet and so nice and has really helped me out the last 3 years of my life – he just doesn’t love me! But I sure love him… Actually I guess I just need y’all to call me an idiot and tell me to leave the dang phone alone!

Tags: 3 years, Initial Pain, long time, Move On 98, pride, relationship, years of my life

We have been married 2 1/2 years, pretty much he has been rude, mean, angry and unhappy the whole marriage. I am tired of being in a relationship where I am not loved, but I still love him very much, so how do I just let it go? I am not ready to move on, but I am ready to end it, I think anyways……..
Really I think that I need to have him move out and really just not see or talk to him at all for a very long time – but here is the problem. We have a little baby together and I can’t afford the lease that we are locked into by myself. This home is beautiful and it is big, I could easily rent out the master bed and bath, is that a good idea? It would not be to a stranger, but a friend or relative.
I am so frustrated at this situation, I have given this marriage my all, 100% for the 2 1/2 years and got nothing in return –
Help please!

Tags: bed and bath, little baby, long time, love, marriage, Move On 98, relationship, stranger

Me and my ex are getting back together after being broke up. Help me find something about falling in love again, or songs about another chance.

Tags: amp, falling in love, long time, love, songs

My girlfriend just broke up with me…in the relationship for a year and a half. It’s been a long time coming, so I’m not crazy upset, but I would like to drink for a couple days straight.

What’s the best way to stay upbeat, and bounce back after a failed relationship?

Tags: bounce, couple days, girlfriend, long time, relationship

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 9 months (in a few days) and for the first year of our relationship we never fought about anything. after that the fights started coming. but they were little and stupid and we got over them quickly. but now we can expect them to happen every few days and they last a long time and its getting harder and harder to deal with…

hes the kind of person that thinks you fight, you walk away from the situation, sleep on it, forget it, and move on.

i have to talk about it and resolve it right then and there or i cant sleep and i dwell and i end up thinking that everything is my fault.

and as you can imagine…that creates a whole other mess of problems.

anyway, we both just graduated high school and we were looking at colleges…he picked a college that is the furthest he can be away from me, but still in the united states (we live in washington state and hes moving to florida) … and he wont give me a specific reason as to why he is going, which makes me think that he wants to get away from me because we fight to much or something. i feel like he thinks that im not the same person he fell in love with.

but he has told me that he still loves me and wants to be with me. but the way hes acting makes me think the exact opposite.

hes really just not interested in me anymore. he doesnt like to play with me. he just wants me to sit on the couch and watch tv until he needs to go to bed.

so i guess my question is : how do i make him fall back in love with me? how do i make sure that when he leaves hes really going to miss me and hes not going to dump me?

Tags: 9 months, Acting, cant sleep, colleges, couch, Fall In Love, few days, long time, love, moving to florida, relationship, Resolve, sleep, united states, washington state, watch tv

i need someone to write a poem for me. its for the guy i secretly seen for a long time because he is 5 1/2 years older than me. we were in love with each other but he left because he didn’t want to get into trouble. i miss him soo bad. he loves poems. if you could write one kinda long, sad, and make him possibly cry. if it helps any….i have blonde hair and blue eyes and he has brown hair and hazel eyes. I want this poem to sound mature. i will give you the credit for writing the poem. hope you can help me!!! thanks

Tags: blonde hair, blue eyes, brown hair, hazel eyes, long time, love, poem hope, poems, Sad Girl, sad poem

Ive been stuck on my ex for a really long time, its been 7 months since he broke up with me and i still cant get over him, we lost our virginity to eachother and im having a hard time believing that hes completly over me, we still talk but its akward. How do I move on?

Tags: 7 months, akward, completly, Ex Boyfriend, Getting Over An Ex, hard time, long time, Lost, virginity

Me and my boyfriend/fiance of 5 years just recently broke up.. about 2 weeks ago. I found out from a friend of his that he was cheating on me prior to the breakup which hurt me so bad. But i kept quiet about it, Once I told him that I knew he was cheating on me,he denied it but finally admitted that he had caught hard feelings for the other girl. I moved out and we didn’t speak for a few days. He then called me and said that he wanted to talk to me face to face about it. While we were talking he said that he loves me and he was confused about who he wanted to be with. Then he later said that he wanted to be with me and her, he didn’t want to choose. How could he fix his mouth to say something like that? While In his presence I must admit that i became weak and I did allow myself to be intimate with him. He told me that he wanted me to move back home, but later said that he wanted to be with her. Now he says that he needs time to see where he wants to be and he wants me to wait for him.
He says that he needs time for himself and that he will make a decision as to who he wants to be with, but for me to be patient with him because he could choose me. He also told me today that he loves her, but they have only been together since April 27th. I don’t have much family and friends to help me get through this pain. 5 years is a long time and I still love this man with all my heart. Walking away is a difficult thing and staying will only cause me more pain I know this, but how do I avoid him? I wish I didn’t love him so much!

Tags: Face To Face, family and friends, few days, fiance, hard feelings, Healing A Broken Heart, heart, long time, Painful Experience, presence

Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up in May
I just started talking to him again
whats the chance of us getting back together?

thanks alot )

Tags: How Many People, long time

Someone told me a long time ago that it’s usually 18-24 months. Is that true?
My breakup is really fresh, as in last night and I am beside myself. I cannot wrap my brain around it. It doesn’t seem real.

Tags: brain, long time