Or songs about dumping someone, I just broke up with my boyfriend cause instead of telling me he wanted to see other people, he led me to believe he wanted only me, I need some therapy music. Please help , any genre music, R*B and alt rock are my faves. That freakin loser.

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I went out with my sister-in-law this weekend. She is a smart, talented, hardworking, BEAUTIFUL woman. Her ex husband sucked the life out of her and never appreciated her.

Now she’s dating, and the guys that she goes out with use her up and then want nothing to do with her.

I see this all the time; a phenomenal woman will get with a guy and within a few weeks he is treating her like crap. Once he’s sucked all of the life out of her, he moves on. It seems like once a man has a woman hooked, he starts doing shady crap and when she calls him on it, he treats her like she’s "crazy" and "insecure" and "needy".

It’s to the point that I hate men! A man will try to flirt with me and I’m absolutely DISGUSTED! The thoughts that come into my mind are, "Yeah…you want ME to give YOU my happiness and worth. You want in my pants; you want me to clean your house and cook your dinner, while you go out with your boys. If I complain, then I’m a B****. If I ask for help, I’m a nag. You want me to take care of you in bed and out and I get nothing in return. Yeah, keep flirting, Loser".

I pretty much think how DARE he flirt with me!?! On the other hand, I see women. I see how they’ve been hurt. "Sl*ts" aren’t bad women; they are women that have been hurt by men so many times that they don’t care any more. They get their physical needs met and move on, because you can’t expect anything from a selfish child.

I actually told this to my husband the other day. I told him that I like him and I love him, but I just HATE men. This is genuinely how I feel. Men find a beautiful, vibrant woman, use her up and dump her out with the trash.

I don’t even understand why ANYONE would want to pursue a relationship with a man. I think if my husband turns out to be a run of the mill life-sucker like the majority of other men out there, then I’m turning lesbian.

Behind every B***h is a man that made her that way!
Ok, to be less general: why are GOOD men such a rare find?! There are some out there; I’m actually married to one of them. I kissed a lot lot lot of frogs before I found him though, and I see my girlfriends (married and single) just get used and used and used.

And to the men with the rude responses about my question: You are exactly the losers that I’m talking about! I bet you left some beautiful vibrant woman miserable in your wake. Good job! See if you can ruin a few more lives before God finally rids this planet of you.

Tags: bad women, beautiful woman, crap, Dating, happiness, loser, Many Men, Men Suck, Men Women, phenomenal woman, quot, relationship, selfish child, Sister In Law, sucker, trash, vibrant woman, Women Men

I’m recently divorced for the 2nd time and in my mid 30s. I’m heartbroken and depressed. I have great kids and they are the reason i live. I spend all of my time with them but I’m sure they have better things to do than hang out with their mom. I have just gotten so down on myself. I look at married couples that are happy like most of my friends and my sisters and I am so envious. I feel like a big loser to be my age and not be married. It’s hard financially and emotionally. All I do is sit home or take the kids places. I grew up in not so stable home, we moved around alot and my mom was married 6 times ( please don’t say anything mean about her b/c she passed away a few years ago) All I have ever wanted out of life is to be a wife and mother. Don’t get me wrong, I am educated and i went to college but I would rather have personal success than financial success. I want to have a family and someone to grow old with that can share life with me. I know that you never find someone when you are looking so I don’t look. I don’t even know if I will ever love again because I loved my ex husband so much and i’m having a hard time forgetting him:( Anyway, what can I do to feel better about myself? and should I just give up on having a family and accept that I will grow old alone?

Tags: big loser, financial success, hard time, loser, married couples, mid 30s, mom, personal success, Reason

Do men respect women who dump their loser bf’s who treat them badly ?

I just got rid of this guy who never did ANYTHING for me while he was wining & dining another woman.

I told him ‘ U always treated me bad" …I hope that sentence hurts him like he hurt me

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I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, it was long distance relationship and just wouldn’t work:( but he said he want to be friends and i felt bad ending it and hurting him so said later we could.

So he emailed me saying i messed it all up, but he still want to get back together and loves me. I ignored it.
But a month later he just asked what’s new and stuff being friendly. So i answer trying to be nice to him, i even didn’t mention my new boyfriend(who was a good friend of mine for years) cause i didn’t want to rub that it his face.
So we talked a little and then he brought up my new guy and wasn’t very nice and said he still loves me. So i just started talking about something else, but he kept bring it up and getting mean. So i him told he was all wrong, because my new boyfriends amazing and i love him, and will do more than text me once a week to talk about sex:s that’s almost all my ex would talk about to me.
But he emailed me back saying how my boyfriend is going to get bored of me, and break up, but i’ll find another loser, who i think like me, but only wants to get in my pants. And how he’s so much better than my boyfriend.
It made me so mad, and upset. I want to reply back, but don’t know if i should, or what to say?
Please help, he was my first boyfriend, so never dealt with an ex before:(
So so sorry it was so long, but i need to give the background, so you could know what kind of guy he is. i tired har to not make it too long, guess i failed:(

Tags: Boyfriends, Distance Relationship, Friends, good friend, har, long distance relationship, loser, new boyfriend