OK everyone, basically the girl of my dreams broke up with me a while ago. We’re still both in high school. What happened is actually rather trivial.
Basically my problem was that I was far too nice to her from the very start, never forcing her into anything and always trying to be as sweet as possible (think Bruno Mars) xD eventually this killed the love she felt for me and one day she told me she didn’t we were meant for each other but she would still like to be friends.
It tore me apart to hear this from the girl I would give everything for and I haven’t been myself for a while now…
Of course I wasn’t experienced in things like this and I made the mistake of playing the doormat, trying to be nice but constantly being depressed and asking her to come back. I didn’t leave her alone and eventually she had enough. I realized my mistake too late and now we aren’t even friends and she doesn’t seem to care at all. She has stopped talking to me altogether and even blocked me on facebook. (She doesn’t hate me but shes avoiding me whenever it’s possible)
Now I realize my mistakes and I’m leaving her alone for a while. Chances are she won’t get herself into another relationship anytime soon but nevertheless I’m worried I may have done permanent damage to any leftover feelings she may have for me. I’m cutting off all contact with her and taking the time to make myself a more attractive person. I’m also going to give the impression that I’ve moved on even though I still love her.
I’m wondering if this will work at all considering all thats already happened. People tend to want what the can’t have but I’m just extremely unsure whether I’ve killed every bit of affection or care she has for me. Someone please help. Thanks

Tags: affection, attractive person, bruno, Cutting, doormat, feelings, Friends, girl of my dreams, love, Love Help, mistake, permanent damage, relationship, taking the time

I need help again me and my wife are legally seperated but something in my heart still makes me want to believe that we can work this out.Any way she has a restraining order against me but we have been talking on the phone and she said she loved the way i was acting.So last night i went to a club i knew she would be at just to see her and tell her i still loved her and i would continue working on myself so i could be the person she could love again.Anyway i saw her walking with another guy she said they are just friends yet she runs into bar and i meet and the door by 4 bouncers and 15 minutes later 3 cop cars show up and ask me to leave.The thing is i am not that angry person she knew i have quit drinking and have found God plus i work out 2 times a day so i can start to like my self.I have past questions on her if anyone wants some background info.What i also want to know if she was not up to anything why run into the bar and send the bouncers out to stop me.Please women only .

Tags: 15 minutes, Acting, angry person, background info, bouncers, Cars Show, cop cars, fear, god, just friends, Love Help, Night Club, restraining order, something in my heart

I am still in love with my ex… We met when she was really young, i was too admittedly, we dated then but i took her for granted, we broke up and lost touch with each other. A year later, I contacted her and we got together again, again, we broke up… Six months later this time we got together again and this tome things seemped ok, but her parents forced us to break up… Fast forward to 2010, it’s been a year and half since we dated last, but I’m head over heals for her again, I cannot seem to get her out of my head… We’ve made contact again, and now she old enough and we actually have th time and money to see each other, but this time around she’s changed a bit… I eemebered how much she liked cheesy stupid little romantic things, so to ask her out I made note that said "will you go out with me… Check yes or no…" With a note that said, "see back for more options"… She loved it, but said not yet… Which wasn’t actually an option… Lol… But anyway, she said she wanted to us to get to know each other again, I reminded her that I knew more about her than any other person on the planet, which is sort of true… She still wants time… I love her sooo much and it tortures me to so close to her, but not be with her… Should I give her th time, or let it go knowing I’ve had plenty of chances? Does reminding her of what we used to have help or hurt? Should I keep reminding her I love her? Please help.

Tags: Break, Contact, Fast Forward, head over heals, lol, love, Love Help, parents, six months, sooo, th time, Time And Money

I really love this girl, it’s pure genuine love, and I told her I love her.

But a previous relationship she was raped and abused, and she says she doesn’t trust me.

I’ve known her for 2 years and I really want to be with her.

I don’t want to force anything on her, but what should I do, I can’t back down now, after all this time.

Please help

Tags: Love Help, Pure Love, relationship

I used to date this girl for 2 years, loved her, cared about her, took her virginity. Alot of history there. Had our whole life planned out together. We broke up, she dated another guy for six months, I stayed single, hooked up with numerous other women. She’d still always try to talk to me when she was with him but i’d ignore her. We started talking again after he dumped her, she started talkin to me first, we’d hang out. Now we’re at a point where you can freely say we’re dealing, it’s been six months of us chilling again. Three things concern me…. 1. She told me she loves me again, I can’t say it back 2. She fucked this other guy twenty times, we had sex like twice in two years 3. She tells me she never let go of me, i always had a piece of her heart and she cared when she was with someone else…. thats a contridiciton in my opinion when she was fucking another guy or at least i don’t get how it works

Tags: alot, heart, Love Help, six months, twenty times, virginity, Whole Life