My boyfriend of a little over a year broke up with me over the weekend stating that he felt as though we were more like friends and that he’s felt this way for a while. He told me that I was perfect for him and that he didn’t know why his head was telling him to do this. We celebrated our anniversary a month ago and he said at that time he didn’t even love me. I knew that something was wrong for the past month and asked him about it often but kept being told that everything was fine, that he was just stressed out with work and his health.

I love him so much and miss him a lot and can’t understand what it is that I did wrong to make his feelings for me change. He says I didn’t do anything but I must have as people don’t just decide they don’t love one another anymore for no reason. He says that he feels like he lost his best friend and that he’d like for us to be friends if and when I’m able to do that.

What do I do? I love him with my everything and want him in my life but I know that I’d never be able to handle hearing about a new love interest, a new relationship or see him with someone else.

How do I get over this? I can’t remember who I was without him. I just want to stop crying all the time. I don’t know how much longer I can do this for.

Tags: anniversary, best friend, feelings, Friends, Health, love, love interest, relationship

My wife of over 20 years has renewed her Love interest in a guy from her past. She told him that she would return to him, but she never did, when she married me. We have 2 kids. She went back, and made the mistake of seeing the guy 6 months ago, and now she is deeply in Love with him again. Webcams, emails, and phonecalls back & forth every day, and if I mention it to her I am an intruding security guard! What can I do to get her back to me as her only love again? She is already planning the rest of her life and for them to be together and it terrifies me! I Love her today as much as the day we first married! PLEASE HELP ME before it’s too late!!

Tags: amp, love interest, Love Triangle, mistake, security guard

hey, i’m 19. me and my ex-lover who is also 19, had an honest, solid relationship. we were really close. i became unhappy in our relationship because i realized how much more mature i was than he is. i love this guy but he is so immature. i wanted to find someone who was more like me, who wanted to travel, was more mature and spiritual, looked different, etc. i started getting close to another guy, and i wanted to try having a relationship with him because i wanted to explore. my ex was my first love and i wanted to try things with this new guy. i explained everything to my boyfriend. he did NOT like this, and it hurt him. i hurt him a lot. we were so close. i wanted too much, tried to perfect my love life but it backfired and now i miss my ex so much and it made me realize how important he seriously was to me. he made me happy and i got bored and distracted by this new potential love-interest dude who turned out to be so much less than i had imagined and i lost touch with the fact that my relationship with my ex was soo great and vital to my life.
we broke up about a week and a half ago. after we broke up, me and "the new boy" hooked up. during the "hook-up", all i could think about was my ex and how much of a mistake i was making for us. it wasn’t until then that i realized all this. all i was trying to do was get an ego-boost from another dude. all i really wanted was to express myself and have other people to recognize me for being beautiful and smart and whatever else i wanted. i wanted someone to be into me and make me feel important and amazing. but it was stupid and dillusional, what i did. all i was doing was not appreciating my boyfriend and thinking all about me.
so anyway. what should i do????? or not do??? to make him want me back. because i know he still loves me, this guy was totally in love with me. and i hurt him a lot. i know he HATES cheaters. but i know that i was honest with him about this and didn’t cheat. and he admires that but i know what i did hurt. but what can i do to make him want me back regardless of that mistake i made and how do i approach him about it without seeming like i have no pride
please help thankyou for readinggg

Tags: cheaters, ego, Ex Boyfriend, first love, Hey, Hook, love interest, love life, mistake, relationship