Ok … I have been married for over 20 years and we have 2 boys a home and so much more but my wife has fallen out of love with me and there is no sex for over 1/ 2 years. I would like to know what i can do to help her fall back again so she will want to have sex again. She may have sex is i pressure her but she would not love me back or go through the motions. I know women or emeotional and they need to fill good and love there man to want to have sex. Its not just a chore for her just because we are married. I want her to love me again. She loves are kids so much that i dont think shhe has any room for her husband. She never wants to do anything together or go out on a date or a getaway with out the kids . Only if the kids are with us. So there is not much i can do to spend time with her. I help at home and all the chores and i give her back rubs and foot messages and i tell her she is attractive all the time. She is a good cook and a great mom and all is good. There are things she complains about and i do listen but i just dont wish to change so much that i am not the same as i have always been. How can i regain her love again.??? She is 43 and i am 50….

Tags: back rubs, chores, getaway, good cook, Lost Love, love, Love Man, mom, motions, Much Love

I am married for a year and my wife is in love with another man with whom she had a physical and emotional affair. She has been in love with him before we got married and I didnt know about it. She tells me she is still in love with him and cannot get any feelings towards me other than being a friend. She even finds it hard to come close to my physically. In fact, she got married to me because of several other reasons – our families were close, we were engaged for almost three years and we were good friends, she didn’t want to hurt all of us by breaking it off. But she did tell me before our wedding that she didn’t want to get married because she didnt love me. All of us thought she was not serious and convinced her that everything is going to be ok after the marriage. Also, the man she was in love with was married at that time (he is now divorced because of his affair with my wife) and she thought that she would be losing everything if she walked away from her marriage knowing her boyfriend was married. But now, with him being single again, she is having a hard time getting over the fact that she made a mistake in getting married to me. She also feels responsible for her boyfriend’s divorce and that she feels guilty about this.

This is causing a lot of stress for us. How do I make her forget her boyfriend and fall in love with me? I try to do all the small things to take care of her and she notices it, but she is unable to feel the same way towards me.

Tags: all the small things, divorce, emotional affair, Fall In Love, feelings, good friends, hard time, love, Love Man, Man Love, marriage, mistake, stress

I hurt my man really bad. I lied to him a lot. I came on to him friends in from of him when i was drunk. I tryed sudctioning his friends in front of him. I didn’t realize what i was doing in front of him. ? I never did that before when i was drinking. I went to a classmate’s house after he told me not to go because i didn’t know him at all i just had met him a few days before. The guy had hurted me really bad that i was crying after he had really rough sex with me that i couldn’t even move off the bed. I kepted on telling the guy to stop that he was hurting me i was screaming really lound trying to push him out of me but i couldn’t get him out of me i was telling him no it hurts a lot stop he would listen to me. He kepted on going like i didn’t say anything to him. He kepted on going deeper. It felt like he raped me his friend saw the all thing happened. He wanted his friend to join in with him like i wanted a 3 some. He was saying to his friend that i liked being told want to do.

Tags: classmate, Drunk, Fall In Love, few days, Lot, Lound, Love Man, rough sex

So what should I do? We fight , but we also get a long with each other. He thinks I cheat on him, but i dont I really really LOVE HIM!!!

Tags: broken heart, Fight 98, Heart Love, Love Man

its just last monday he prefer to end everything but I’m confused because hes still texting me and hes still using our endearment…"baby"…He used to tell me that he love me so much…that no matter what happens he do still love me.

Before I came he already have this girl..for almost 3years already and the girl has an illness and I also have a boyfriend for almost 1 year but we’ve broke up last year(december).

I took the consecquences…the pain everytime were in public places or even at work,i must hide myself from his friends just to protect him from any issues.I do love him so much that made me feel the pain and happinness of his love for more than 2months.

But one day,I dont know what happenned but he was changed,hes not that sweet and caring enough to me anymore…But I keep on understanding the situation,that might be there are some problems to his family or with that girl.Yet one day he prefer to end everything.

I’m not asking if anything..time or something,all I just need is just knowing that he do still love me and he can still be there for me, despite of the most complicated situation.I don’t want to take him away from that girl,thats why I keep on hiding myself.

But I lost him..he keep on saying that he do still love me but he ended everything…

"this is the best thing for the two of of us"

it hurts so much,you loved him so much and sacrifice almost your everything but all he can say is just "I love you but the best thing for the two of us is to end this"

How can i move on If can still see him most of the time?or even see thier pictures in my network???…

How can I HEAL myself????

Tags: endearment, happinness, Heart Love, hes, How Can You Heal A Broken Heart, last monday, Lost, Love Man