I’ve been married almost 10 years to a woman I love. recently she told me she doesn’t love me. Never really has. Not the way a woman should love her man. Guess I was blind. Never saw it that way. Frankly, I don’t believe "every" word.

But I’ve been doing my best to make her feel special and bring back that loving feeling.

She gets back rubs and foot massages 3-4 times per week. I make dinner more frequently, clean the house, put the dishes away, do laundry, try to appear positive and treat her to small things often.

I love her more than life itself. Just looking for some other things.

Let’s hear your best. Money’s a little tight right now so no extravagant trips/jewelry.

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We are thinking about going to Miami for our 5 yr anniversary leaving our 2 children with the grandparents, this will be our first trip together without kids/family/friends probably since we got married.

Our marriage is on the rocks even living separated so we are attempting to save our marriage. Can you give opinions on where to go in Miami that would be romantic place to stay, places to eat, activities, etc.

Truly appreciate all the advice!

Thank you! Tonya
Just wanted to clarify before people started asking/commenting about it …. We are already in counseling!!!! Already doing all of that … this is a trip to kinda get away from the stress and time to spend on just us!

We know where things started to go downhill and that was not spending time on each other! After kids everything became about them and almost forgot about each other. No we don’t hate each other no it’s not horriable we can get along when we have to just thought a trip might help bring that loving feeling back And no i’m not blaming the kids just saying that’s when we quit working on our marriage for us!

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