My ex boyfriend (we’ll call him Sam) and I were friends from middle school and later dated for about 3 years. We lived together after high school for a while with our best friend. "Sam" was everything to me, everyone knew us as the one couple that might actually make it. Our families were ready for us to marry one day.the only flaw was he wasn’t on the same sexual plane as me.. He didn’t seem comfortable with sex. The lack of intimacy frustrated me and eventually we just became more like friendly room mates than the beautiful relationship we had. Feeling insecure I started flirting with an old hook up buddy that lived in another state. "Sam" found out and we broke up. It’s been almost 2 years and I am 21 years old now. I’ve had 2 boyfriends since, and am with somebody currently. But recently and randomly for the past month for some reason I can’t stop thinking about my ex and I can’t stop crying over him. Help please?
When we would talk about it he didn’t see the problem and eventually stopped kissing me in fear of turning me on. We have talked about it, we still met every couple months for lunch to talk and catch up but his recent girlfriend isn’t comfortable with it. I’m mostly looking for advice on how to FIX the mess I made- I’m aware I messed up…

Tags: 3 years, best friend, Boyfriends, fear, girlfriend, hook up, lack of intimacy, lunch, relationship, room mates

I am moving back home and really want to start a relationship with my ex again bc i still care about her. When ever I am in town we will go see a movie or go to lunch. I cant tell if she still has feelings for me bc she seems to watch herself around me. How can I find out if she cares about me still and not ask her directly because i don’t want to make it weird if she doesn’t have same feelings. also her parents really like me does that help things?

Tags: cares, feelings, lunch, Moving, parents, relationship

Ok so me and my girlfriend where going out for a bit more than a year befor we broke up. A few days befor we broke up we where in a fight and she started hanging out with this guy because she knows I don’t like him but a few days later she brokeup with m. Since then she stopped talking to him completaly actually she rilly doesn’t like him anymore but now she has a completaly new group of friends and I hate two of the girls with a pashion. We still talk and say we miss eachother and are on the verge of getting back together a few times but then something happens and we fight and stop talking for a day then were talking and repeat. But most of the tim the fight comes because she says she is gonna leave the two friends I hate behind so she can be with me we make plans to hangout at lunch (in school) and she doesn’t hangout with them all day but just befor we go to meet she goes and hangs out with the two girls again and I say she lied blah blah blah we get in a fight then the next day were getting along again. Right now were in a fight again because yesterday the same thin I described happened and when we where almost made up I foundout she lied to me about who she was with last night and it was a dif guy I don’t like her being around because of how he acts. So I hot mad and were fighting again and she said not to talk to her ever again but that was only emotions because it’s happened beor and I think if I tx her tomorrow she will be ok with me gain like it has been like… But this time the last txt sent was from me and I said basicly that she just used her last chance of picking er friends over me because Im gonna not talk to her and be indapendant and see what happens if she trys to makeup with me instead of me trying. Do you think I should do what I said about waiting? And what should I do to get her back? (and hopfully get rid of those two girls that are her new friends).

Tags: eachother, emotions, ex girlfriend, few days, girlfriend, girls, last chance, lunch, makeup, new friends, pashion, rilly, those two girls, two friends, verge

I had lunch with my ex wife today and guess what, she wants to try again and get back together. We have been divorced two years and she claims she has not slept with anybody and has been celebant.

That’s not important, but what is grabbing me is that she really is sorry that we split up and she is so sincere ansd she looks great.he lost weight. Now here’s the problem, I have a lady living with me right now and I told her about it. I’m just helping her out and my ex wife tells me she has to go and I have to let her know when she comes home today and tell her she needs to make arrangements because my ex wife wants to move back in with me and I want my ex wife back.

What is a nice way to say she has to go?

Tags: Celebant, Ex Wife, home today, lunch

my boyfriend of a year and a half was going behind my back with other girls, taking them out to lunch, massages in class, that kinda thing. we’ve been texting cus i cant seem to get over him. whats a good way to resist the urge to text him back?

Tags: Cus, Ex Boyfriend, girls, lunch, massages, Urge