I’ve been with my husband for 6 years (inlcuding dating). I’m in my early 20′s and so is my husband. I love him deeply but don’t know if I want to be here anymore. I met someone else last week and spent most of the week with them, hanging out all day and getting to know each other and eventually sleeping together.

I convinced myself to leave my husband (so I tried) and then I slept with him, came home and admitted it. Now my husband is considering taking me back.

But I don’t know if I want to work things out. I’ve developed feelings for this other person and can see myself living a good life with him. But I’m afraid to hurt my husband again. I don’t deserve my husband after doing this to him and if I could do this to him, I mustn’t be "in love" with him. People tell me you can cheat and still love your partner, but how can you. How can you hurt that person so much? I don’t understand and I don’t want to stuff him around. What do I do?
I don’t want to continue on with this guy if I decide to stay and I’m not seeing him right now. I know I need to work out my shit, but what I guess I’m asking is does a cheater deserve another chance. My view is he deserves better than this, but on the other hand I don’t want to be a quitter (even though I did quit the second I decided to cheat).

Tags: 6 years, cheater, Dating, feelings, love quot, M 105, Met, quitter

I’m in desperate need of sound advice. I never thought I’d be in this situation. My wife and I went on a overseas trip. One late afternoon, we went out for drinks. As we were heading back to the hotel, she fell and hurt herself badly. We then got into a heated argument which continued when we got back to our room. It eventually lead to me storming out in anger, leaving my wife in her injured state. I found myself wondering around town and wound up in a strip club. At the strip club, I spent time in the vip lounge where I kissed and caressed two females there. Afterwards, I returned to the hotel room where I found that my wife had just returned from the police station and reported me missing. I felt extremely guilty and the realization that I could lose my marriage/family over my stupidity hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn’t tell my wife about it out of fear, but she eventually found out by questioning me and I came clean. In retrospect, I should have told her upfront but I so afraid of losing my marriage/family.

Since that terrible afternoon/night, I go through each day (and probably the rest of my life) with great regret, depression, and disgust knowing I screwed up such a beautiful marriage and family. My wife, rightfully so, is angy and upset about the situation and thinks about it day in and day out, particularly she thinks of divorcing me. I desperately need ideas/suggestions on how I can repair this marriage. What things I can do to mend the damage I have caused? I sincerely appreciate any sound advice provided. Thanks.

Tags: anger, desperate need, disgust, Drinks, females, Help Marriage, hotel room, late afternoon, Lead, M 105, marriage, marriage and family, marriage family, overseas trip, police station, realization, rest of my life, retrospect, sound advice, strip club, stupidity, ton of bricks, two females, upfront, vip lounge

My wife always says "I’m in and out, no big deal." But I like to enjoy a good crap. I grab a magazine and sit there for awhile relaxing. Why don’t women enjoy this too?

I heard once that men enjoy it more because as the deuce is coming out it massages the prostate and relaxes you.

Any ideas on that?

Tags: crap, deuce, M 105, massages, Taking A Dump

I really want my ex boyfriend back..I’m in love with him..he says ha doesn’t want to hurt me anymore and he doesn’t want to try again but he loves me a lot..how do I tell him he won’t always hurt me? He also has trouble with commitment to someone ..how to I help him commit to me if we got back together?

Tags: Ex Boyfriend, Lot, love, M 105

i know this is pathetic, but we dated for two years and i really miss him..

does anyone have any tips on how to get him back?
i wish i could try and move on, but i’m in love with him and it sucks..

he said he was ‘sick of the fighting’
but we didnt fight that often so i”m confused on it.

and i’ve tried letting him know how i feel, he never really says anything back to me about it or anything though.

Tags: love, M 105, Move On 98