In late November my wife announced, out of the blue, that she does not love me anymore. She is planning to move out in Mid March. Our 11 year old straight A daughter, like my self, thought everything was fine in our home. My wife finnishes school in May with a degree as a Rad Tech / Xray. We have been together for 21 years. She will be 43 in July and I turned 53 on Christmas Day. She is very beautiful and i remain very fit and healthy. When we met she was only 20 and had a 5 year old son that I raised from that point with her. He lives in Las Vegas. He is so upset that he is moving home to Ohio and wants to move in with me. My wife will not agree to conceling and will only say that she wants out. There are many things that I could and would do differently if she would stay but I can think of nothing that rises to the level of wanting to break up our family and marriage. Help!
Tags: christmas, christmas day, home to ohio, las vegas, late november, love, many things, marriage, Marriage Help, mid march, moving home, out of the blue, rad tech
hi. i know a break up isnt the end of the world and time will heal everything. but i was in a 2 year relationship with a guy who hurt me so much- he cheated on me, lied to me about so many things, cursed at me etc.
i know after what i went through you would say just forget him but it isnt that easy. i truly loved him although he hurt me. it’s been a few months since we broke up but he still calls me. i tried everything i can- crying, going out with friends, writing in journals, not talking to my ex, etc but it’s getting worse.
i think the reason is because i tried dating this one new guy and i was interested, i thought he was interested too but he just stopped contacting me. i tried calling and texting but he just ignored me and never responded. so now the pain is doubled because of my breakup and the rejection from this new guy and the impact is so much greater now. i know i deserve a guy who will truly love me, but it’s hard you know? how do i get over this…please help me…
Tags: amp, journals, many things, Painful Breakup, rejection, relationship
I was in a relationship for 3 years and 90% of the time was not a pleasant experience. He was abusive (physically and emotionally) and hurt me emotionally in almost all the ways possible. I finally woke up 6 months ago and I decided enough was enough and I ended the relationship. He has not come to terms with our breakup and he calls me constantly for whatever excuse to talk to me. He will show up at my door, he was leaving lots of notes and roses and now occasionally will leave a note. He is extremely jealous/possessive and I can’t even be interested or date anyone because of this. I still love him and care about him, but I will never be in a relationship with him ever again. He said that he ruined the relationship with his behavior but I stopped his trying to re-establish a relationship. Basically I gave up in his eyes. I didn’t try my best according to him. I was always there for him, day and night. He owes me a large sum of money and I sacrificed many things (including one year of school) so I could make him happy. I worked two jobs to support him and his family in their times of need. I am now focusing on myself, school and family and friends. I’m only 21 and this is the only serious relationship I’ve been in and it was quite traumatic. Now for some reason he has switched it to where I am the selfish one who doesn’t have the time or desire to see him, when all through the relationship I had to practically beg him for his attention and time and love, which I didn’t receive. He tells me that he loves me and tells me all the things I wanted to hear 3 years ago. He hasn’t gotten mad in the past 6 months and has been respectful (except for trying to make passes/moves on me) and pleasant…but I still don’t trust him and apparently that’s MY issue. I don’t know what to do. I know that I won’t ever date him again and I’ve told him that. He is very needy and I think he doesn’t want to let me go because I am the only person that has ever helped him with anything he has needed. I think he relies on me too much and now that I am not with him, he doesn’t know how to handle it on his own. I wish we could just be friends, but with my resentment and his unwillingness to move on I don’t think that’s possible. I would hate to get a restraining order b/c he is my first love and that would be hard. Am I being a cold, hard person because I can’t just forget the past and move on with him. He said if I truly had loved him, I would be able to be with him like he is able to be with me. I need some input from other people because I am so confused if what I feel is okay.
I was so scared to speak my mind in the relationship that I buried my feelings. I find that now when I see him and he is calm, I will let my feelings out and I get so livid. I don’t know why I didn’t get mad until after we broke up. Is it wrong of me to be mad at him? I need help to move on and be happy. I want him to be happy too, and it kills me because I can’t give him what he wants, but I figure he asked for it with his inappropriate behavior.
Sorry so long…thanks for taking the time to read my story and offer advice. God bless! <3
Tags: 3 years, desire, excuse, family and friends, jobs, many things, relationship, roses, selfish one, serious relationship, sum of money, T Amp
So i have been married almost 9 years, and i have fallen completely out of love with my husband. I was actually talking to someone else who made me feel great, wonderful and beautiful. But it was just talking and I decided since i was married it would be better to just be friends. Me and this other guy have never done anything, bad or inappropriate, but i want to work things out with my husband. My husband knows that their are many things that are wrong. So how do i fall in love with him again? How do i rekindle the passion, it is almost 9 years later 2 kids, and a miserable wife.
P.S. My husband is not romantic at all, he is very cold and the sex has gotten pretty bad and non-existing the last 2 years.
I am romantic, loving, etc. I do all of it. I plan our romance i am tired of it all being sooo one sided. I want him to be the impulsive one, i want him to want to make love to me, i am just tired of initiating evreything in the relationship from buying all the food, his clothes to jumping his bones.
Tags: bones, clothes, Fall In Love, love, many things, passion, relationship, romance
this? I dated my ex girlfriend for more than 2 years and did the best I could in our relationship. It was long distance but yet I found a way every other month to drive 8 hours and see her. I worked real hard to prepare a place for us and it seemed like it was all for nothing. For more than a year she told me she was looking forward to being with me and sharing a life with me there were too many things that went wrong. She lied to me, cheated on me with several guys more than 5 that I found out about. When I found out about two of the guys she lied to me for more than 6 months about it and in the last month we were together told me that she did in fact know the guys and one was a quickie that meant nothing to her. This is suppose to be someone that loves me and promised to share my life with me I got a fabulous place for us and this was brought to me a week after I saw her and she told me I was angry and we said I would get over her it wasnt more than 3 days somebody else was there and I found out she had been seeing him about a month anyway that didnt work out and I said I wouldnt ever bother her again. Its been 7 months since our break up I do not want her back or think we even deserve to be friends. I have not talked to her and now she is fishing for info from a friend of both of ours about me. I do not want her back nor do I even want to hear her voice or be her friend. I just want to know in our relationship where did I go wrong and do you think im wrong to feel like this. Even today when I hear or think of her it hurts. Where did I go wrong and how could this hurt like this
Tags: 7 months, ex girlfriend, fishing, long distance, many things, quickie, relationship
