My wife got pregnant on our honeymoon and we found out about 4-5 weeks later and about a week later she went off of her Paxil medication for anxiety I was taking it as well and went off of it too. Quickly our marriage went down the drain she stopped working and started sleeping like 18 hours a day and she became very critical of me and stopped letting me kiss her and she got very irriatated with me easily, saying my breath was bad and she would get upset because I was breathing too loud in bed, about 2 months into the marriage she stopped telling me she loved me and started sleeping in another bed and would no longer hang out or cuddle and she started asking me to leave and give her a break ect.
I am pretty sure she loved me at one point because after she broke up with me while dating she called me a month later and wanted me back and we got married shortly after. I took my wife to marriage counseling which actually helped alot but eventually she gave up and feels like she’ll never be able to love me. 3 weeks ago she had me move out and she plans to sign papers a month after the baby is born. I’ve done everything I can to keep her, I took her to the psychiatrist and got her on zoloft and it started helping and she started treating me much better but only once in the last month or so she told me that she felt like telling me she loved me but wouldn’t do it because she was worried she might get my hopes up. She let me cuddle with her all night and actually sleep in the same bed 3 times in the last month but now it’s like she’s made her decision to divorce soon. I still pay her rent and get her groceries and I try to support her and give her space but everytime I go back to her I end up in tears when I leave I’ve never loved someone so much and to have it go like this is almost too much for me. Is there any hope that after the baby is born I won’t irritate her so much and she will be able to have feelings for me again?

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I had an affair over a year ago when I was out of state working for a month and a half (the affair lasted about 3 weeks), we broke up after that for a couple months, then got back together.

He has cheated on me twice (that I know of) about 3 years ago, I let it go and forgave him, however he said he never had s*x with anyone else, just kissed so what he did was way different.

We have been married for 6 years, together for 8, I am 23 and he is 27. I still love him but he is not the same, I can tell he doesn’t really love me, he won’t talk about it, what are some things I can do to help make him love me again? I want this marriage to work, we have a 5 year old daughter together.

I do not work anymore, I stay at home with our daughter. I already do all the "wife" things like make his lunch for work, have him supper ready when he gets home, keep the house clean, I rub his back when he’s going to sleep. I do alot for him and still I get nothing.

I have put up with a lot from this man and I mess up one time and he can’t seem to get over it. He has done much worse if we add up everything. So how can I get him to realize that it was a mistake, it’s over, I love him and I only want to be with him? I want him to forgive me and try to find the love he use to have for me again, how can I work on doing that? He doesn’t want to go to marriage counseling. Any suggestions? No critisisim please.
Thank you
THANK YOU for all the great advice.
I do pray every night and I will continue to.
We are intimate, so that is still there with no problems.
I never go out with friends or anything like that, and we do go out together about once a month.
THANK YOU for all the great advice.
I do pray every night and I will continue to.
We are intimate, so that is still there with no problems.
I never go out with friends or anything like that, and we do go out together about once a month.
I will up the compliments, thank you for that.
I came clean with him about it when he asked, I could of EASILY lied and gotten away with it but I didn’t want to lie anymore.

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My husband is an alcoholic. We have been married for seven years. I have tried for nearly four years to get him to get help for himself and lead a more sober life. This including a year of marriage counseling. I am moving out next week. I still love him but know I can no longer live with an alcoholic. Is there anything I can do to get him to get help for himself and hopefully save our marriage???

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