
me and my husband have been together for 9 years now and he told me the other day he wants to be with someone else that is 9 yearsw younger than him we do have 5 kids total i am only 25 and he is 29 we are staying in the same house still and he stays over at her parents house until 5am every morning and he says it is not about sex he cames home to me every day and that is how he wants it he still wants sex with me every day also i give it to him cause i think he will fall back in love with me he says its not you its me i love you but i am not in love with you i dont want a divorce cause that is 200 per child theses are just the things he says to me he is willing to go to marriage counseling just 1 time and i am willing to go to make my marriage work but is it really worth it if this is how it is going to be i love him so much and it is hurting me so bad cause he comes home and holds me and tells me he loves me and still makes me feel good and i allow that please help i need advice
Tags: Cheating, divorce cause, love, marriage, marriage counseling, marriage work, parents, theses

i mean i know people say you make a marriage work no matter what that’s what you promised to do,so then how can you ever love another? it does happen,look at garth brooks he was married to his love,yet fell in love with trisha yearwood and is happily married again,how is that possible,on you wedding day you promise forever…
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My mother in law lives with us and she doesnt talk to me and just ignore me in my own house. I do respect her because his my husband’s mother but I feel really disrespected in my own house. I work from home and see her everyday. I tried being really nice to her and make some small talk but she will just ignored me like I dont exist. The only time she will talk to me is when she wants me to buy her some food. She only talks to my husband. His mom being around is causing stress in our marriage and I’m ready to walk away. What can I do to make my marriage work with mother in law in the picture?
my husband doesnt think there’s something wrong with his mother and told me just to understand his mother because she’s clinically depressed.
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We have been together for 15 years. We have 3 boys. I know it’s important to make my marriage work for the sake of my sons but it’s hard to find my way back there again…to fall in love with him when I do feel I fell out long long ago. I’m concerned. I’m 35 years old, work a ton, it’s like where do I find the time. How do I get back there? I’ve done the counseling, the trip getaways but it always seems to fall back into the same rutt. Can you help?
Tags: 35 years, counseling, Fall 98, Fall In Love, love, Love Help, marriage, marriage work, rutt, sake