And how long before I quit wanting to pick up the phone and call him? This relationship has been over for him for a long time, but it’s easy and convenient for him so he’d just assume stay even though he’s already decided he doesn’t want anything long term with me. Get this – he’ll leave when the next best thing comes along, but until then, he doesn’t see any reason for us to break up because something better may never come along and I’ll get to keep him by default, at least day by day. Huh? I decided to pick up my pride and move on, but my pride is seeming less important by the minute! lol He’s so sweet and so nice and has really helped me out the last 3 years of my life – he just doesn’t love me! But I sure love him… Actually I guess I just need y’all to call me an idiot and tell me to leave the dang phone alone!

Tags: 3 years, Initial Pain, long time, Move On 98, pride, relationship, years of my life

We have been married 2 1/2 years, pretty much he has been rude, mean, angry and unhappy the whole marriage. I am tired of being in a relationship where I am not loved, but I still love him very much, so how do I just let it go? I am not ready to move on, but I am ready to end it, I think anyways……..
Really I think that I need to have him move out and really just not see or talk to him at all for a very long time – but here is the problem. We have a little baby together and I can’t afford the lease that we are locked into by myself. This home is beautiful and it is big, I could easily rent out the master bed and bath, is that a good idea? It would not be to a stranger, but a friend or relative.
I am so frustrated at this situation, I have given this marriage my all, 100% for the 2 1/2 years and got nothing in return –
Help please!

Tags: bed and bath, little baby, long time, love, marriage, Move On 98, relationship, stranger