my ex boyfriend and i broke up a little while ago but the next day even, he acted as if he was already over it and over me…we were together for two years and keep in mind he has ADD ADHD is and is on antidepressants (some people think that he may be bipolar)…upon talking to him a few months ago..i told him he really changed..and my tone of voice made it obvious that i didnt mean it in a good way..only he was like "oh i know ive changed for the better" and went on talking about how wonderful he is..although, ive heard within the past month that he got a speeding ticket for going 130 and might lose his liscence..he got a dui, he drinks every day and night, and he is into cocaine..of course i want nothing to do w/ him and id never be with him again, but i dont understand why for the past 5 months(how long weve been broken up) he acts as if he has some wonderful life and that he is always happy and over me..even tho his life has gone down the toilet..whats his deal?
Id just like to add i havn’t talked to him for months yet, the other day (2 days before i leave for college) he randomly IMed me the second i got on trying to squeeze out every detail of what i have been up to and who ive been dating..then he goes on to say "hes getting some wonderful job that pays so much money" even tho he just got fired from his job…the kid is obviously a screw up but he knew i was leaving for college so did he purposely IM me right before i left just to get one last "bang" in of how wonderful he is.. i dont understand..? please everyone give me as much information as possible, thanks!
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My husband is going through a really rough time and I am at a lost on how to be supportive. Long story short, he is struggling with the problems of the real world as once upon a time (before me) he lived life in the fast lane and money was easy to obtain. His transition into reality is not going well as he does not fully understand why he cannot get what he wants when he wants it. I’m not sure if it’s so much that he does not understand as oppose to not having the patience. As a result our marriage is suffering. There have been numerous counts of infidelity on his part which obviously puts a strain on the marriage in addition to the other stresses of life. According to him, he is not happy with not being the provider in the home and just not happy with himself as a person so he looks for instant gratification elsewhere. He has recently made an appointment to see a counselor which totally goes against what he believes so maybe he truly is trying to get past this tough time. As for me, money was never and still is not an issue as I was raised to take care of myself and my responsibilities. I am married because I want to be and fell in love, not because I need another income to support me. I do not hound him about not making as much money or not being able to contribute more because I knew what I was getting into when I married him. I knew there would be obstacles and I was fine with that as he is very ambitious and has lots of potential. I don’t know what else to do. When we go out I try to give him my card to swipe or hand the money to him so that it is as if he paid but he does not want to. It insults him if I offer to help him. I am supportive of his business that he is trying to get off of the ground by helping out where he needs it in addition to my full time job and the 4 kids at home. He’s never home so I do it all. Any advice would be appreciated. And no I am not one of those women that think they can fix a man. I did not look at him as needing to be fixed.
It is my problem as well as his, that is why I am asking what more can I do to support him or how can I support him differently. If I looked at it like it were his problem and not mine, we would not have gotten married in the first place.
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I want to help out this http://www.breasttreatment.org/
And donate as much money as I can. I would Like to sell my book to raise at least 3,000 for this organized cancer treatment. It helps pay for transportation for the woman suffering form breast cancer and some of their treatments. I selling my book to raise this funds. Here is a brief details of the book.
Book Description
The poems in this book have messages that everyone will understand. The poems are happy, sad, angry, and about love! You will find a poem that just might relate to you or to someone you know too! If you have never read poetry or liked it, you will after you read the poems in this book, and you’ll want to read more!
The Authors name is Kellie Kopinski
If you chose to buy it for this cause. Contact me for savings on the retail price. this book sells for 14.95+ I can get for 12.95 plus 4.00 shipping. I want to help out as much as I can for the cause. You get a great book. It is poetry but they poems from the heart!
forgot the tittle of the book is More than just a thought
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