Me and my ex had a really deep and passionate relationship, and the break up was hard for both of us. But we broke up 4 months ago, and after a month and a half he got a new girlfriend who he still has, and I am still single. There are several guys that want to be with me, but I can’t seem to decide if I want to be with any of them. I like them all in different ways. I wasn’t having any thoughts about my ex for a while but then some of his female friends(not his girlfriend though) added me on myspace? Which I still don’t understand, I’m not sure if they are just curious, or if theres something suspicious going on or what. But anyway, them adding me just brought him back into my mind, which I hate. I try to think about other guys but he always pops back into my mind. I feel like the only way to get over him is to have sex with someone and become emotionally involved with them(even though I’m sure that isn’t the best way)… Can anybody help me? It’s been 4 months! I just want to finally be able to say truthfully that I’ve gotten over him.
We only dated for 5 months! Its been 4 months since we broke up! I feel pathetic!

Tags: 4 months, 5 months, different ways, female friends, month and a half, myspace, new girlfriend, passionate relationship

I am 25 years old and I have been in love with the same boy for over 8 years now. I fell in love at 16 and have never fallen out. He was my first love, first everything, and we were in a relationship for 3 years, then on and off, and everything in between for a couple more years. I still talk to him every once in a while, and since he’s gotten a new girlfriend, I haven’t seen him in months. I cut off all contact with him a few months ago, because it hurt too bad to just be friends, but then I couldn’t stop thinking about him, and decided that I’d rather have him in my life as a friend then not in my life at all.
I thought I had moved on… I was in a serious long relationship from 2007-2009, and even had a child with that person, but we are no longer together. I have dated a few guys in between, but nothing has never compared to my first. I am still, and have always been deeply, deeply in love with my first.
I am having a terrible time coping and dealing with the fact that he is in love with his current girlfriend, who he has talked about marrying. I try to act happy for him, because we are good friends and will always support each other and be happy for one another. I don’t think he still has the same feelings for me as I do for him, so that makes it hard for me to express how I feel about him, and also because he is in a relationship and I feel it would be inappropriate for me to have the "I am still in love with you" talk with him now.
Truth is, I cry myself to sleep every single night over him, and don’t remember the last day I didn’t shed tears over my heartbreak and how much I miss him and long for the past when we were together. I have tried to move on, accept the fact that that was then and this is now, but I can’t. I feel like he has a huge chunk of my heart and I am so incomplete. All I want is him. We have not been together in over 4 years now, just good friends, and I feel like 4 years should be plenty of time for these feelings to die down, but it really feels as though my pain gets worse every day. I don’t know what to do anymore. They say time heals all wounds, but this pain is not going away. Will it ever?

Tags: 3 years, 8 years, Act, broken heart, chunk, Contact, couple more years, Express, feelings, first love, good friends, heart, heartbreak, new girlfriend, quot, relationship, Shed, sleep, truth

me and this boy have been through break ups and so on but only because we don’t live close to each other. Which means we didn’t break up because we don’t love each other anymore because i love him so much and i know he really loves me too and my friends always tell me that its obvious he still has feelings for me. I haven’t told my friends i still like him because i knew i wouldnt get back together with him anytime now ..however he should be moving to my school september and i would DEFFINATELY get back with him then! Even though we broke up we still flirted and would talk until half 5 in the morning online!! and we would tell each other we love each other still. NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN he has a new girlfriend ..it broke my heart when i found out but it don’t even seem like he likes her that much. I know we will always have feelings for each other NO DOUBT! And i know he likes me way more than this other girl. I don’t want to talk to him about it because it might just make matters worse and push him futher away! which i couldnt bare! i need advice for instance should i do myself up? lol and make myself irreristable to him :L or should i try making him jelous? Once this girl is gone who does not seem like a nice person i will be able to talk to him properly again. Please help me get him back i miss him sooooooooo much! My heart cant take no more and i know i just can’t get over him! I’ve been trying to for months!!

Tags: break ups, feelings, heart, love, new girlfriend, no doubt, ups

We were together for 2 1/2 years and we broke up 4 months ago, but now he is seeing someone else, but i miss him and want to get back with him. I don’t know how to get him back now he has a new girl, what can i do?

Tags: 4 months, new girl, new girlfriend

My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago, and I’m still truly in love with him. That was the third time we dated. He use to always stare at me in school, now he never even looks at me. He tells people i’m obsessed with him. And he has a new girlfriend, but they seem to be having problems. But he is telling people he likes someone else now. And we don’t talkkk. Any advice? I really miss him:( Everyday i cry, thinking about him. I want another chance, and i’d be the best girlfriend EVER!

Tags: 4 months, Ex Boyfriend, girlfriend, love, new girlfriend, third time