I love her more than anything and i want her back! She says she wants to be friends but its really difficult for me. We broke up because she says she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore because of all her troubled relationships in the past. She wants to be independent and not rely on anyone (shes a single mum). After we broke up she said to give it some time and she’ll think about it but i kinda stuffed it up because i kept on bugging her about it. I don’t know what to do! I forgot to add that we work together and seeing each other almost everyday probably wasn’t helping. She says I’m too clingy and i would like to change that not just for her but for myself also. I start a new job in a weeks time and I was hoping maybe it would change things but she doesn’t seem interested.

Tags: Friends, Independent, love, new job, relationship, troubled relationships

Well, my parents have been arguing ever since my mom got her new job. The only way i think to save their marriage is to make my mom quit her job. Can anybody give me tips on how to save it?What can i do?How can i make her quit? Please Help!!!
By:
Jose

Tags: marriage, mom, new job, parents

Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?

Tags: anullment, anything in this world, couple hours, cust, dad, enough money, fulltime job, intention, job, job search, long time, looking for a job, love, marriage, minimum wage, money, new job, pockets, searching for a job, Somthing, Stripping, three months

We have been broken up for about 2 years now, but I found that the girls i’ve been with in these last 2 years aren’t anything compared to her and I want her back. I was bad to her, thats why she broke up with me. How can I win her back? She moved away from here, because her dad was getting a new job she lives about 6 hours away from me now.

Tags: dad, ex girlfriend, girls, job, new job

Two weeks ago, my boyfriend at I decided to take a break from our relationship because of my boyfriend’s recent diagnosis of depression. He stated that being in a relationship was too much for him to handle at this point, and that he needed some time for himself to restart his life (start a new job, move into his apartment, going to get help for his depression etc).

We agree not to speak again for a month, and then after a month talk and see where we both were in regards to a relationship. I love my ex-boyfriend to death, but totally respect his wish for time and space during his relationship. However, it is very difficult for me not to call him and see how he is doing.

Before we decided to take a break, my boyfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and had been very good friends two years previous to that. I know that we will remain a part of each others lives for a long period of time, I would just like it to be on a relationship level instead of a friendship one.

My question is, do you think we will get back together in the future, and if so, what are some tips to ensure that we do get back together. Thanks so much for your help.

Tags: apartment, diagnosis of depression, friendship, good friends, new job, Odds, period of time, relationship, time and space