To make a long story short, my best friend and I of 8 years dating for approx 8 months. We made a mutal choice and called it quits on the relationship because of maturity and well other differneces (maturity on my end) we remainded close friends. After, I joined the army, and he started to date a woman (whom i was never 100% fond with) but i respected his choice in women, and attempted to move on…
During part of my training, some 6 months later, i got a phone call from her, asking me what happened when we broke up. i told her, and then a few days later, she packed up and left (pregnant..)
About a month later, we got back together, and I moved him cross country, he lost his job, and we got engaged. He then went to see his ex and take a paternity test. The child turned out to be his and he left me cold.
Him and this same woman, who became preggers under uncertain terms are to marry next month. She is a hateful spitful woman! (more to follow)
And doesn’t really respect him as i have for so long. I spoke with her ex husband, as we have become friends (nothing like that!! he has a girlfriend…)
and he told me what happened with them. Now, I know her pretty well, and knew that she was after him when we meet her and her husband almost a year ago.
But, for some reason, i just can’t let go of him. It will have been 9 years of friendship next month, and 1 of those years we were together. we seemed so perfect!!!! But, he told me, when he marries this time, it’s for good. and now that he is with child..i know it’s for good.
I want to be happy for him, but it kills me to see him with someone who hurts him so much. How can i be that supportive best friend and liveunbroken hearted??
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