So me and my ex liked each other for about 4 months. After an argument over why we hardly ever got to see eachother she cut off alot of contact and said she wanted to be friends for now we didnt hate eachother it was just a sort of its the best thing for now move. So we kept talking daily as friends but not near as much. After about 2 weeks she ends up dating her 6 year best friend. I asked her what happend and she said she didnt know. she said it wasnt about me or how i looked or treated her or my personality that it just happend. I was upset but i told her i have no hard feeling that shes with him and that i wish them the best of luck.

Whats weird though is daily if she sees me on facebook she’ll ask me how ive been and whats new and just casual talk as friends. its been 6 days since theyve been together and she still talks to me. But whats weird though is that she didnt change her text signature to his name like she did mine first day we got together. And she doesnt post smiley faces on his facebook like she did mine. Could this just be a rebound relationship for her? Im pretty sure she still does have SOME feelings for me. But the signs ive seen is that she doesnt like him as much as she did me when we got together. And im pretty sure that i wasnt her rebound relationship when we got together. the last guy she talked to was 3 months before me and tried to use her for sex so she kicked him to the door.

Does it sound like shes in a rebound relationship? Im ready to move on but im going to still try to limit contact with her. She ALWAYS initiiates it. My current plan is to start talking to other girls and continue to try to give my ex time while i search for someone. If she comes back before i find anyone ill take her because i still like her. But if i find someone im completely moving on. What does it sound like shes up too? And whats the best thing to do to get her back? Talk to her? Be a close friend? Use no contact? What should i do?

Tags: 4 months, alot, best friend, best of luck, Contact, Current, facebook, feelings, Friends, girls, personality, rebound relationship, signature, signs, smiley faces, theyve

My husband has been getting angry at me over small things. I’m not sure what to do when this happens. Here is the latest example, and had I known it was going to send him into a rage I wouldn’t have done it.

Two days ago I thought I’d joke with him. So I sent my friend a text and told her I thought it would be funny if she send him a facebook message telling him to get offline so I could use the computer… So, she did, which I knew I wasn’t going to go online and I told him so. So, he responded to her "Well, I think she was going to take a nap, but ok." and then he got off of the computer and I responded to his response by saying "I always take a nap because he’s always on the computer! Just kidding!!" So then later he saw what I said, which I was totally joking and he got really angry at me and said I was disrespectful. I didn’t get mad because I thought it was silly to be mad over such a small thing. So, I did not react to his outrage. It made him more angry and he said I was cold, that I was raised to be a hard @ss. Every time we get into any SMALL fight it turns into something greater from him, how I’m a terrible person, how my whole personality is screwed up. How I’m not a woman, how I’m not what he wanted. I’m not sweet enough (but I make sure supper is ready and he has a cold glass of water when he walks through the door after work, I clean the house and work). He even threatened me with divorce over it! I said I was sorry even though I don’t know what I did. He only seems to calm down and love me again if I get upset enough to cry….

So my question is, is this something he really should have gotten angry about? Was I disrespectful even though I thought I was only joking? Could it be that my husband is bipolar? How should I handle these situations? What should I say? What should I do? Should I leave until he calms down? I just don’t understand why he gets angry over small things, and once he does get angry it turns into cut down after cut down about how I am a bad person. What should I do?? Could he possibly be bipolar???

Thank you.
Thanks a lot guys. ANd Kevin, he’s not into that.

Tags: Bipolar, Clean House, cold glass, divorce, glass of water, joke, nap, outrage, personality, quot, rage, ss, terrible person, Woman

I’ve been out with this guy twice now. We are both 17 and he has already slept with 5 girls. I am a virgin. I really like his personality–he’s not like the uptight guys at my school. However, he keeps asking for sex. He says he won’t force me to do anything I don’t want to, but he is starting to persuade me and I’m not sure if I want to or not! I’m not adamant about waiting for sex, but I do want to be with a guy who isn’t just in it for the sex. He told me he had sex with his ex before dating her, but that she broke his heart 2 months ago and doesn’t think he can fall in love again. I’m making him work for it…I won’t have sex with him until I get to know him better and I told him that. I am so confused, I know this guy isn’t looking for anything serious, but why does he keep texting and hanging out with me?

Tags: Fall In Love, girls, heart, love, personality, Sex, Virgin

I was with this guy for three months, I really liked him so much. I never felt this connection with anyone before.

I was very distant I admit but it’s because he was the first and this is my personality, it takes me time to get comfrotable with a person. And then I started becoming comfrotable. A few things happened and we decided to break it off, mostly he decided. But he said we should stay friends. I can’t stay friends, I tried but I can’t – I like him way too much to think of him as a friend only.

I tried getting back together, I thought we were going in the right direction but then he insisted it was only friendship.I decided to stop calling him, but it is so hard. It’s been two days and I cannot stop crying.

I really thought we clicked, and I think I had started to fall in love. Now I have to live with the idea that he’s probably going after some other girl and that he moved on while here I am constantly thinking about him. IT IS HARD. Especially when it is not easy to find a good guy where I come from, they’re all immature players.

For anyone who has gone through this, how long will it take for me to forget, I can’t stand this feeling anymore!!
and BTW, I can’t even make myself go out at night or anything. I know I will be in a bad mood only thinking about him, and it won’t be fair for my friends to endure with me.

And every place remind me of something about him. I would just rather be home being sad, than going out and thinking about him constantly.

How can I get over this??

Tags: bad mood, broken heart, friendship, going in the right direction, love, personality, Stay Friends, three months

I have been with this guy on and off for 7 years. We have a 5 year old together. I love him very much though I have every reason not to. He has lied, cheated in the past, done drugs, been arrested for them, and still hangs out with the people he used to do them with even though he is on probation. We would fight every single day over his poor choices and his continual lying.

He told me 2 weeks ago he doesnt love me anymore and that I ruined his family by telling his parents the bad stuff he was up to. He said he would find another girl he doesnt have such a history of doing bad things to. This hurts so bad… I know I shouldnt be with him but no matter how many times I hear that its near impossible to let go. It sounds selfish but its hard for me to see him with another girl because im afraid they will have some great relationship that I tried to have with him but we couldnt cause of his actions.

Why is my heart not healing from this? He has moved on and hasnt looked back…
Lily – you dont have the most comforting personality, do you?

Tags: bad stuff, broken heart, drugs, great relationship, heart, lily, parents, personality, poor choices, probation, single day