so heres the summary of my past 2 yrs. i fell in love and well we were on and off and she liked another guy but it didnt matter bc she always ended back with me bc she "loved" me……so this time its different. im not broken hearted bc she dumped me.im broken hearted bc she doesnt know what she is doing..b4 she left 2 her moms house on a 4 day vaction she was saying i love you to me and kissing me and making out..she is a good girl.or atleast i thought.her mom lives 2 states away

i found out and she even confessed after i asked her..she fell in "love" w a guy in 3 days and had sex w him the last night she was there.so she thinks shes in love but i think she is super infatuated..

but anyways my real question is. i have dated and got to know many girls.but i cant seem to find a good girl for me. i feel like i’ll be alone the rest of my life bc i cant find someone who are like my ex. i knoweveryone is diff but my ex made me so happy. she had the personality i loved. and well since everyone is diff i dont like the other girls

so will i ever be happy again? i’ve dated atleast 8 girls and im tired of getting bored of them

Tags: Advice From, Broken Hearted, Broken Hearts, girls, good girl, infatuated, love quot, mom, personality, rest of my life

Hello everyone….

I’m posting this question because I’ve reached
a real low point in my life.

I’ll be 42 in July and…. I am desperate to get
married & have children.

Some background…..

Had a serious relationship from age 23 to 26.
Mutual (and friendly) break-up….. We both just
grew apart.

Dated another guy from 27 to 28. Liked him,
thought he was a nice guy, but was never actually
in love with him. We parted ways, again on friendly
terms.

Dated yet another guy from 29 to 30. He, too, was
nice, but he had been married before, and he told me
he didn’t want to have any more children.

So I broke up with him, too.

And now….

From age 31 to this day (10 years later), I have
NOT been in a romantic relationship….

(My, but the time has gone fast!!)

I’ve tried just about everything….

— asking friends if they know anyone for me

— going hiking with the Sierra Club singles group

— taking golf lessons, sailing lessons, tennis lessons
(mostly other WOMEN there, looking for a man, too!!)

— trying online dating sites (match.com, eharmony, etc.)
(Have had about 18 or 20 blind dates through these, but
not met anyone.)

— trying church groups for singles, and even "all-church"
events just to meet people, in general.

— volunteering with a number of charities, in town.

— getting to know people at work, etc.

NONE of it has "worked" (resulted in being asked
out on a date.)

(Although, I have made an awful lot of nice friends,
in the process.)

About me…. I am 5 foot 7 inches tall, slender, no
stunning beauty, but not bad looking, either…. kind,
funny, nice (enough) personality, etc.

I just don’t know where to turn, now…. All my friends
(and cousins) my age are all married with multiple kids
by now….

Does anybody have any ideas for me??

Thanks so much, in advance, for your help.

Tags: 10 years, amp, blind dates, charities, church groups, cousins, Find A Husband, getting to know people, golf lessons, hello everyone, love, nice guy, Old Maid, online dating sites, personality, Romantic Relationship, sailing lessons, serious relationship, sierra club, stunning beauty, tennis lessons

You noticed a change in their personality or looks etc.
They seemed to have fixed the things that lead you to break up with them/lose feelings?

Tags: feelings, personality, Running

My one fiend says I listen to sad music lol, but I listen to A LOT of music, all kinds. My art is actually darker. I like the scary pictures (but the nice ones too), I LOVE scary movies and adrenaline rushes in real life. I write poetry and it’s kind of dark (about death) and it’s hard to write good love poems, although I have. But it’s wierd because I’m totally the happiest guy EVER. I am always smiling and laughing.

Tags: Adrenaline, adrenaline rushes, fiend, lol, Lot, love poems, Music Art, personality, poetry, sad music, scary movies, scary pictures

She is a beautiful woman. Maybe her personality isn’t so good. Tony Romo just dumped her and before that it John Mayer. She is so hot looking. I don’t get it.Nick Lachey divorced her also. What’s the deal ?

Tags: beautiful woman, Boyfriends, Doe, Jessica Simpson, john mayer, nick lachey, personality, tony romo