
when she won’t answer my calls, emails, or texts? I’ve even tried calling her parents at their work, but they keep ignoring my phone calls. I’m sitting outside of her house right now in my car and I’m typing this on my blackberry. What should I say to her when she gets home from work this evening? I plan on ambushing her as soon sa she gets out of her car.
Tags: blackberry, girlfriend, Old Son, parents, phone calls, texts, Typing

My boyfriend and I have been together now for 3 years. He doesn’t initiate dates anymore, it’s always me initiating the dates. He rarely kisses me. Sometimes he ignores my phone calls. I’ve talked to him about some of these things, but he hasn’t shown me enough effort to change.
Tags: 3 years, phone calls, relationship

My BF of 1-yr appears to be going thru a rough time right now. He broke up with me 3 weeks ago during an argument over the phone. It was one of those arguments where he just seems to not have any urgency when it comes to our making plans.
Anyway, about a week after breaking up, he told me that the following had happened: 1st, while at work, he received a threatening call from a guy telling him to leave his woman alone; my BF said he thought it was a joke by one of his boys, but that turned out not to be the case. 2nd, supposedly the man who threatened him has been calling his work place so much that his desk phone has been constantly ringing & disturbing his co-workers. He got into hot water with his boss and Security about the phone calls. And lastly, his home was broken into. I cannot believe all this occurred in a week’s time. It seems crazy!!
I went over to see how he was doing today, and it was apparent that he is not sleeping or eating, and just looks like things are taking a toll on him. But, he wanted to discuss our situation. I told him that I am here for him and didn’t want to leave him all alone to deal with all of this. His response to me was that for right now, we needed to end the relationship because it’s all too stressful at the moment. I told him I’d do whatever he needs, but wished we could just take space from one another rather than call it quits. I am very upset and I cannot understand it. We were literally standing there hugging, kissing and saying good-bye all the while saying we love each other. Can anyone tell me why he’d want to just let our relationship go and risk losing it forever, rather than just taking space?
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