i belong to orthodox Christian family.. i was 15 yr old when i met this guy.. he was a SMS frnd.. we met just once and exchanged our love for each other.. a month later, i learnt tat he was cheating on me.. i stopped calling him and i was surprised he never called me back.. fr another month..! i was going crazy..! i sent an angry e mail to the girl with whom he had a secret relationship.. that made him really wild and he yelled at me horribly and we never spoke fr 2 years.

he came in again.. this tym thro a social networking site..! i was so stupid i fell fr him again.. now, i would lik to tell yu sumtin abt him before yu can judge anything,
he lied to me that he was actually in frndshp wid tat girl and i insulted him by yelling at her.. so tat is y he had let me go fr 2 yrs..!
from then, we whr in stable relationship for 3.5 yrs.! all these yrs, he told me his father demanded him to stop dating a christian girl(he is a telugu brahmin.. who smokes, drinks, eats non veg.. yet his father calls him self a typical orthodox brahmin.!! how awesome.!!) or else he would stop him from going to college.. and he chose to stop college than to stop loving me.. how swt!( that was a big fat lie ppl..! only now i found out he hasnt even cleared his +2 exams..!

i feel so bad coz he used to blame me and literally cry at times whn i fight wid him saying he gave up his education fr mysake and i wouldnt understand his love…

i had fought wid him a 1000 tyms.. all because of his lies… stupid lies.. he says he lies to make me feel better… that doesnt make me feel better., whn i find out it was a lie, it makes me feel awkward..!

he was so possessive and i had to end up having no frnds as he always kept complaining abt them.. i love to hang out.. he hates going out..! i gave up that too..! i love to go on a lng ride by bus.. he hates bus..! he hates going to de beach.. i loved beach.. abv all, i stopped reading bible because it kept waring me not to get yolked with a unbeliever.. i stopped praying coz i wanted to hide frm god.. i stopped taking communion because i was with him as how man and wife would be.. i spent all my pocket money on this lavish jerk..!

i believed him so much.. he used to do anything fr me… he even cut his veins and took mouthful of dirty mud to make me talk to him(whn i was mad at him)

recently, he says he has lost his love fr me.. and tat he feels i am nothing more than headache to him.. he yells at me almost all the tym.. its lik im talkin to a possessed man.. this is how his SMS are exactly lik.."honey, i love you tons"… and the nxt SMS if it takes a few mins to reply, "but yu know wot? yu are a bitch.. i dont trust yu anymore.. who are yu sleeping with now??"

one day, i was tired of a week long fight which got me really really depressed.. to get myslf distracted, i went to visit a old high skl frnd of mine whom i had met fr the last time during our farewell.. he walked in straigt gave him one big blow on his face and dragged me by throat..! i was so humiliated..

he lies, he hurts… he cheats.. and calls me unfaithful..! i cant stand him..! at the same time, i cant get this one out of my mind.. he is such a disease..!!

guys., pl give me sum nice adivce to throw this junk out of my lyf..! i dont wanna get married to a looser..!

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I really need some advice, i found out last week that my gf of 5 years cheated on me… like full wack slept with someone else in a hotel they rented. I am hurting so bad and none of the advice ppl give me seems to apply to me.

Everyone i’ve told so far has just offered to beat up the guy or help trash her car or something similar but i didnt want to do that!

Im only young (22) which means i’ve shared most of the best years of my life with her, and even though i’m sure my love for her has turned to hate i still believe that she is almost perfect. Believe me though i will never go back to her, i just need some help dealing with it. Shes beautiful, funny and good to talk to. We have mainly the same friends to, so i KNOW im gonna have to watch her get with an endless list of blokes in front of me. I know the usual response to a break up is to go out to town and hook up with some randoms, this is another thing that i didnt want to do for two reasons. The first is that as i’ve said, she is nearly perfect and i’ve never met a girl like her before so i (although shallow i know) don’t want to just get with some other girl as i feel their just not as good as her. The second reason is that im SERIOUSLY lacking self confidence right now and just dont think i can chat up a girl anymore.

Theres so many issues i just dont think i can deal with, like i know shes gonna be sleeping with this guy straight away, regardless of what it will do to me.

She has spent the last 4 weeks (she tells me it was bout 4 weeks ago) telling me how much she loves me and wants to move in with me and yadda yada, also she joined a gym a few weeks ago… so thinking about it in hindsight i can see she was setting up for this but im just so confused about how and why she can treat me with such disrespect, she was my best friend. It makes it so much worse to think that they actually arranged to get a hotel for sex, then she carried on seeing and sleeping with me for weeks.

I’m just hurting so bad, every single second of the day im in literal pain. I dont know what to do, I’m not interested in making her suffer like i am right now, but i need some sort of closure or reason or something!!! Its driving me nuts cos i know what ever happens in the coming months shes never going to feel as bad as i have. I want to share my pain with her, make her see that shes literally ruined me as a person. I also know shes going to forget bout it after a week and settle down to being a slag and getting around a bit. Please help someone , im in such a dark place right now i cant take it.
You guys are saints, im not joking i have started crying from the thought that there are some decent people left that are prepared to give up their time to help me. Thank you so much, im gonna try my best.

Tags: best friend, best years of my life, blokes, disrespect, Friends, gf, hindsight, love, ppl, randoms, self confidence, shallow, trash, wack, years of my life

My ex and I started dating my junior year in highschool all the way up until I was a freshman in college. We were sooooo in love, and no one ever thought we would be apart. But things changed when we went away to school. I went away, and so did he. Things just became a complete mess. We used to spend everyday hanging out with each other and spend most nights with each other as well. Then when we went away it was so hard to see each other (only some weekends). Well he ended up breaking up with me on our 2 in a half years, because he said it didnt feel the same anymore. That day i specifically remember him saying he thinks he might have made the biggest mistake of his life. But of course i kept calling him and texting him constantly and it just pushed him further away. It got to the point where he completely ignored me.

Well now its been 9 months since we broke up. I stopped texting and calling him as much, maybe text him like twice a week. We meet each other like once a week to just "mess around" (after all he was my first) He hugs me everytime we leave too. I feel like the sparks are still there but at the same time i dont know because when i text him to meet me he will ignore me most of the time, sometimes he will be like "im busy sry" if he cant, but sometime he just wont answer. But when he asks me to meet him i always text back. When we see each other at parties its like we dont even no each other, MAYBE a hi but thats it. Sometime i feel like he doesnt want anyone knowing we talk because ppl will think he likes me again…I tell him i just want to be friends and maybe hang out every now and then and it doesnt have to be just us two. But he just says idk maybe.

I feel like no one understands how hard this is for me STILL. I thought i was over him, but im not. I don’t think i ever will be. I love him. And im just asking for some advice that could help me get back with him. I will do whatever it takes. I know it will take a lot of time, but i need someone to please give me some advice. Love is the most amazing feeling in the world, and he was the most amazing guy. We were perfect together….

Please and thank you!

Tags: 9 months, biggest mistake, Dating, Ex Boyfriend, freshman, Half Life, half years, love, ppl, quot, sparks, wont answer

Because i hate dumping ppl its so hard but i hate getting dump because your sad n wish u could of done something
But i hate breaking up because ppl hate u after

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I have a problem. I can get any guy or girl into a relationship. I can help any relationship in bad times go back as if nothing happened. I pretty much know how what it takes to get into and stay in a relationship, but I cant find a girl of my own that likes/loves me for me and not for what I have. I wanna find a relationship in where I can have a long term relationship with. I get jealous of other couples and the couple and singles I help. A lot of ppl say that im attractive and ask why I am single for so long if u want to see a pic www.myspace.com/ssslyry.
P.S. if you need help with a relationship or wanna get into a relationship let me know and I can help.

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