I am currently living with a nother friend because my husband wanted to have some space! We have been together for 7 years and married for 3 out of those 7 in June. We have a 5 year old child and I am currently pregnant with his 2nd child(due in 4 weeks!). When his friends all got deployed again and he didn’t he became a different person and like a real women I stood by him. He began to drink a lot and he wouldn’t come home until the morning. My friends began to act shy around me and not talk as much so Iasked them what was the problem. They told me that my husband had brought one of his co-workers to a friends house and he did not tell me. I confronted him and her and told them that it was inappropriate and that I would like it if they would not talk until I met her and saw her as a friend. One day he got injured at PT and they brought him home to me for TLC. I was taking care of him when he recieved a message from a young female soldier (baby r u okay? I will buy you breakfast). I txt her back and asked her who is she calling baby! She tried to tell me that she calls all her friends baby. I asked my husband and he stuck to we r just friends. A few weeks later while he was sleep he recieved another message it was a picture of her in langerie! I forward the picture to my email account and printed it off. I asked my husband why would she send a pic to him like this and he said it’s just a bikini! I reported them both to the SGT because I felt that I was being disrespected and I can’t beat this girl up because she is a soldier and I don’t want to hurt my husband’s career. They put out a no contact order on them and I guess that was suppose to keep it down. They did not talk for a while and then my husband had CQ. It was an incident that just so happen to deal with him needing to get a report from her. Once that happened they went to the Field together and everything has went down hill. Long story short he began talking to her and ignoring me, drinking heavily, and not coming home. I found more text messages from her where she was buying him stuff and bringing it to him and then my last straw was when she txted him at 8 at night calling him baby again. As I went back into the history I found that she had invited him to her room to spend the night and he never responded to her so she was looking for an answer. I am currently trying to get a court order to get the message printed, and I have no idea wether he wants to stay married. He wanted me to give him some space because I went back to his job with the call records and the messages to show that they where still having contact. He has PTSD and maybe a few other problems and I feel that she is taking advantage of that. She is also a married soldier but her husband lives somewhere else. Does anyone have any good advice as to how I should go about this. I don’t want a divorce, and he said that he loves me still. I see it but how could someone just put there family out? I have to think fast and on my feet because I don’t want to go back to that lonely cursed house! I want to get a small apt. for me and my kids and get him in the barracks!
This is the right section. I am asking under military because a civil could care less about a soldier who has PTSD and wants to be redeployed. They also don’t know much about the military law. So please if you want to be ignorant and childish don’t respond. I am leaving him I just need more military law information to hlp me in my process.

Tags: bikini, calling baby, co workers, coming home, email account, female soldier, just friends, Met, Pregnant, real women, sgt, sleep, soldier baby, Wow

i am a 25 year old with a 4 year old son and a baby on the way. my wife found out i was cheating on her when she looked through my text message history. i confessed to having an affair. i was never a great husband in the first place , could never seem to make wife happy and when things seemed to be starting to be going better she found out i was texting hundreds of messages a day for the past few months. my wife is pregnant with our second child that we were both looking forward to. i want to do what ever i possibly can to salvage our marriage but i dint know what to do to make it work because she is heart broken and will not forgive me for what i’ve done. she doesn’t believe that i love her. how can i prove to her that love her and make her take me back.

Tags: baby on the way, Cheating Wife, having an affair, heart, marriage, message history, Pregnant, salvage, second child, text message, texting

I don’t really want to get into a relationship with my ex because I’m still young and don’t have any dating experience nor do i know what i really want and am not ready to settle down. I don’t want to but i feel i should just because i don’t want to bring pain on my ex and my future kid. what is the right choice?

Tags: ex girlfriend, Pregnant, relationship, right choice

My wife got pregnant on our honeymoon and we found out about 4-5 weeks later and about a week later she went off of her Paxil medication for anxiety I was taking it as well and went off of it too. Quickly our marriage went down the drain she stopped working and started sleeping like 18 hours a day and she became very critical of me and stopped letting me kiss her and she got very irriatated with me easily, saying my breath was bad and she would get upset because I was breathing too loud in bed, about 2 months into the marriage she stopped telling me she loved me and started sleeping in another bed and would no longer hang out or cuddle and she started asking me to leave and give her a break ect.
I am pretty sure she loved me at one point because after she broke up with me while dating she called me a month later and wanted me back and we got married shortly after. I took my wife to marriage counseling which actually helped alot but eventually she gave up and feels like she’ll never be able to love me. 3 weeks ago she had me move out and she plans to sign papers a month after the baby is born. I’ve done everything I can to keep her, I took her to the psychiatrist and got her on zoloft and it started helping and she started treating me much better but only once in the last month or so she told me that she felt like telling me she loved me but wouldn’t do it because she was worried she might get my hopes up. She let me cuddle with her all night and actually sleep in the same bed 3 times in the last month but now it’s like she’s made her decision to divorce soon. I still pay her rent and get her groceries and I try to support her and give her space but everytime I go back to her I end up in tears when I leave I’ve never loved someone so much and to have it go like this is almost too much for me. Is there any hope that after the baby is born I won’t irritate her so much and she will be able to have feelings for me again?

Tags: Dating, feelings, groceries, honeymoon, kiss, love, marriage, marriage counseling, medication, medication for anxiety, paxil, Pregnant, psychiatrist, sleep, zoloft

Five months ago I fell in love with my ex Sergey. he spoiled the whole relationship by leaving me for a junkie and made pregnant my ex best friend. I dunno why but I love Russian guys. But since he was deported (he was caught with drugs and i denounced him), I just can’t like anyone else. wherever in am, i think of him the whole day, in the begining he used to be nice to me. I’ve already dated other russians since then (very nice by the way) , but unfortunately, i just can’t forget Sergey. I hang around, I go out with other people, i try and forget him, i try to not think of him and do other things, but it’s no use. even all the replies i got here told me to dump him. How can I fall in love with another russian and forget drug addict Sergey? Is this normal? Have you already thought of someone 24/7 for more than a month? Will this agony fly away one day? will i ever fall in love again with another cute russian?

Tags: agony, begining, best friend, drug addict, drugs, Fall In Love, five months, fly, junkie, love, People, Pregnant, relationship, russian guys, russians