I am in a happy, stable (semi open) marriage with my man. He allows me to date women. We have been together 10 years. He and I recently met/got to slightly know a woman who is SPECTACULAR! Since the minute we both met her (and each separately the first time) we conected with her on many levels, and she was very flirty with us sep and then together when we met up together. We both got an immediate bi or lesbian vibe from her. But then we found out she was married but yet she continues to exude a flirtatiousness with mostly me the woman. (less with him now) Soon we will be meeting HER husband as well and will be hanging out as a couple. I don’t think they are swingers but I can almost bet SHE is at least bi (or closeted). I am SOOOO attracted to her that I burst out of my skin when I think of her!!! And when she was in my presence those few times, I got the same kind of energy from her that she also loves being in my presence! I am almost certain I am not mistaken with these vibes, I am also pretty sure she knows I am bi bc its openly on my myspace profile as such and we are friends on there. We are going to start hanging out as 2 couples soon, and though I am happy to be ‘just friends’ with the couple, my crush will always shine thru I fear. How, if, or when should I tell or show her I am attracted to her? At some point I don’t mind risking rejection if I do make a move and she declines. Because I know we and I could still be friends even with the humiliation of being rejected lol, but she is SO worth the chance to find out! Last time we hung out with her, she was excited about drinking wine together. If we have wine again, and she continues to be flirty, and I continue to be attracted, should I use the wine to my advantage lol…! And how do I make a move? Ask first or try to be a little affectionate and see what happens? In the meantime, I can’t stop thinking about her. My husband thinks its so cute… I am lucky to have the relationship I have with him and I will never leave my man. But this woman is literally ONE in a million and I would love to nurture whatever special relationship/friendship I can with her. And, where does her hubby fit in all this? Also, I am in my 30s the woman in her late 40s thanks!
Not everyone views marriage as YOU people do. 65% of people cheat on their spouses. I really hoped that someone with an OPEN mind could have answered my question properly instead of judge me. And for the first 2 responders, for your info, we have brought other people in before with nothing but bliss and fun for all… you should try it sometime!

Tags: 10 years, Bet, Bisexual, couples, Crush, drinking wine, humiliation, just friends, last time, lol, marriage, Met, open marriage, presence, rejection, relationship, vibe, vibes, Woman

hey guys does any one got any nice quotes saying or a website for it….

eg:
somewhere theres some one who dreams of your smile, finds in your presence that life is worth while so if you are lonley remember this is true, sombody somewhere is thinking of you..

even if the whole world is against you, i will always stand by your side…

my name is wat you bitch3z tend to mention keep talking hoes i love da attention….

if i go to hevean and your not there ill wait for you by the golden stairs if your not there by judgment say ill know you’ve gone the other way, and to prove my love is true ill go through hell to be with you…

well you get the drift PLEASE help!

Thanks in advance

Tags: dreams, drift, golden stairs, hell, hey guys, hoes, Ill Wait, Judgment, presence, quotes, Quotes Poems, Quotes Sayings, romantic poems, Romantic Quotes, Romantic Sayings, sad poems, Sad Quotes, smile, Sweet Poems, Sweet Quotes, Sweet Sayings, thanks in advance

My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 3 years. About 5 months ago we broke up, and now she’s already with someone else (which I must admit does hurt quite a bit). I bought her a lot of jewlery which I also personalized, such as: various necklaces including a Tiffany & Co. necklace with our names and anniversary date engraved, a bracelet with our names engraved, a nice watch, and to top it off…a promise ring with three diamonds. Yes I really loved this girl. I’m really tempted to take it back now that she has a new man, I don’t feel right having her wear them in his presence since they have sentimental value to me. I just don’t want to be a child about it. What do you guys think is right? Should I just let her keep them as a memory of me?

Tags: 3 years, 5 months, amp, anniversary, ex girlfriend, Jewelery, jewlery, memory, necklaces, new man, presence, promise ring, sentimental value, three diamonds, tiffany

Me and my boyfriend/fiance of 5 years just recently broke up.. about 2 weeks ago. I found out from a friend of his that he was cheating on me prior to the breakup which hurt me so bad. But i kept quiet about it, Once I told him that I knew he was cheating on me,he denied it but finally admitted that he had caught hard feelings for the other girl. I moved out and we didn’t speak for a few days. He then called me and said that he wanted to talk to me face to face about it. While we were talking he said that he loves me and he was confused about who he wanted to be with. Then he later said that he wanted to be with me and her, he didn’t want to choose. How could he fix his mouth to say something like that? While In his presence I must admit that i became weak and I did allow myself to be intimate with him. He told me that he wanted me to move back home, but later said that he wanted to be with her. Now he says that he needs time to see where he wants to be and he wants me to wait for him.
He says that he needs time for himself and that he will make a decision as to who he wants to be with, but for me to be patient with him because he could choose me. He also told me today that he loves her, but they have only been together since April 27th. I don’t have much family and friends to help me get through this pain. 5 years is a long time and I still love this man with all my heart. Walking away is a difficult thing and staying will only cause me more pain I know this, but how do I avoid him? I wish I didn’t love him so much!

Tags: Face To Face, family and friends, few days, fiance, hard feelings, Healing A Broken Heart, heart, long time, Painful Experience, presence