We’re both in highschool. We dated for about 8 months, but had a thing for a long time before that, and he’s my first love. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 1 and a half months ago because he said he didn’t feel the same way about me and just wanted to be single, and also because at that time we were arguing a lot. He started drinking a lot now, and using drugs. He used to act like a complete dick to me after the breakup, saying that I was a waste of his time, and that he never loved me, so I told him that until he changed and started acting nice to me, we couldn’t be friends. So now he is nicer to me. Anyway, long story cut short, he phones me sometimes late at night now for no reason.. They’re reaaally long phonecalls sometimes, like 4 hours if they’re late at night. He always sounds sad, but he just says he’s really tired because it’s like 12/1 am when he phones. He usually talks about girls he’s met and stuff, but not really as much anymore, and always questions if I’ve done shit with guys. He always says he’s confused and doesn’t know what makes him happy anymore, and says that he misses being truly happy with someone he cares about. I asked if he missed me then, and he said ‘I do, but you only made me feel like that sometimes because of the arguing (we only started arguing a month before we broke up). We’ve only had one emotional talk about why we broke up, and it just led to apologies, and us telling eachother how much we care about eachother and such. He used to say he was over me, but now he says things like "I still have feelings for you, I havent moved on", and when he said it I responded with "I still love you", but he always tells me I don’t. He also says things like "Maybe in the future we’ll date again, but not now", or he’ll say "I bet you don’t even think or talk about me.." I don’t know, it just seems weird.. And I’ve become kind of interested in his friend, and he’s noticed I’ve started talking to him a lot, and that we gave eachother nicknames, so when I’m on the phone with my ex he bad mouths his friend, saying that his friend says bad things about me, and all the shit he’s done with girls recently. And he commented on the nicknames, and I said "Ahaha, are you jeaaalous?", and all he responded with was "Don’t even flatter yourself."
Like all of these things comming from his mouth, like all the feelings and stuff started from 2 weeks ago. I know this sounds like he just wants to have his cake, but not be monogomous, but do you think he’s sincere and wants me back? I’m so confused..

Tags: Act, Acting, apologies, dick, drugs, feelings, first love, Frie, Friends, girls, late at night, late night, Led, long time, Night Sounds, phonecalls, quot, Sad, Shit, Weird

Me and my boyfriend broke up very very recently it was our second time going out and neither time got to 10 days . We have the best chemisty ever but we can never seem to get around obstacles. I want him back more than you can imagine but i don’t wanna look needy or desperate. The obstacle we faced was we both were in relationships but we both liked each other so we decided to go out on the "down low" Eventually everyone knew so we broke up. How can I get him back ?

Tags: chemisty, Imagine, obstacle, obstacles, quot, relationships, second time

Well, this all started before christmas. My ex GF, cait, broke up with me, and i was a wreck. I was so unbelievably in love with her, and i got the "lets be friends" talk.

Well, 3 weeks later, I started going out with this other girl, jessica, thinking she would make me forget about my ex. i was wrong, and we ended up having a mutual breakup. So my best friend, mike, liked jessica a LOT, and was very pissed off when he found out we were dating. problem is, he had told me he liked other girls too, and that jessica was the only one. So i assumed i was essentially in the clear. When i found out i wasnt, i felt terrible, apologized profusely, and ultimately ended up breaking it off for his sake, and also because i was stil thinking about cait.

the day after jessica and I started going out, i was talking to mike about it, and he asked me "how would you feel if i went out with cait before or after you guys dated?" i answered honestly, "terrible". Well sure enough, a day later i get a text from mike with the words "we’re straight". I knew INSTANTLY that he had done something terrible, or was planning to. ive known mike since we were in diapers, and i knew hed be out for revenge. it was always like that, ever sice we were kids. if you hit him jokingly, he had to hit you back ten times harder.

so i get back from xmas vacation, and mike and cait are all over eachother. this absolutely DESTROYED me inside. I put up with them cuddling and stuff for a couple of weeks, but then finally exploded. He is now my ex best friend, and I hate him more than any other human bieng on the planet. He only got after cait to get revenge on me, and since hes not exactly a hit with the ladies (he is an ugly mofo…), once he realized he’d pulled it off, that he’d made cait like him, he ran with it, because he knew thats all he could get. He ran with it even tho he KNEW it was killing me inside. this is why i hate him.

Meanwhile, over the last month, i thought about WHY cait gave me the "better as freinds" talk; I ACTED like a friend. i was shy around her, and acted exactly like i had before when we WERE friends. its been a rough couple of months, and a lot of things have happened. the one thig stayed the same though; I love her still. Ive actually thought about her non stop for almost 2 years, but only recently did we start dating. I feel she is the one. And to anyone who’s ever found that special someone… when you know, you know.

So i want her back… im not sure how im going to do it, but giving up is no longer an option. ive tried, and everytime it just comes right back to her. I know it wont happen soon… but im optimistic about the situation. I think i can turn this around.

I know this wont be easy, maybe not even entirely fesable, but ill wait for however long it takes. I just need to find a way to attract her to me again… all i want is a chance to rectufy my mistakes, a chance to show her i can be everything she ever wanted. I want to be the one she wakes up to, i want to be the one she can lean on when shes having a hard time. i want to be the one who comforts her when shes sad, and the one to ask whos ass im going to have to kick when shes angry. she is everything to me and more; i just want her to know i mean every syllable of the words "i love you", and for her to feel that way too…
you have no idea how good that felt to type.

Tags: best friend, bieng, christmas, Cuddling, diapers, ex gf, friend mike, girls, love, mofo, quot, revenge, sake, sice, tho

-i had a boyfriend for 2 years
-we were very happy, like perfect for eachother. our moms were best friends, our familes hung out together and everything…it was perfect
-i met this guy, he was diffrent. i really started liking him. my bf had a lot of trust in me and wasnt the jealous guy to begin with
-i go to the movies with this new guy…he kissed me.
-i started making up excuses for why me and my bf "were not good for eachother anymore"
-i DID tell my bf about the kiss. he said that he still loved me and wanted for me to be happy, so he let me make up my mind
-i ended up breaking up with my boyfriend and 2 days later getting with this new guy.
_things were great for a while. then we went back to school..my new bf changed schools, to my school so that we could be together. the first day was horrible. i kept seeing my ex and i just wanted him so much! i didnt want to hug my new bf :/

i love my ex…and i want to be with hiim..but i have no idea how to end it…HELP!!!! PLEASEEEE
also, my ex just told me he still loves me. today he told me.

Tags: Back To School, best friends, bf, jealous guy, kiss, Met, moms, New Love, quot

My husband has been getting angry at me over small things. I’m not sure what to do when this happens. Here is the latest example, and had I known it was going to send him into a rage I wouldn’t have done it.

Two days ago I thought I’d joke with him. So I sent my friend a text and told her I thought it would be funny if she send him a facebook message telling him to get offline so I could use the computer… So, she did, which I knew I wasn’t going to go online and I told him so. So, he responded to her "Well, I think she was going to take a nap, but ok." and then he got off of the computer and I responded to his response by saying "I always take a nap because he’s always on the computer! Just kidding!!" So then later he saw what I said, which I was totally joking and he got really angry at me and said I was disrespectful. I didn’t get mad because I thought it was silly to be mad over such a small thing. So, I did not react to his outrage. It made him more angry and he said I was cold, that I was raised to be a hard @ss. Every time we get into any SMALL fight it turns into something greater from him, how I’m a terrible person, how my whole personality is screwed up. How I’m not a woman, how I’m not what he wanted. I’m not sweet enough (but I make sure supper is ready and he has a cold glass of water when he walks through the door after work, I clean the house and work). He even threatened me with divorce over it! I said I was sorry even though I don’t know what I did. He only seems to calm down and love me again if I get upset enough to cry….

So my question is, is this something he really should have gotten angry about? Was I disrespectful even though I thought I was only joking? Could it be that my husband is bipolar? How should I handle these situations? What should I say? What should I do? Should I leave until he calms down? I just don’t understand why he gets angry over small things, and once he does get angry it turns into cut down after cut down about how I am a bad person. What should I do?? Could he possibly be bipolar???

Thank you.
Thanks a lot guys. ANd Kevin, he’s not into that.

Tags: Bipolar, Clean House, cold glass, divorce, glass of water, joke, nap, outrage, personality, quot, rage, ss, terrible person, Woman