Ok so my ex and i only dated for about 5 months, but during those 5 months we grew VERY close and fell head over heals for each other. He moved in with me and everything was going well. At times, he was hard to trust. One day he ran off to vegas with his friends.. and cheated on me. I broke up with him. I got with my new boyfriend soon after (possibly a rebound?) My ex still comes by my house looking for me ( i hve never been there when he comes by) He tells my mom he loves me and he wants to marry me. I have been with my new boyfriend for two years and he has been with his girlfriend for a year and a half. He still comes by my house looking for me and tells my mom how much he wants me back. I havent seen him since we broke up! TWO YEARS!!! and he STILL hasnt let me go.. what do i do? i still think about him a lot and often dream about him. i would hate myself if i left my current boyfriend to go back with him and he did the same thing and hurt me again. i dont want to make the wrong decision! ugh! helppp meee pleassseee. and no stupid answers. i really need help on what to think of this

Tags: 5 months, current boyfriend, Ex Boyfriend, girlfriend, head over heals, meee, mom, new boyfriend, rebound, right decision, stupid answers, wrong decision, Yea

Me and my ex were together for a year and a half. We didn’t fight that often and were very good to each other. We now are broken up and when it first happened I did get mad and say things that I regret. I have apologized and have not really talked to her.

We work together a few times a week. When we interact it is always friendly and polite and sometimes flirtatious, though she says its just for show.
I am trying to get back together with her.

When she broke up with me she was under a lot of stress from school and work and mutual friend said it was a bad idea on her part and that I was the easiest thing to drop. I am willing to do anything I have to to win her back.

Please don’t tell me to move on. Its been 3 months she had a rebound that treated her like s*** that lasted for about 5 weeks and she has been talking to guys that treat her the same since then. But she she still talks to them even after they screwed up.

She recently said we could start talking again but i don’t know what to say or what to do to win her back. What should I do?

Tags: bad idea, easiest thing, mutual friend, rebound, stress

I am so hurt at the moment. I am one of those people who refuses to listen to herself. I have been hurt for a few days now. been drinking 4 days in a row, I have finally come to grips that it is hurting and it won’t go away. Every time i close my eyes i see him. Everythign reminds me of him. EVERYTHING. I see him everyday. I am friends with his friends. I feel liek there is a constant LUMP in my throat or heart. It hurts. I cant even use word to describe it. NO I will not go for a rebound. I can’t even concentrate with any other relationships at the moment. I have been asked out 2 times in these couple of days and I have rejected them as i dont wanna use anyone f0or a rebound. HOW DO I GET OVER HIM? Please. I have work. I have a social life, but it is begining to fall to pieces.

I don’t self harm, dont worry. I do eat right and excerise right.

Ive tried venting to friends, writing down my emotions, crying. I CANT. Im crying right now. tears just come out. I cant think. Its hurts.HELP
I have lost 5kgs in the past week, from worrying. The food goes down but not that well. I have eye bags. I NEED HELP. Please. anything to make this pain go away. PLEASE

Tags: begining, couple of days, emotions, eye bags, few days, Friends, gals, heart, lump in my throat, rebound, relationships, self harm

do guys really go through a "rebound" stage after breaking up with a gf? can rebound relationships turn into long term? what can i expect if i am some guys rebound?

Tags: gf, rebound, relationships

She put a protection order on me for a year. It has expired 1 month ago. Mid way through she started seeing a guy we both know, who had been previously involved with a married gal her and I worked with at the time. I’ve completely changed my life for the better without a rebound, etc. Need some advice, please.

Tags: mid way, protection order, rebound