My ex boyfriend wrote an email to me stating that things had gotten to be to much for him to handle with work and personal, and that is why we are not together. We broke up three years ago. He wrote taht he is sorry for the way things have gone. Doe that mean hi regrets breaking up with me? I know that he has not dated or been with any one since me. He came over to my house the other night and kissed and hugged me when he walked in the front door. Sat close to me on the sofa talked, kissed, help my hand and rubbed my shoulders. Tried to get me to lay with him on the sofa. He told me that we were good together. He also told me that he has missed me and has been thinking about me a lot. During this visit he called me babe a few times. We agreed to spend Valentines Day together. I guess we will see about that. From all of this I am now confused. He must still be interested in me otherwise he would not have come over to visit. Right? Who does all of the above if you don’t like or care about the person? I could still be interested in him. Communication is very hard with him now. He never checks the computer, no land line, and the only cell he has is a work phone. Please answer this for me someone why would you go to your ex girlfriends house three years after the fact and say all of this? I know he was very busy last week. Why hasn’t he called? Whats up with this? What should I do? Help?
How do I get him to talk to me? I don’t want to be pushy.

Tags: babe, Doe, email, Ex Boyfriend, Ex Girlfriends, Regrets, shoulders, sofa

Okay, so there’s this guy that I’ve known since..forever, it feels like. It seems like he’s always been a part of my life,and I couldn’t imagine him not being in it. We liked eachother a lot like three years ago,but then we both moved from the city we lived in, and didn’t talk much. When we found eachother on MySpace, though, communication got a lot easier between us. Over the summer, when he came to visit, we hung out for two or three days, and kissed quite a few times. Well, he’s visiting again this summer, and I know we’re going to hook up again. We have that kind of "I’ll always have feelings for you" relationship, and I never had any regrets about hooking up last year. We’ve talked on the phone, texted way past what should be considered healthy, and just in general kept in touch really well. We talk every day, and if that’s not possible, as much as we can. We’ve been talking lately about his upcoming visit in about three months. He was planning a date for us to go on, and said that while he’s down, he’d be my boyfriend. I thought it was so sweet that he said that.(: We were talking, a different time, about us actually hooking up, and what might happen. I said that I definitely didn’t have any regrets about last time, and that I would love for something like that to happen again.
Now, what I’m wondering is how far I should let our relationship go. Of course, I’m not going to be stupid and have sex or do anything risky or extreme, I’m only a teenager. I know that he wouldn’t try to get me to do anything along THOSE lines anyway. I don’t mind going a little farther than last time, but I’m secretly a little scared that we might do something and then him go back to his city and like someone else or something. I know that I’m being silly, though, because if you knew him you’d know that he’s very honest and wouldn’t do that to me. When I was texting him one day, I asked "If we did something, would it just be because you want to hook up with someone, or because it’s me?" to which he said "Really it’s because of you." I totally believe him, but I’m just kind of wanting to get an idea of how far I should let our short-term relationship go.
Please help,and give advice if you can.<3

but,please,don’t say things like "don’t even talk to him, he’s just a creep who wants to get in your pants",or things like that. I know what i’m talking about when I say that’s not him.

Tags: feelings, Hook, Imagine, myspace, Regrets, relationship, Summer 97