i am so in love with this girl..i feel like she is the girl i am ganna spend the rest of my life with…im 25 years old..ive never met anybody who makes me feel the way she does..i saw her out wed night at the bar..and she was talking to all kinds of guys…my friends bailed on me so i asked her for a ride home because i live 20 mins away..in her direction…she told me she didnt drive her friend did and walked away from me..i walked up to her and told her sh emade her point..than bailed..later she text me with f.ck you..i ended up having to take a taxi home..we talked the next day she said she was in a fight with her friend thats why she would ask to get a ride home 4 me..i told her i would have never left her hanging like that when she was stranded..anyway…i dont know if things are working out or not….but i feel i could never love agirl like i love her..will this happen again?does this happen to alot of people?how do i get over this.i feel like my life would be empty without her

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I’m in desperate need of sound advice. I never thought I’d be in this situation. My wife and I went on a overseas trip. One late afternoon, we went out for drinks. As we were heading back to the hotel, she fell and hurt herself badly. We then got into a heated argument which continued when we got back to our room. It eventually lead to me storming out in anger, leaving my wife in her injured state. I found myself wondering around town and wound up in a strip club. At the strip club, I spent time in the vip lounge where I kissed and caressed two females there. Afterwards, I returned to the hotel room where I found that my wife had just returned from the police station and reported me missing. I felt extremely guilty and the realization that I could lose my marriage/family over my stupidity hit me like a ton of bricks. I didn’t tell my wife about it out of fear, but she eventually found out by questioning me and I came clean. In retrospect, I should have told her upfront but I so afraid of losing my marriage/family.

Since that terrible afternoon/night, I go through each day (and probably the rest of my life) with great regret, depression, and disgust knowing I screwed up such a beautiful marriage and family. My wife, rightfully so, is angy and upset about the situation and thinks about it day in and day out, particularly she thinks of divorcing me. I desperately need ideas/suggestions on how I can repair this marriage. What things I can do to mend the damage I have caused? I sincerely appreciate any sound advice provided. Thanks.

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My wife and I have been married for two years now. I love her with all my heart. However we are close to getting a divorce. The hardest part is she has shown no emotion over our problems and doesn’t make any attempt to work on it. I feel like I can’t breath or will never be able to get over this. Is this normal, I always thought this would never happen to me. How can I move on I always thought I would spend the rest of my life with my wife.

Tags: divorce, emotion, getting a divorce, heart, love, rest of my life

Of course I won’t send it to him, but I just wanted to see what you thought of it and if you think telling him this stuff will help get him back (??)

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Dear ex,

I hope all is well. I am writing this letter as part of my healing process, to be able to feel the feeling.

I am mostly angry with myself for having let you run away from me. I am angry that I was so distant and that I did not let you get close, I am angry that I was not myself fully, I am angry that I expected so much from you without giving you anything in return. I am angry that you could not see through me and understand that I was scared to feel and scared to let go, and I am angry you did not try harder. I am angry that you did not like me (though it is my fault). I am angry that I have yet another reason to hate myself. I am angry that I could not give you what you deserved and love you to the fullest. I am sad, baby, because I lost you and there is no way back.

I fear this break up means going back to my old depressive me, the me that hated herself and that did not believe anyone could love her. I fear that really, there will be no one else and that it will just leave one big whole that will mess up the rest of my life, namely my professional life. I fear that I will live out my life being single, never having been kissed. I fear that I will continue my boring old life.

I am always going to love your kindness and honesty, purity, good heart, and above all the fact that you tried liking me for me. I am scared I won’t find a person like you out there. I love the fact that you are so confident while being so humble. I will miss you like hell.

I love you, I just wish you were not my first experience, I wish I knew better. However, unfortunately, there is no time machine, this is why I will just let go and move on. But you know, even if I do move on, I know I will never ever find anyone like you and somewhere in my heart, I will always have a little remorse.
well, i wrote this letter as suggested on this website, if anyone is interested to read more about the healing process (I am just trying it out, don’t know if it will even work ):

http://www.therelationshipgym.com/how_to_get_over_a_break_up.htm

Tags: Fake Letter, first experience, good heart, healing process, Heart Break, hell, honesty, kindness, professional life, purity, remorse, rest of my life, time machine, writing this letter

so heres the summary of my past 2 yrs. i fell in love and well we were on and off and she liked another guy but it didnt matter bc she always ended back with me bc she "loved" me……so this time its different. im not broken hearted bc she dumped me.im broken hearted bc she doesnt know what she is doing..b4 she left 2 her moms house on a 4 day vaction she was saying i love you to me and kissing me and making out..she is a good girl.or atleast i thought.her mom lives 2 states away

i found out and she even confessed after i asked her..she fell in "love" w a guy in 3 days and had sex w him the last night she was there.so she thinks shes in love but i think she is super infatuated..

but anyways my real question is. i have dated and got to know many girls.but i cant seem to find a good girl for me. i feel like i’ll be alone the rest of my life bc i cant find someone who are like my ex. i knoweveryone is diff but my ex made me so happy. she had the personality i loved. and well since everyone is diff i dont like the other girls

so will i ever be happy again? i’ve dated atleast 8 girls and im tired of getting bored of them

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