Me and my ex were (are) in a distance relationship. I visted her twice and was planning on visiting her again this June. Whenever I visited her, we always have so wonderful times together, we literally sticked together and we both enjoyed our time walking together everyday, going to the park or downtown, dancing, singing together, etc. I took her shopping and bought her a lot of gifts and roses, wrote her love notes every month, love poems, draw her and us. Even when I was miles apart, I still bought her gifts regularly and she loved it. After a year together, we had been having our up and down moments but we were improving a lot. I used to hurt her a lot and I had a lot of negative things but she told me I was the sweetest person she had ever met and I was always there for her. Just last week she had to stay home because she was sick and I was the only person who was there for her, stayed up for her all night and she said she needed me, she was obsessed with me and she wanted nobody else on earth but me. Just yesterday morning, she called me to say good morning and we were happily talking on the phone. But then in the evening, one of the guy in her class gave her a rose and took her out for shopping and took her to the park and they danced together. She never had feelings or thought about him until then. She didn’t tell me about him and talked to me just as happily as ever until later at night, he called, and that was how I found out. I was so heart broken and I couldn’t do nothing else but to beg her to stay and I know it was the wrong move. According to her, he is 26 (she’s 17),tall, romantic, educated and just whatever a girl would dream of. I love her so much and I can’t, just can’t loose her… I’m blaming myself now that I wasn’t treating her right lately because I was sort of an obsessive lover. She told me she wanted to be free because she was young and she wanted someone beside her. I know she still loves me because she said so, she still talks to me, just not as much, she just wants to be with the other guy and that just breaks my heart even more. Last night, after chatting with him on yahoo messenger for a long time, she let me watch her sleep on the cam all night just how she always did when we were together. Just this morning, she called me to say good morning and we stayed on the phone for half an hour though she did mention him and what she would do with him today with a very happy tone, then she fell asleep so peacefully after I told her she could fall asleep on my shoulder. I miss her so much and the only thing I want to do right now is to hold her tight and kiss her and make her realize she loves me more but I can’t do that. What am I supposed to do? My opponent is so strong, especially when he’s there with her and I’m here…. across the other side of the U.S. I just want to have her back. Before this happened, she was planning on moving to Seattle with me and close our distance relationship. She was so excited about it and now she said she wouldn’t want to go anywhere with me anymore. What can I do now? Please help!!! And please don’t give me a "get over her" answer because I cannot do that…

Tags: Distance Relationship, earth, feelings, Love Notes, love poems, roses, shopping, yesterday morning

My ex left me because I wasn’t able to see him all the time. He lives 30 minutes away from me, and it was always him coming over to my house, but never me coming to his house. He left me about 2 and half weeks ago. Since then, I have been making every attempt to see him. I suprised him with a bouquet of roses at his work which he liked, I attended his award ceremony, and was very pleased to see me. He has an orchestra concert tonight, and I will be attending it. Afterwards, I wanted to talk to him. Before we leave, we always hug each other. he told me that he still has feelings for me, but they arent as strong as they used to be. Whenever he hugs me, can I kiss him on the cheek? I really care about him, and would like to get him back. Please help.

Tags: 30 minutes, award ceremony, Bouquet, bouquet of roses, cheek, feelings, kiss, orchestra concert, roses

I love my ex girlfriend and before we broke up we was together for two years. I was the best boyfriend she ever had. I treated her so good and I spent every dollar I had on her. I bought her roses all the time. I spent the night with her all the time when she was alone. I do anything to make her happy. We broke up because she was having problems with our relationship. We didn’t trust each other nor did we respect for each other. She got a new boyfriend afterward and they lasted for about a month. She said she left him because it didn’t feel right and she wanted to feel the love again when we was together. I love her but she has hurt me in the past. She can be very bossy and controlling sometimes. Plus she has a lot of friends that flirt with her and she lets them but I don’t think she flirts back. We haven’t talked for nearly two weeks, then she comes to me wanting to be my friend and tells me she wants to hang out with me. I told her that if we hang out we’re both just going to fall back in love with each other. She said she know and she wants my love back and she wants to make love and get married to me one day and everything. I told her that she needs to work for my love back because all the pain she have put me through. Shes a very beautiful girl so all the guys always come to her and she never had to come to a guy but I don’t love her because of her looks I love her because of her mind and soul and love. She doesn’t think she need to work for my love back and that I should just come back to her. But all the good things I did for her and she hurt me I think she needs to prove herself that’s she worth my love but she doesn’t feel that way. I don’t want to bail on her because I love her and I don’t want to quit on her but I don’t know what to do.

Tags: Beautiful Girl, Dollar, ex girlfriend, love, new boyfriend, relationship, roses

I want to do something really sweet for my ex girlfriend, to let her know that I really care.

Roses and chocolate is pretty old, do you guys and gals have any suggestions?

Tags: chocolate, ex girlfriend, gals, roses

I’ve been dating this guy, Jet, for about like 4 times. 2 times he cheated, and the other he got bored of me. Now, he’s wanting me back. He’s been sending me roses, love notes on my locker, sweet talking me, staring at me. Is he just trying to get me back because he’s alone, or does he really want me. He’s never wanted me this much.

Am I just scared but he really likes me or am I doing the right thing denying.

Tags: doing the right thing, Love Notes, roses