Me and my ex were (are) in a distance relationship. I visted her twice and was planning on visiting her again this June. Whenever I visited her, we always have so wonderful times together, we literally sticked together and we both enjoyed our time walking together everyday, going to the park or downtown, dancing, singing together, etc. I took her shopping and bought her a lot of gifts and roses, wrote her love notes every month, love poems, draw her and us. Even when I was miles apart, I still bought her gifts regularly and she loved it. After a year together, we had been having our up and down moments but we were improving a lot. I used to hurt her a lot and I had a lot of negative things but she told me I was the sweetest person she had ever met and I was always there for her. Just last week she had to stay home because she was sick and I was the only person who was there for her, stayed up for her all night and she said she needed me, she was obsessed with me and she wanted nobody else on earth but me. Just yesterday morning, she called me to say good morning and we were happily talking on the phone. But then in the evening, one of the guy in her class gave her a rose and took her out for shopping and took her to the park and they danced together. She never had feelings or thought about him until then. She didn’t tell me about him and talked to me just as happily as ever until later at night, he called, and that was how I found out. I was so heart broken and I couldn’t do nothing else but to beg her to stay and I know it was the wrong move. According to her, he is 26 (she’s 17),tall, romantic, educated and just whatever a girl would dream of. I love her so much and I can’t, just can’t loose her… I’m blaming myself now that I wasn’t treating her right lately because I was sort of an obsessive lover. She told me she wanted to be free because she was young and she wanted someone beside her. I know she still loves me because she said so, she still talks to me, just not as much, she just wants to be with the other guy and that just breaks my heart even more. Last night, after chatting with him on yahoo messenger for a long time, she let me watch her sleep on the cam all night just how she always did when we were together. Just this morning, she called me to say good morning and we stayed on the phone for half an hour though she did mention him and what she would do with him today with a very happy tone, then she fell asleep so peacefully after I told her she could fall asleep on my shoulder. I miss her so much and the only thing I want to do right now is to hold her tight and kiss her and make her realize she loves me more but I can’t do that. What am I supposed to do? My opponent is so strong, especially when he’s there with her and I’m here…. across the other side of the U.S. I just want to have her back. Before this happened, she was planning on moving to Seattle with me and close our distance relationship. She was so excited about it and now she said she wouldn’t want to go anywhere with me anymore. What can I do now? Please help!!! And please don’t give me a "get over her" answer because I cannot do that…

Tags: Distance Relationship, earth, feelings, Love Notes, love poems, roses, shopping, yesterday morning

My ex left me because I wasn’t able to see him all the time. He lives 30 minutes away from me, and it was always him coming over to my house, but never me coming to his house. He left me about 2 and half weeks ago. Since then, I have been making every attempt to see him. I suprised him with a bouquet of roses at his work which he liked, I attended his award ceremony, and was very pleased to see me. He has an orchestra concert tonight, and I will be attending it. Afterwards, I wanted to talk to him. Before we leave, we always hug each other. he told me that he still has feelings for me, but they arent as strong as they used to be. Whenever he hugs me, can I kiss him on the cheek? I really care about him, and would like to get him back. Please help.

Tags: 30 minutes, award ceremony, Bouquet, bouquet of roses, cheek, feelings, kiss, orchestra concert, roses

I love my ex girlfriend and before we broke up we was together for two years. I was the best boyfriend she ever had. I treated her so good and I spent every dollar I had on her. I bought her roses all the time. I spent the night with her all the time when she was alone. I do anything to make her happy. We broke up because she was having problems with our relationship. We didn’t trust each other nor did we respect for each other. She got a new boyfriend afterward and they lasted for about a month. She said she left him because it didn’t feel right and she wanted to feel the love again when we was together. I love her but she has hurt me in the past. She can be very bossy and controlling sometimes. Plus she has a lot of friends that flirt with her and she lets them but I don’t think she flirts back. We haven’t talked for nearly two weeks, then she comes to me wanting to be my friend and tells me she wants to hang out with me. I told her that if we hang out we’re both just going to fall back in love with each other. She said she know and she wants my love back and she wants to make love and get married to me one day and everything. I told her that she needs to work for my love back because all the pain she have put me through. Shes a very beautiful girl so all the guys always come to her and she never had to come to a guy but I don’t love her because of her looks I love her because of her mind and soul and love. She doesn’t think she need to work for my love back and that I should just come back to her. But all the good things I did for her and she hurt me I think she needs to prove herself that’s she worth my love but she doesn’t feel that way. I don’t want to bail on her because I love her and I don’t want to quit on her but I don’t know what to do.

Tags: Beautiful Girl, Dollar, ex girlfriend, love, new boyfriend, relationship, roses

I want to do something really sweet for my ex girlfriend, to let her know that I really care.

Roses and chocolate is pretty old, do you guys and gals have any suggestions?

Tags: chocolate, ex girlfriend, gals, roses

I’ve been dating this guy, Jet, for about like 4 times. 2 times he cheated, and the other he got bored of me. Now, he’s wanting me back. He’s been sending me roses, love notes on my locker, sweet talking me, staring at me. Is he just trying to get me back because he’s alone, or does he really want me. He’s never wanted me this much.

Am I just scared but he really likes me or am I doing the right thing denying.

Tags: doing the right thing, Love Notes, roses

I was in a relationship for 3 years and 90% of the time was not a pleasant experience. He was abusive (physically and emotionally) and hurt me emotionally in almost all the ways possible. I finally woke up 6 months ago and I decided enough was enough and I ended the relationship. He has not come to terms with our breakup and he calls me constantly for whatever excuse to talk to me. He will show up at my door, he was leaving lots of notes and roses and now occasionally will leave a note. He is extremely jealous/possessive and I can’t even be interested or date anyone because of this. I still love him and care about him, but I will never be in a relationship with him ever again. He said that he ruined the relationship with his behavior but I stopped his trying to re-establish a relationship. Basically I gave up in his eyes. I didn’t try my best according to him. I was always there for him, day and night. He owes me a large sum of money and I sacrificed many things (including one year of school) so I could make him happy. I worked two jobs to support him and his family in their times of need. I am now focusing on myself, school and family and friends. I’m only 21 and this is the only serious relationship I’ve been in and it was quite traumatic. Now for some reason he has switched it to where I am the selfish one who doesn’t have the time or desire to see him, when all through the relationship I had to practically beg him for his attention and time and love, which I didn’t receive. He tells me that he loves me and tells me all the things I wanted to hear 3 years ago. He hasn’t gotten mad in the past 6 months and has been respectful (except for trying to make passes/moves on me) and pleasant…but I still don’t trust him and apparently that’s MY issue. I don’t know what to do. I know that I won’t ever date him again and I’ve told him that. He is very needy and I think he doesn’t want to let me go because I am the only person that has ever helped him with anything he has needed. I think he relies on me too much and now that I am not with him, he doesn’t know how to handle it on his own. I wish we could just be friends, but with my resentment and his unwillingness to move on I don’t think that’s possible. I would hate to get a restraining order b/c he is my first love and that would be hard. Am I being a cold, hard person because I can’t just forget the past and move on with him. He said if I truly had loved him, I would be able to be with him like he is able to be with me. I need some input from other people because I am so confused if what I feel is okay.

I was so scared to speak my mind in the relationship that I buried my feelings. I find that now when I see him and he is calm, I will let my feelings out and I get so livid. I don’t know why I didn’t get mad until after we broke up. Is it wrong of me to be mad at him? I need help to move on and be happy. I want him to be happy too, and it kills me because I can’t give him what he wants, but I figure he asked for it with his inappropriate behavior.

Sorry so long…thanks for taking the time to read my story and offer advice. God bless! <3

Tags: 3 years, desire, excuse, family and friends, jobs, many things, relationship, roses, selfish one, serious relationship, sum of money, T Amp

OK this is quite long and complicated! This guy that I work with (now for 3 years), we have always been friends, and done friend things. Back in March I started having a bit of a crush on him. He is 19 years older than me. We kissed for the first time in June, and slowly we have entered a dating relationship (he tells people that we are dating, including our boss). He has only dated 2 other women in his lifetime, the rest have been men (yes he is bisexual). We usually hang out on saturdays and tuesdays outside of work. This last saturday I did the dumb girl thing and told him I really liked him. He kinda laughed, and then said that he liked me too, a lot (although in his voice it sounded like he was nervous saying it). The next day we went to breakfast. He brought me 3 roses into the restaurant, he then wanted to show me the house he was buying, then took me to Lowes to help him pick out paint colors. I am really confused about all of this. He seems hot then cold. The intimacy thing is strange.we have tried to be intimate a few times, but he has a difficult time keeping himself ‘up’ (if you get my drift). This makes me think he is not very sexually attracted to women. He compliments me all the time, says I am beautiful, funny, intellegent, and on and on. But I think he is afraid of anything and everything (he says he has never loved anyone before or been in a serious relationship). He is not a player at all (really he is not). He has a bit of low self esteem about himself, but I care about him and accept him just the way he is. I have no clue if I should just take this with a grain of salt, and just try and not let more of my feelings get in the way, or I don’t know! My friends think I’m turning his straight LOL. They also think he likes me quite a bit. He is very much a loner, but I need perspective on what to do! Should I date other people as well? Give him space? Blow him off a few times? I really value him and his friendship, so I don’t want to scare him away. I know if I asked him about it, he would say he is just taking it day to day. But I don’t want to get too deeply involved if it really has no where to go. HELP!

Tags: 19 years, 3 years, Clue, compliments, drift, dumb girl, feelings, girl thing, grain of salt, intellegent, intimacy, last saturday, lifetime, lol, loner, low self esteem, paint colors, roses, saturdays, serious relationship

I am the husband. She runs to men when she doesnt feel wanted now shes running to women but not sexualy
I tell her everyday how much i love her and how much she is worth to us I tell her she is beautiful and the hottest asshopable milf in the world that no one could ever make me happier to be married to I buy her at least 3 roses a month in a dozen or single doesnt matter. I tell her all the time how she is the world to me and that she has made me whole.

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