I’ve been married almost 10 years to a woman I love. recently she told me she doesn’t love me. Never really has. Not the way a woman should love her man. Guess I was blind. Never saw it that way. Frankly, I don’t believe "every" word.

But I’ve been doing my best to make her feel special and bring back that loving feeling.

She gets back rubs and foot massages 3-4 times per week. I make dinner more frequently, clean the house, put the dishes away, do laundry, try to appear positive and treat her to small things often.

I love her more than life itself. Just looking for some other things.

Let’s hear your best. Money’s a little tight right now so no extravagant trips/jewelry.

Tags: 10 years, dishes, Fall In Love, foot massages, Guess, jewelry, laundry, loving feeling, money, Rubs, Woman, Word 98

about a year ago i had sex (with a condom) with a very fat unattractive girl and to this day my girlfriend (who i started a relationship with afterwards) constantly brings it up after ive asked many times for her to forget about it and let it go. she treats it as a joke and it really pisses me off that she rubs it my face so much. am i at fault for being upset or should i just accept it and let it continue?

Tags: condom, girlfriend, joke, mistake, relationship, Rubs