call me crazy but i have a problem. my boyfriend and I were really good friends. then we started going out. and after around 3 months he told my best friend that he loved me. and i already knew i loved him. and at the 4th month we had our first kiss. the reason why he waited so long is because he said he wanted to go slow and not rush things because he didnt want to loose me. its now 6 months that we have been together. 2 of my friends think ever since we started going out we both have changed, and his bestfriend wants us to break up because of it. also in the last month too was kind of hard for me: his parents got in the way of our relationship, he flirted with this girl like crazy right infront of my eyes, & because he had done something that almost ruined our relationship totally. I told him it would be awhile before i trusted him again when it happened. recently though he hasnt talked to me as much on the phone and he has stopped texting me. alot of girls seem to like him too. he tellls me he loves me and all but can i really believe it? and worse i really am in love with him. i am so lost and confused and its even worse to think about if he might break up with me because hes getting tired of us or something. and i know that if he is he really doesnt love me at all. so i figured if i could make him love me more or even get him to love me or care about me more maybe i could fix everything. because i dont want to just sit around and iqnore all that could be coming, especially if i had a chance to fix it or change it. So tell me what should i do?

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I have been with this guy for four months. Today I told him that I am falling in love with him. He said that love is a powerful thing. He wants to make sure he really truly loves me before he says it. He’s been hurt and he’s still not completely over his ex. They were together for about four years they have been broken up for 3 or 4 years. I told him if he doesn’t love me by the 6th month we’ve been together there will be no use in us continuing our relationship. I don’t want to waste my time and get hurt. I do realize you can’t put a time frame on love though. And I don’t want to pressure him. I’m going to tell him that I won’t break up with him that I have changed my mind…I don’t want to rush him.
I never complain when he goes out with his friends.[ I want to make sure I give him his freedom.. I'm not clingy at all] I give him compliments. I don’t get mad when a pretty girl walks by and his eyes follow. [hes in a relationship not dead lol he's a man he's gonna look] I am very understanding. I know that I have faults of my own, I am pretty spiteful.
I know that I have his heart. I just want him completely. I am always there for him when he needs me and he’s is for me too. Today when I told him how I felt he was very understanding. He said he can see himself falling in love with me but to him four months is just too soon. He admitted that he was scared and holding back. How can I show him he can trust me [ he says he does or he wouldn't be with me] I won’t hurt him, that its OK to fall in love again?

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OK so one of my ex boyfriends r wanting to get back with me but he hasn’t decided if he wants to go back out im not really trying to rush him cuz he says he is like really stressed and i understand that but its just is weird if i screwed up the first time y would he want me back ?

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Learning how to win a guy back is a popular topic, so we are talking about it today.

To many people who want love back go about the process the wrong way.

People who want to undo a breakup rush into the situation, pursuing their ex aggressively in order to get them back, but this has the wrong effect and can often backfire completely.

If you really want to learn how to win a guy back then the first thing that you need to do is to follow this advice completely and fully. You do not want to chase after your ex, or pursue him too quickly or forcibly, but instead you are going to want to be cool about things, acting as if you are moving on and not worried about the relationship so that your ex can want to get back with you just as seriously as you want to get back with him.

Too many girls try to pursue their ex relationships with too much force. If you cram yourself down his throat he will never want to make up with you or make things work again, so this is absolutely no way for you to learn how to win his love back.

You do not want to look desperate, because if you want him back you need to be playing things cool and moving on, and acting as if you are completely accepting of the relationship and its end. This will allow your ex boyfriend to have the time and space he needs to make the realization that he still wants you.

Do not go out and start dating all of his friends, and do not let him catch you flirting with other guys while you are out in public. Spend time with your friends and loved ones, though, and let him know in no uncertain terms that you are playing things cool.

This is not about making him jealous, it’s just about letting him realize that he cares about you, and he wants to learn how to win your love back too.

If you play things cool, and you don’t act too desperate or too crazy about getting back together with your ex, then if things are meant to be they will eventually fall into place as they should. It may seem tricky to play it cool when you want to get him back so desperately, but you have to make this work if you want to convince him that you are worth rekindling things with.

It can be difficult to learn how to win the love of your ex back, but if you work hard at it, you can make it work. If the relationship is meant to be, it will be – But only if you are willing to put some effort into the situation and to be patient to let things fall into place naturally.

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If you’ve written heartbroken poems because you’re separated from your loved one, it could be something that can bring you back together. Writing poetry is a good way to deal with a break up. And if you write a really touching heartbroken poem, you might impress your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend with how much you really care.

You probably shouldn’t write the poem the moment you break up and within an hour rush it over to them to read. A heartbroken poem, to be genuine, is something that will probably take at least a little time to write.

You aren’t going to want to just jot down anything that comes to your mind and start reading it out loud to your ex. Something like that will feel false and forced.  You want this to be genuine if it’s going to help you get back together.

You don’t have to be a great poet to write a heartfelt poem that can move your ex and make them see things in a different light. So if you’ve never written a poem before in your life, don’t worry.

It’s not that hard to write a heartbroken poem once you decide to do it and you get started. The hardest part is getting started, though, so you have to make yourself do that.  Then it will probably start to flow more naturally.

First, just think about how you feel. Of course you’ll feel things like sadness or hurt. But if you can compare that to something else rather than just say you’re sad or hurt, it makes a more powerful poem. Likening a flooding rain to all the tears you’ve cried is better than just saying “I’ve cried a lot.”

Comparing tears to rain is a little cliché, but it gives you the general idea of how you should use metaphors to make the writing better and more meaningful.  In the poem, tell your ex what’s different about your life without them, and how you’d like to have them back. You can list the reasons, as long as they’re valid ones that your ex might want to hear.

If you’ve not written much or any poetry, then don’t worry about rhyming. Modern poetry rarely rhymes unless it’s for comic effect. Just write kind of like you speak, but with metaphor and words that bring up a mental picture as you read.

You can also be very honest in the poem in a way that might make you uncomfortable in a conversation. Especially if you won’t be there when your ex reads the poem, it’s easier to say things you might worry about saying in person, because there can’t be an immediate rejection. So say what you want to say.

It might not be easy to write something like that to give to your ex. You might worry that they’ll think it’s silly. But you’ll always know that you tried.  Even if your heartbroken poems doesn’t change anything, at least you fought for what you wanted.

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