Hello. So my boyfriend of a year and a half is moving out of state for college and we decided to break up for a while, be our own people, and maybe get back together. We are going to stay in touch and write letters and stuff, but see other people. I was just thinking about how I love him but I dont know if he is the one I am supposed to end up with, If it is the right one will you just know, and not hesitate? This might be my depression talking… but I dunno. Its just unsettling because I cannot really picture us old together, but at the same time I want to be with him and get back together. I do love him. Is this just me being young and unsure or if I am not sure is there no point in getting back together with him eventually. I just want to stress that I know that I am young, if I do settle down it wont be until I am 30 or older. I am in no rush.

Basically, I just want to know if when you meet the person that you want to be with, you just KNOW. Or if there is any uncertainty.
And I’m not unsure of my love for him. I am very very sure of that.

Tags: depression, Hello, rush, uncertainty, write letters

What if you don’t know and you start a relationship off without that usual "spark" that most people have or claim to have when they get together? What if only one person feels that rush or "spark", and the other enters without it, perhaps having an "I sure like you alot but am not feeling that high energy spark" feeling?

Tags: high energy, relationship, rush