This may seem daft, but I wish my husband would notice me like he used too. I know that after a few years the passion can subside, but I do miss it.

He just seems utterly blind to me as a sexual woman with needs. We only make love once or twice a month. We have been together 5 years.

Other men notice me, and it gives me a buzz, but I wish my husband would look at me in the same way! A gorgeous guy at work has made it clear he is attracted to me and it makes me feel warm and giddy, like my husband used too. I would not do anything, but I fear that the lack of love and attention from my husband will one day drive me into someone elses arms.

I am open about how I feel, but I dont think he see’s the problem. I am currently loosing weight to regain my self confidence, but have not told him, I want to see if he starts to notice me again.

Ladies, I know alot of you out there have felt this way at some point during your married lives. Do you have any advice for me?

Many Thanks

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I really need some advice, i found out last week that my gf of 5 years cheated on me… like full wack slept with someone else in a hotel they rented. I am hurting so bad and none of the advice ppl give me seems to apply to me.

Everyone i’ve told so far has just offered to beat up the guy or help trash her car or something similar but i didnt want to do that!

Im only young (22) which means i’ve shared most of the best years of my life with her, and even though i’m sure my love for her has turned to hate i still believe that she is almost perfect. Believe me though i will never go back to her, i just need some help dealing with it. Shes beautiful, funny and good to talk to. We have mainly the same friends to, so i KNOW im gonna have to watch her get with an endless list of blokes in front of me. I know the usual response to a break up is to go out to town and hook up with some randoms, this is another thing that i didnt want to do for two reasons. The first is that as i’ve said, she is nearly perfect and i’ve never met a girl like her before so i (although shallow i know) don’t want to just get with some other girl as i feel their just not as good as her. The second reason is that im SERIOUSLY lacking self confidence right now and just dont think i can chat up a girl anymore.

Theres so many issues i just dont think i can deal with, like i know shes gonna be sleeping with this guy straight away, regardless of what it will do to me.

She has spent the last 4 weeks (she tells me it was bout 4 weeks ago) telling me how much she loves me and wants to move in with me and yadda yada, also she joined a gym a few weeks ago… so thinking about it in hindsight i can see she was setting up for this but im just so confused about how and why she can treat me with such disrespect, she was my best friend. It makes it so much worse to think that they actually arranged to get a hotel for sex, then she carried on seeing and sleeping with me for weeks.

I’m just hurting so bad, every single second of the day im in literal pain. I dont know what to do, I’m not interested in making her suffer like i am right now, but i need some sort of closure or reason or something!!! Its driving me nuts cos i know what ever happens in the coming months shes never going to feel as bad as i have. I want to share my pain with her, make her see that shes literally ruined me as a person. I also know shes going to forget bout it after a week and settle down to being a slag and getting around a bit. Please help someone , im in such a dark place right now i cant take it.
You guys are saints, im not joking i have started crying from the thought that there are some decent people left that are prepared to give up their time to help me. Thank you so much, im gonna try my best.

Tags: best friend, best years of my life, blokes, disrespect, Friends, gf, hindsight, love, ppl, randoms, self confidence, shallow, trash, wack, years of my life

hi
i’ve been going out with this cocky, interesting guy for about two months. He has endless amounts of self confidence and thinks he’s the bomb. He’s always playing games with me, which i love, but now its getting tiring.

i’m seeing him this wednesday, on my birthday, and i’ve made my decision to break up with him. i hate letting relationships rot; im not very happy with him right now.
he likes me a lot, but never shows it.
how do i make a nice clean break with him, especially because it’s my birthday and he’s having dinner with my parents. he wont know what hit him, he doesnt expect it at all.

thanks for your help!
please note: i cant wait any longer to break up with him, it has to be as soon as possible. we already made plans for wendesday, and i dont want to break up over the phone

this relationship is long distance.

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