My boyfriend just broke up with me, we were best friends before and really loved each other but he just got so busy with after school activities… and he just stopped loving me… we had like really deep conversations while we were going out too… and i really want him back, he was really sweet… and handsome… and just overall perfect… how do i earn him back? how can i make him want me? answers pleeeaaasseee. and i’m not willing to stoop low as to dating his best friends or anything because his best friends is also my best friend… please help?
he still wants to be friends… but i don’t know if i can talk to him… and it was really sudden too… and all my friends think i can get him back but i really don’t know, i’ve been so miserable for the past few days that i haven’t even been able to eat anything… and i’ve been close to puking several times… like i’m literally sick to my stomach and the heart ache is unbearable… but he was still really happy after we broke up… like the day after i was holding back tears all day and he was just all happy. but he keeps looking at me… like he did when he was with his old girlfriend… back when he liked me… now he’ll peek over and see what i’m up too and if i look over and catch his glance, he turns his head really quickly and goes back to talking to his ‘other friends’ and i just invited him back into our old group… even though people are mad at him, i felt bad… because his best friend is also there… but idk how to deal or get over him…

Tags: best friend, best friends, conversations, Ex Boyfriend, few days, girlfriend, glance, heart ache, peek, several times, sick to my stomach, Stoop

Recently broke up after being together for 3 years.. however we decided to be in touch .. now i end up feeling frustrated when i find her contacting guys she told me (while we were dating) she used to hate/dislike..I made her the priority in my life …n went out of my way several times to make sure she gt her things done .. maybe i have an issue in letting go .. n she doesnt seem disturbed at all .. have even spoken to her recently n couldnt stop myself from passing on obscenities over the phone .. This is not how i was before i met her …How can i let go of this frustration .. get her off my mind ..
I would like to believe it was mutual … we spoke about it n decided to call it quits .. bt since i was the one putting in more .. i guess its just me who’s left with bitterness inside ..

Tags: 3 years, bitterness, dislike, frustration, obscenities, priority, several times

was with this guy for almost two years and he demolished my car in november after losing his job in october and hasn’t worked since. i still love him but it was very hard for me and told him several times he could leave…he never did. till recently he had gotten like 700 dollars now hes gone and i am broken hearted i waited for 5 months for him to get a job and because of a little pressure to get one hes gone…confused and broken hearted….what shall i do? i can’t eat or sleep went to the store and felt weird cause he’s always gone with me everywhere. help me to recover from my broken heart!!

Tags: 5 months, broken heart, Broken Hearted, hasn, job, love, several times, sleep, weird cause

I have been w/my BF for almost 4 years now. A relationship is suppoe to be about compromise so I understood that he doesn’t like to go out and party/club w/me bcus thats not what he likes so I go w/my sis & friends time to time. But there have been a several times he went to Kickbacks/club w/his cousin & friends w/out inviting me. Why would he not do things to make me happy and invite me places to hang out with his friends but he can do it with them and disrespect me? Am i over reacting? Or isn’t that not Fair to me? i do everything to make him happy but he doesnt do that with me. I dont want to do this anymore……is it time to let go?

Tags: amp, bf, compromise, cousin, disrespect, kickbacks, party club, relationship, several times, T Amp

I’m sick of his attitude towards me and his self-pitiness.
I love him, but I can’t take this anymore. I’m no longer happy with him.
He is a mental abuser and an accuser.
He’s always thinking I’m cheating on him and that I do not want him because he says he is too ugly for me. I’ve tried several times to save him from this pit he is burying himself in but he isn’t letting me anymore. And he even dares to question the number of boyfriends I’ve had in the past, because he thinks I am "too pretty". Damn it, he doesn’t even believe I am a virgin, because according to him, "I seem to have experience" whenever we were intimate.
So, what do you think I must do? Work this out with him like I’ve tried a million times in the past? Or let this go?

Tags: attitude, Boyfriends, Cheating, Dares, million times, relationship, Self Love, several times, Virgin