we recently broke up…casue i wanted this..he was much in love with me..then i wanted to be again with him but he told me that this breaking up killed all his feelings for me..despite this we are still together..i still love him…what to do to make him fall in love again. Lately he refused sex cause he wanted to watch match..and i was shocked cause we already started our sexual life..which he cliamed he really loved..:-( i am really depressed help me..please!

Tags: Fall In Love, feelings, Guy Sex, love, Match, Sex 101, sexual life

was this meant to be?

im 14 years old, im a girl and there is this 16 year old boy, theres too much to say about the whole time i met him… so ill try to make it short,

i fell for him like exactly 10 times, but the last time was really different he changed atleast i thought he did, he acted like a different person someone, he wanted sex mostly all the other times i went out with him, like 3 or 4 weeks ago, we got back together which we arent anymore because he wanted sex again, we kissed and it wasnt just a kiss more of a tounge kiss, the next day we typed to each other and he said i didnt know what i was doing i was sick that night i kissed you, do guys ever change, should i move on or give him another chance, but im sick of him but then again who can foget about your real love? i dont know anymore, we said iloveyou to each other but i guess i should move along, right?

WHAT GOES THROUGH A 16 YEAR OLD BOYS MIND?

Tags: 16 year old boys, Fall In Love, kiss, last time, love, Sex 101, whole time

Heres the deal I have a bit of a temper, I can be a bitch and on top of that I have a very hard time having sex because it hurts really bad so we dont have sex hardly ever. The thing that got me to really realize how much he is starting to hate me is he is planning a trip to vegas with his friends and doesnt care that i cant go. i need to know what i can do to get him to fall for me again and make him love me and obssess over me again…i decided even though sex hurts I need to do it cuz men need sex right? plz help me

Tags: bitch, Cuz, hard time, having sex, love, planning a trip, Sex 101, temper

sex therapy is the last chance i have to save my marriage but i don’t even feel like going. how can you expect to save a marriage when you are not even attracted to the person? we have zero chemistry & sadly, i can’t even remember why i was attracted to him in the first place. i know i was drawn to him because i knew he would take care of me….but i’m older now & don’t need a caretaker. (i was 19 when i married, now i’m 23 and he’s 30).

i actually recommended sex therapy a few years ago but that suggestion was brushed aside. now we are separated (for 7 months) & now he wants to try. he says he’ll do anything.

he is a good man with a heart of gold. i love him more than anyone…..but he just doesn’t get my juices flowing.

so, should i visit a sex tharapist with him, even if i don’t want to? the only reason i’m considering is because he’s really truly willing to do anything…& i feel rotten for not returning the favor….plus, i don’t feel right getting a divorce w/o trying
PS: I have already cheated on him. he knows about it and took me back with open arms, as it was an eye opener for him—-he realized he was not taking care of my emotional and sexual needs.
isn’t it too soon to be feeling the "7 year itch"? i’ve only been married 4 years and started feeling it after a year.

Tags: 7 months, amp, caretaker, chemistry, eye opener, getting a divorce, Gold, good man, heart, heart of gold, juices, last chance, love, marriage, Marriage Sex, Marriage Therapy, Sex 101, Sex Marriage, sex therapy, sexual needs, suggestion

My ex girlfriend and I were together for 3 years and broke up cause she cheated…Then for a whole year, up until now, we were on and off getting back together then breaking up, with her telling me that she can never let me go, and that she still loves me…

Through the whole back and forth period, we still have sex occasionally because we’re strongly attracted to each other…She says that there’s no other guy in her life and that she wants to get back together, but right now she lives about 20 to 30 minutes away and we’re both out of jobs and unemployed trying to find work, so she says once we get organized we can live together…

But I asked her if she wants to be my girlfriend right now, and she said she does but she wants to wait till she moves closer cause she won’t get to see me as much living way over there…Is that just an excuse to not be with me? Is she just saying that she wants to be with me cause she only attached? Or does she really love me and will get back with me??? We still have sex cause we plan on getting back together…Is this a wrong choice? Should I stop having sex with her so she won’t use me?

Tags: 3 years, 30 minutes, Bad Move, Bad Sex, ex girlfriend, excuse, having sex, jobs, Move Sex, Sex 101, wrong choice