Well, my ex broke up with me a few days ago. Weve been together for over a year, and were living together. Now I want her back. That’s my goal. Why we broke up: Sometimes I take out my anger on her and it’s unfair to her.. I don’t need advice on this I am changing it now, with therapy.( Please note I am not a sick monster or an abuser I just hide myself away when I’m mad or be bitchy towards her). Now, I’ve told her I’m moving out, and she keeps insisting for me to stay and be her friend and live with her until rent is up on May 1st and she has to find a new place. She called me last night to come over to cuddle and watch a movie. Are these games? I’m afraid she wants me as a friend to heal. I’m planning on moving back to my parents today. Should I? Or should I stay and spend the next 16 days to show her I will change and hope she will take me back. I need a gameplan. I want her back. She tells me it is clear she is not my girlfriend anymore, and shes sick of giving me second chances to treat her better. I know this is the biggest shock of my life, and I know I am changing, as I have started taking the steps towards it. I read online to get your gf back you must spend time apart and let her miss you, is this true? Because right now I feel if I stay I will only help her heal, and it will give me false hope which will further mess me up. When I slept with her the past 2 nights she was okay with cuddling, but last night I couldnt handle this mindfuck so I slept on the floor. I want her back. Teach me. Willing to do anything.
Tags: anger, Cuddling, ex girlfriend, false hope, few days, gameplan, games, gf, girlfriend, mindfuck, monster, parents, second chances, shock, these games
Me n my GF are in love from last 6 years. It was one of the best thing ever happened in my life. It is an Long distance love. We have met couple of times. But its a year now we havent met. Now all of sudden she says that she does not feels the same for me. She sayd it just happened all of sudden tat theres no feeling for me and wants to quit our relationship. I am still under shock that how this can happen>? She has taken few months now to decide her final verdict. But this has brought a total distress in my life. Everything seems like stopped moving. My question is y after 6 years of strong relationship, such sudden end has to happen..?
Tags: 6 years, final verdict, gf, long distance, love, Moving, relationship, shock
I have recently just split up with my girlfriend that I had been going out with for just over 2 years, it was quite a shock as she just dumped totally out of the blue without any warning, I thought things were great between us, obviously I was wrong.
I would love to get my ex girlfriend back but not sure how to go about it, if anyone has any suggestions I would love to hear them.
Thanks in advance!
James
Tags: ex girlfriend, love, out of the blue, shock, thanks in advance
I finished a long term relationship, and i have no idea what is happening with me now. I look and feel lost.
I am sure that we will never get back together, and i need to move with my life.
I need help..
can someone answer me what comes after the shock of breaking up…
When will my healing process start…I feel agony..
Tags: agony, Healing A Broken Heart, healing process, long term relationship, shock, Term Relationship
Im 16 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. His name is charlie and he is 17. When we first starting going out it was amazing and we fell in love so quickly. We was like inseperable and it got to a stage where i had him wrapped round my little finger and he’d do anything for me and he was the most nicest person ever. He was always very over protective and didnt like me going out but i still did anyway. He also got me pregnant the first 5 months of us being together but i had an abortion so it made us a lot closer. Then it all soon changed after the first year and a half. He cheated on me, and cause it was all a shock to me i was devastated and i took him back. Our relationship kind of ended then but we just wanted to make things work. He then got me pregnant again on the second year and at the time he was seeing some other girl and i was just in bits. Each month he would just make me feel more insecure about myself. By this stage he was calling me fat and ugly. He then asked me back again and i took him back. He made me feel worthless. In february this year we split up and it was a joint decision because we was just arguing all the time. I really don’t understand him. Its like one minute he loves me the next he hates me. he just takes advantage of me all the time. In the past 2 months ive been constantly ringing him and hes been saying were going to get back together but then always changes his mind. I would walk up to his house because i physically cant sit at my house i will just be pulling my hair out knowing im not with him. When he looks at me now its like inside he’s dying and he loves me but horrible words just come out of his mouth. Its like hes trying to make himself hate me. I went round his house last week and he was saying to me he missed me so much and he loved me so much. Its like when im crying being all soppy and desperate he’ll walk away perfectly fine. But when im strong and being horible back to him he’ll want me back. So at his house we ended up having sex and it was really emotional. then straight after he was like meg go home. And i was just devasated. i dont understand him. i dont know what he wants. He just looked at me and you could tell he didnt wanna be horrible but he just said to me im so sorry my heads so fucked up. its been about 6 days since then, and hes got a new phone and a new number so i havent been able to contact him. Ive spoken to him on facebook but he just swore at me and then deleted me. I know he lloves me just atm he thinks he hates me because i wind him up all the time. It just hurts so much to see what he used to be, the boy who would do anything for me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, to this monster who calls me fat and ugly and doesnt care if im crying. i dont know what to do to make him realise that hes made a big mistake. Because i know what charlies like, i reckon if i do just fuck off like im doing now, and i havent spoken to him in about 2 weeks he’ll panick and want me back and ring me or something. I just dont know what to do. please help me
Tags: 5 months, abortion, big mistake, Ex Boyfriend, horrible words, inseperable, joint decision, little finger, love, relationship, shock
