Sorry if this is too long. So I was dating my past boyfriend for about six months, but recently I broke up with him because a whole bag of ****. He was always working and we never had any time to even see each other, and he wasn’t even willing to give me any time, and when we did have a scheduled time to be together, he always stood me up and had some excuse for why he couldn’t make it. I was wanting to move in with him but I didn’t have a job yet, but now I do after I broke up with him.

And here’s the problem. Now that I ditched him, he will not let go of me. He is always calling, always leaving me messages, and talking about how we need to get back together. I told him I am done with him, and that I want to move on, and that he needs to also. But he tells me he will always be waiting for me, and that he will never give up hope for us. I want to be nice, as I have tried to be during this entire situation, but I can’t get the point across that I don’t want us to be together ever again that he has lost me. Now don’t give me **** about it not being his fault, because he showed almost no interest in us while we were dating, and now he is all over me like white on rice.

Also when we first started dating everything was going well, and we always were together and he always had time for us. Now he is always busy with something else, and I always say that if you are too busy to find time at least once a week to be together for a little while, then you are too busy for a relationship.

I’m mentally exhausted from him, and I was wondering if anyone has gone through this same thing, and what did you do to let them know that they just need to leave you alone and move on? I have tried everything almost, except from telling him **** you and go jump off a bridge. I also feel that if I find someone else, that he might be scared away from my ex calling and leaving messages all the time. UGH
Horace, go suck a god damned bag of dicks.

Tags: bridge, dicks, Ex Boyfriend, excuse, Gay, god, Haters, horace, job, relationship, six months, white on rice

we lived together for about six months before she told me this. she now wants no communication at all and told me to move on and date others….but when I di, she saw me and got very angry with me….I truly love her and would go back to her in a heartbeat….but how can I get her past the death of her husband and help her to love again. They were married for 14 years and he died suddenly. He has been gone for over two years now. She also lived with another man before me for approximately 6 months before she told him it was over. Her family and friends all liked me and we never had any arguements or conflicts….other than a business venture I tried and it failed….but I picked myself up and got on with the job I had before the business venture. She says that she just needs space to find herself and not have to "ANSWER" or be "RESPONSIBLE" to anyone. How should I go about getting her past her past and start living again?

Tags: arguements, business venture, Conflicts, Dating A Widow, family and friends, heartbeat, job, love, six months

I used to date this girl for 2 years, loved her, cared about her, took her virginity. Alot of history there. Had our whole life planned out together. We broke up, she dated another guy for six months, I stayed single, hooked up with numerous other women. She’d still always try to talk to me when she was with him but i’d ignore her. We started talking again after he dumped her, she started talkin to me first, we’d hang out. Now we’re at a point where you can freely say we’re dealing, it’s been six months of us chilling again. Three things concern me…. 1. She told me she loves me again, I can’t say it back 2. She fucked this other guy twenty times, we had sex like twice in two years 3. She tells me she never let go of me, i always had a piece of her heart and she cared when she was with someone else…. thats a contridiciton in my opinion when she was fucking another guy or at least i don’t get how it works

Tags: alot, heart, Love Help, six months, twenty times, virginity, Whole Life

long story short: me and my ex broke up in summer 09 because lack of communication. we havent talked since, but we started talking just last month. i realized that i miss him, i miss us, i regret letting him go so easily, and im remembering everything i loved about him and i want him back!

were good friends now. he considers me as a best friend. but we flirt nonstop. when we talk on myspace and text he constantly tells me all these sweet things and he puts hearts<3 it feels like we’re together again because we hang out alot at school, and talk on the phone pretty much everyday for hours. im starting to fall for him again. i just dont know what to do. spring break is pretty much over and i get to see him at school on monday.

WHAT TO DO!?!?!?!?!?!
honest answers please, thanks!<3
-people say it looks like we’re back together because we hang out so much and we put lovey-dovey stuff on myspace.

- we were together for six months and were each other’s first loves, first everything! besides sex, we never went that far haha

Tags: best friend, good friends, hearts, honest answers, lack of communication, lt, myspace, Puts, six months, spring break, sweet things

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months now. We orginally lived in the same town, but when we met he was getting ready to relocate out of state for work. We really hit it off and decided to do the long distance relationship. We see each other often, for atleast 4-14 days every three weeks. We get along great, we talk every day for hours! Were both very happy. The only concern is that I love him and he isn’t there yet. We are both divorced but his divorce was just last year. His ex-wife was hard on him and didn’t treat him good, she cheated on him also. He has some issues he needs to work out and I knew that from the beginning. He doesn’t know when he’ll be able to fully love me because he is to afraid to love again. He loves being with me and my daughter and he is perfect for us. I am just afraid that I might be hoping one day he will be able to love me, when in actuality he won’t. After being together for six months is this something I should be concerned about?

Tags: actuality, Distance Relationship, divorce, long distance relationship, love, Relocate, six months